I have journeyed over from the normal male misc section. I am not here to white knight. I have come here to get some advice from a female point of view.
Saw this girl on FB, and I wanna get to know her. We have 1 mutual friend which i have never see/spoken to in my life. Also the girl im interested we have never met or spoke.
I plan on sending her a message, would it be creepy if i do? she a few years younger than me.
For the time being I just wanna get to know her, set up a date maybe etc.
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03-24-2010, 11:53 AM #1Registered Saiyan
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Need womenz advice about this situation
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03-24-2010, 12:00 PM #2Eli Manning Crew
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Hello there, I'm here from the normal male Misc section to make the following observation:Originally Posted by OC23
Your age: 18
"few years" = 2-3 years (generally)
Her age: 15-16?
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03-24-2010, 01:04 PM #3wizard sleeve
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why don't you have a seat over there?
EDIT: ****
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03-25-2010, 06:31 AM #4Registered User
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Send her a message and let her know basically what you have told us. That you noticed her profile b/c you have a mutual friend and you are interested in getting to know her. She will check you out and if interested you'll hear back, if not then-- oh well you tried. Personally, I would not find it creepy at all.
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03-25-2010, 07:52 AM #5King of Kings
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your 18 she is a few years younger and that is probably a lie too so take another two years off of there. So here is what you say.Originally Posted by OC23
"Maybe in a few years after you have hit puberty we could go on a date."
Or you can try this option
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03-25-2010, 06:47 PM #6Coconut Oil Pusher
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilson_v._State_of_GeorgiaOriginally Posted by OC23
I think this will end well for you OP.I will try to be nicer, when you try to be smarter.
I'm the kind of girl who carries her real Glock in her fake Coach...except have a real Coach because I hate faking it.
Why do you need a side dish? Just eat the meat.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
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03-25-2010, 06:56 PM #7Canadian Bish
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OP is from Canada and Chris Hansen has no jurisdiction here.
Just sayin'
Not condemning or condoning, but when I was 15, I dated an 18 year old. Biggest mistake of my life, but maybe it will work out for OP??DAYUM!!!
"Be stronger than your vagina"
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03-25-2010, 07:04 PM #8Coconut Oil Pusher
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Yeah....when she finds out he ******** stalked her for years her panties will fall off.Originally Posted by RebeccaG
OP is from Canada and Chris Hansen has no jurisdiction here.
Just sayin'
Not condemning or condoning, but when I was 15, I dated an 18 year old. Biggest mistake of my life, but maybe it will work out for OP??I will try to be nicer, when you try to be smarter.
I'm the kind of girl who carries her real Glock in her fake Coach...except have a real Coach because I hate faking it.
Why do you need a side dish? Just eat the meat.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
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03-25-2010, 07:10 PM #9Registered User
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I have 2 daughters and there is no way I would let them date an 18 yr old. There is a big difference between 15 and 18. I don't care what anyone says, find a girl closer to your age maybe a year or 2 older.
My mother forbid me to date a guy who was 18 and I was 16...now I understand why.National Level Competitor (Female BB)
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03-25-2010, 07:14 PM #10Canadian Bish
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If only we had FB when I was young.....Originally Posted by TeresaMalia
Not the 18 year old I dated.Originally Posted by kimm4
DAYUM!!!
"Be stronger than your vagina"
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03-25-2010, 07:14 PM #11Registered User
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I'll tell you what I told my son when he turned 18:
15 will get you 20.You can throw in the towel, or you can use it to wipe the sweat off your brow.
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03-26-2010, 01:42 AM #12King of Kings
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I am the same way my daughter goes to high school next year I know there will be some trying.Originally Posted by kimm4
It is going to suck for the first one I have to make an example out of. I will grab that little **** and put my foot up his prison wallet.
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03-26-2010, 05:10 AM #13Registered User
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**** :O lol jokesss
be confident, girls like it =]
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03-26-2010, 07:53 AM #14Registered User
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After reading everyone elses responses, I have changed my mind. Probably not a good idea. I didn't even think about the **** aspects! Don't do it!
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03-26-2010, 02:45 PM #15Registered Saiyan
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lol yeah if i was a father i wouldnt let my 15 year old daughter do that too...
but still i don't want anything too physical really i just wanna get to know her still
she either hasnt read/ignored my fb msg lulz
should i just forget it or try some different kind of communication360/260/500
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03-26-2010, 02:50 PM #1610000FT High All The Time
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Be patient - or leave it alone.
