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10-13-2012, 09:27 AM #211
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10-13-2012, 09:36 AM #212
women produce loads of oxytocin during sex. women can get pregnant. divorce rates/infidelity is strongly correlated with number of sex partners for women (not men). women who sleep around are more likely to be depressed than men who do the same. promiscuous women are more likely to have a "poor emotional state" (not men). etc etc...
there are numerous studies on this that all paint the same picture. men handle casual sex and multiple partners a lot better than women.
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10-13-2012, 09:37 AM #213
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10-13-2012, 09:59 AM #214
My question to you was if you acctually believe that people who have lots of sex generally are emotionally damaged.
People with emotional problems have a tendency to act more over the top. Sexually as well, which could point to the fact that people with emotional problems could be commonly found among promiscuous people, not that all promiscuous people are emotionally damaged.
And yes, depression is probably more common among promiscuous women, since they are judged harshly. Promiscuous men are not, so no need for depression.
And numerous studies... well, there are always studies. It doesnt mean they have validity or reliability.
Well, this is not exactly staying on course with the topic, so I´ll leave it at this.
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10-13-2012, 10:08 AM #215
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10-13-2012, 10:13 AM #216
in general, the more partners a woman has had, the more emotionally damaged she is. i'm not claiming a direct causal link here, but rather that the two are linked. however, that does not mean prudes are emotionally well off and stable. promiscuity is just one factor in all of this.
i find this to be fairly true. the women i've dated who's been with 20+ guys or so, have all been disturbed to one degree or another. usually insecure and extreme attention whores.
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10-13-2012, 10:31 AM #217
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10-13-2012, 10:35 AM #218
Let me chime in and say, case by case...
I mean, for a woman to have a high number of partners in the first place could mean she is already damaged. Maybe she is of the "live laugh love" generation and hasn't realized the long term effects her history chart will have when tring to settle down? Lots of variables. But there will always be a beta that will be accepting of her past.*LEO crew*
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10-13-2012, 10:37 AM #219
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10-13-2012, 10:58 AM #220
Ok gentlemen, how about this scenario then.
My ex used to constantly ask me (during sex) what I've done with other guys. I haven't had many partners, and at first I thought he wanted assurance of that. So I would give it to him.
But he would ask again and again, and it occurred to me that it turns him on to think of me with other guys. When I would answer his questions, he would then ask more, in detail about what I did to them, if they got hard, etc, and I found it very bizarre and it created a very impersonal gap.
I felt like he WANTED me to have a slutty past.
Outside of sex, sometimes I'd gently ask him the meaning of these questions but he didn't really want to answer me.
...wut?
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10-13-2012, 12:10 PM #221
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10-13-2012, 03:00 PM #222
Yes it wasn't the number of guys, but rather what I did to them.
Also we've been together for a while, and I always listened to his body (his response to my touch in various areas). So with time I learned his body and what he likes. Sometimes he'd tell me I am very good at doing _____ , and then ask how did I get so good at it.
It really weirded me out that he wanted me to say that it's because I've been with many guys and that's how I got good.
Like it's just a skill I have instead of it being the result of a personal bond and catering to what he likes.
Made me feel very awkward and like he wanted to have sex with some fantasy persona and not me.
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10-13-2012, 03:06 PM #223
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10-13-2012, 03:17 PM #224
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10-13-2012, 03:18 PM #225
It doesn't matter to me but I do lol at the women who spread their legs for the football team in high school/college and then five years later think her vagina is made of gold when she wants to settle down.
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10-13-2012, 03:23 PM #226
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10-13-2012, 03:46 PM #227
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10-13-2012, 03:48 PM #228
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