is it OK in your mind for your wife/girlfriend of 7 years to go out drinking with male coworkers?
is it OK for your wife/girlfriend to hang out with younger women say 21 when she's 34?
She's making me feel nuts when i know there are other guys in here that would agree with me
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Thread: is it ok for your wife/gf? (srs)
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07-27-2010, 08:52 AM #1
is it ok for your wife/gf? (srs)
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07-27-2010, 08:53 AM #2
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07-27-2010, 08:53 AM #3
- Join Date: Jan 2010
- Location: Massachusetts, United States
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- no
- no
- shes a slut
dont let her twist it into making you seem controlling or untrustworthy; women are not to be trusted and that situation ends with her cheating if she hasnt already.
which she probably has.“Foolish and wretched is the man who builds his happiness on the frail and unstable affection of a woman.”
"Wisdom is the daughter of experience" - Leonardo da Vinci
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07-27-2010, 08:54 AM #4
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #7
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- yes
- yes
- yes
she can do whatever she wants.
if she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. no point in beating yourself up over something you have no control over.
the more space and freedom you give her and the less controlling you are, the more she will respect you.
let her do what she wants. if she fuks up, it's her loss.
you can't force people to not do stuff. it just doesn't work.lilliiilliiliilliililliil
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #8
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #9
shes getting to the mid life identity crisis where attention is more required
why she is hanging out with more males and younger ones.
Not so much that she is cheating/thinking about it , she is probably feeling older, more insecure with her aging, and is seeking more attention to feel better about herself
Pay more attention to her, Tell her she is beautiful, suprise her with flowers. Let her know you are there for her.
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #10
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #11
end well this does not
I'm not cool with this either. I don't have female friends (and don't want them) and when I was single I made sure I didn't date girl's with male friends. It keeps me from having to be an azzhole about it.You are the only problem you will ever have and YOU are the only solution.
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07-27-2010, 08:55 AM #12
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07-27-2010, 08:56 AM #13
exactly.
in the past when she drinks she doesn't make good choices.
examples. caught her hugged up on a guy at bar, let guy grab her ass, let guy grab her boob, a guy from her work texted her at 2:00 am, she called him from bar that same day,
so i basically bottom lined her.
told her "if you go to the bar without me it's over"
she went to bar alone with coworkers again. i left.
i'm thinking of giving her another chance..but she's saying i'm being controlling i told her she didn't respect the boundaries of a relationship. she just doesn't get it.
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07-27-2010, 08:57 AM #17
Male coworker - No
Male coworkers - Yes
I assume you mean as a group, rather than multiple times with individual workers?
If it is staff only, no partners, then you can't exclude her from going."Testosterone levels peak during a man's late 20's but decline soon after, decreasing about 1.5 percent per year after age 30. "
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