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03-26-2010, 03:34 PM #17Registered User
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LOL Ok. Only a 15 year old girl would believe that.Originally Posted by OC23
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03-26-2010, 07:04 PM #18Coconut Oil Pusher
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This. You put yourself out there. You need to be done.Originally Posted by solidhadriel
I will try to be nicer, when you try to be smarter.
I'm the kind of girl who carries her real Glock in her fake Coach...except have a real Coach because I hate faking it.
Why do you need a side dish? Just eat the meat.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
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03-26-2010, 07:25 PM #19Registered User
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^^ I agree with this!! ^^Originally Posted by wbk3331
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03-26-2010, 07:57 PM #20Whiskey..Tango..Foxtrot
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03-26-2010, 11:04 PM #21Registered Saiyan
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is it really that bad? shes like 2 months from16
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03-27-2010, 01:01 AM #22King of Kings
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If my duaghter told me or I read her FB and some random 18yo guy was writing her on. I would tell her to invite him over. Then I rip his arm off and beat the living hell out of him with it. But I am a pretty intrusive parent some might not care.Originally Posted by OC23
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03-27-2010, 07:14 AM #23Registered User
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Bad? Idk, it's all situational. I dated a guy when I was 16 who was 18 BUT my parents had been neighbors with his parents for years and I kind of grew up with the guy. We ended up dating for 3 years off and on and had a mutual break up because we just wanted different things in life.Originally Posted by OC23
That being said, you seem like a nice guy but I can also see the parents side of being against you contacting her. I have a thing to say to all the parents in this thread - younger generations are growing up from a very young age with social networking always in front of them. It wouldn't surprise me if sites like ******** and Twitter and Myspace became very big players in their young adult lives... Aka a way to meet/expand their friend pool and possibly end up dating someone they met online.
On the contrary, I DO agree that anyone met online should be taken with high skepticism no matter what age the people are that are communicating. My suggestion, sit down with your kids (girls AND boys) and explain this to them and teach them how to be smart (ie- not give away personal information to strangers such as their last name, address, phone #, email) when in situations like this. Also if they ever plan to meet someone from online, to do so in a VERY public place that you are already highly familiar with, during the day, and to always let a friend or family member know where you are going and that you will call them once the meeting is over (or possibly even have that friend or parent pick them up later).
In this case, since the girl is so young, I would probably suggest a group hangout somewhere like at the mall or arcade or something. I can pretty much garrentee everyone's kids out there are going to get into some sort of situation that parents don't approve of, so let's feed these kids with the knowledge to make SMART choices of the "acceptable" way to react if they should be in these situations.
I don't know if this has been said, but do you know how close you are distance wise to this girl? Like would it even be possible to hang out with her if the occasion should present itself?
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03-27-2010, 07:30 AM #24Registered User
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FWIW, depending on where he lives 15 probably isn't illegal. In some states the age of consent is 14. In others it's higher, but if you are within a certain age buffer (usually three years) it's not illegal, so as in this case an 18 yo with a 15 yo would be legal... just don't take her picture. You just have to check the laws in your area to see what is / isn't legal.
That being said, I can't imagine dating a girl that young. I actually find even most of the girls my age are still pretty immature, I've been dating girls older than me.
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03-27-2010, 10:43 AM #25King of Kings
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If you have to check the local laws to see if the girls is old enough to date welllll I think it is probably not the best of ideas.Originally Posted by scelusweb
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03-28-2010, 08:07 AM #26Registered User
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thisOriginally Posted by dunkonu9
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03-28-2010, 11:41 AM #27Registered User
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Well yes this is obviously true. But who knows, maybe they will end up being great friends at first and then have a relationship later in life. This whole this is completely hypothetical and there are many possible outcomes. But like everyone always says, "you never know until you try..."Originally Posted by dunkonu9
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03-29-2010, 03:42 AM #28King of Kings
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Yeah this may be true but as a father with a daughter that age. I am pretty sure that some random 18yo dude starts talking to her on FB I am pretty sure I know the outcome already.Originally Posted by blue-orchid
I don't know at 18 I did not see dating a chick that age. I mean even when I was working in a pizza joint in college there were some cute young girls that worked there but I can't say I was ever thinking about getting with them I can't deal with immaturity and if someone wants to give me the 15-16yo girls are mature speech you can save that **** for someone that does not know any better.
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03-29-2010, 05:10 AM #29Registered User
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Sounds like me...the female version...Originally Posted by dunkonu9
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03-29-2010, 11:01 AM #30King of Kings
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Just like you... well you got bigger musclesOriginally Posted by kimm4
Sounds like me...the female version...
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