What would you do if your kid told you "shut up" in public

[dryst]

Was at dinner with my family, the seats were arranged like this:




we were within ear shot of the table next to us, and as they were ordering their food, the father asks his 8 or 9 yr old daughter what she wants to drink
she replies with "oh shut up" in a loud condesending voice....not a single **** was given by the dad, all he said was "well sweetie what do u want to drink?" and she just rolled her eyes and went back to talk to another family member at the table...

i was tempted to neg her ****in chin irl but calmly looked over to the father and gave him a bert stare before asking if he was going to let her talk to him like that, he just shrugged it off like it was normal


gonna be honest if that ever happens to me (ive got 2 sons) i will make sure they rue the ****in day they ever talked to me like that (let alone any adult)


am i over reacting here? is this normal in todays society for children to treat their parents like dog ****? what would u do misc?


cliffs:

-at dinner
-over hear a young kid tell her dad to shut up
-bert stare him and ask him wtf
-he doesnt care
-i rage

[GoobyPlz]

beat dat ngas ass

[sippiboy1987]

I was raised by my mom and gma.. So i'd do what they'd prolly do, smack across the face

[†ØrÇh]

I would fall on a samurai for being a failed parent.

[hobomack]

My kids are going to be nice. Don't have any at the moment.

[SmarterChild]

why is it any of ur business?

if i was the dad id tell u to stfu

[dryst]

My kids are going to be nice. Don't have any at the moment.

hypothetical question, if u did, and they said that in public....what would u do?

[brianphi]

Rue the day fo sho

[dryst]

why is it any of ur business?

if i was the dad id tell u to stfu

lol, dude cant even tell his 8 yr old daughter to stfu, he wouldnt do ****

tbh i could see the pain and sorrowfulness in his eyes when i looked at him...was kinda sad

[ectobruh]

who the is fukk stupid enough to have kids?

[djfuzzy]

I'd do what my parents would have done if I did that and smack the shyt out of them. I never back talked my parents because I knew they would beat my ass.

[Spartaperez]

I would just bertstare them, smile a little, and say ok. Every person I do this to knows that ****'s about to go down. What's gonna happen after this, no idea, but I always win in the end.

[ses1357]

lol, dude cant even tell his 8 yr old daughter to stfu, he wouldnt do ****

tbh i could see the pain and sorrowfulness in his eyes when i looked at him...was kinda sad

it's not your fukin kid you have no idea how the relationship is

[dryst]

who the is fukk stupid enough to have kids?

5'5 150....lol really? just because the opposite sex refuses to reproduce with you, dont take ur hatred out in this thread

[slameeeeedR32]

probs beat him or her the fuk up. When I was a kid and I said "this sucks"! my dad would beat the **** out of me srs

[Samsong]

I would just bertstare them, smile a little, and say ok. Every person I do this to knows that ****'s about to go down. What's gonna happen after this, no idea, but I always win in the end.

come at me bro.

[MrBojangles666]

I'd punch that little bitch right in her fuking mouth.

[bennybro]

beat them so hard it'd leave a scar for life so they'd remember never to **** with me again


notsrs

[smallwjl]

my parents would have kicked the sh!t out of me for that. don't understand how kids these days do that with no care at all

[sippiboy1987]

5'5 150....lol really? just because the opposite sex refuses to reproduce with you, dont take ur hatred out in this thread

Lol'd

[Inferne]

It's tough to say. I wouldn't want to yell and cause a scene in public. I'd probably let it slide for the moment and then when we got home let hell break loose.

[Drew23]

Fortunately my kids aren't that rude, yet. I have gotten good at quietly disciplining them (esp my 4yo son) when in a public place. I have enough things that I can take away from them and they know I don't fck around. If they get out of hand I will take them out of wherever we are and talk in a more private place. I find that you can be initially harsh without yelling and that works about 80% of the time. If that doesn't work I do the calm and quiet approach, usually make them repeat whatever it is I'm telling them to do (sit down, be quiet, be nice, etc) and then make them shake on it.

The most important thing is if you say you are going to do something, be prepared to follow through. If I say no computer for the week, then that's what happens. The worst thing (and what my wife does) is to say something like "we're not going to grammas house/your friend's party/disney world/whatever" and know that you will never follow through on that.

[dryst]

it's not your fukin kid you have no idea how the relationship is

your saying this is acceptable?

this wasnt a joke, or playful she looked directly at him, while the waitress is waiting for her order



almost exactly in this tone, then rolls her eyes and ignores him

[OfficerRodFarva]

if your kid is telling you to shut up in public, i think the problem started way before the incident. look at yourself and the environment you raised them in that they think it's ok to tell you off.

then drive home with them tied to the roof.

[7usabball]

i have a friend who tells his dad to stfu, has locked him out of the house before, etc. and he pretty much doesn't get into trouble for it


blows my mind how some parents can be so beta

[BodyBuildingGo]

I'd call the police

[SmarterChild]

lol, dude cant even tell his 8 yr old daughter to stfu, he wouldnt do ****

tbh i could see the pain and sorrowfulness in his eyes when i looked at him...was kinda sad

hes prob just depressed he had a daughter instead of a son

gonna be depressed if my future wife tells me shes pregg with a girl

[350inchvert]

My kid wouldnt dare to do thaT

[†ØrÇh]

5'5 150....lol really? just because the opposite sex refuses to reproduce with you, dont take ur hatred out in this thread

lmao. would rep but my measly rep power won't do much

[Archangel_Lost]