People are like, ''you're never gonna get married? Have fun being lonely in your 40s-50s+'' It somehow implies that NOTHING CAN GO WRONG by marrying and that you'll become happy/ less lonely
Sure, if you marry a great woman and you guys have kids and she doesn't divorce
Is it true for the man who got ****ed over by his wife/the system, got divorced, can barely sees his kids? or for the guy whose ex wife has fed his kids with made up stories about him so they begin to hate him while he works his ass off every single day to ****ing support them? (child support and ****). Even if they don't hate you, theyll start having their own lives, rarely visit you and you're still lonely. (Unless you find the mythic faithful kind woman that will stay by your sides forever,have fun betting on that one tho)
and then you're 40/50, broke,lonely, u might find another kunt to marry and the same scenario might happen again.
(If your kids don't hate you and visit u often,its good then) or if your new wife is a good person it's good but that **** is like winning the lotto, 0.0000000000000000001227....350% probability
Play safe
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05-19-2014, 03:28 PM #1
Why do people assume that staying single= miserable life. And marrying=happy life?
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05-19-2014, 03:29 PM #2Registered User
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It's what you're supposed to do brah. Better follow the rules.
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05-19-2014, 03:30 PM #3Registered User
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05-19-2014, 03:31 PM #4Registered Loser
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It's funny cause I've heard the exact opposite
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05-19-2014, 03:31 PM #5Let me ban bro
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I dunno but I wish they'd shtapp and let people do want they want in peace nomsayin.
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05-19-2014, 03:32 PM #6Not gonna make it
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I get that a lot.
And fuking cliffs/paragraphs u *******.Not gonna make it crew
Hope to be dead b4 60 crew.
No marriage crew (at least with western girls)
I keep it real, G.
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05-19-2014, 03:32 PM #7Registered User
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no idea brah. my parents are getting on my case because i haven't had anything close to a gf for 8 months now. they keep bringing up how they were married at my age, lol i have 0 time for anything more than fwb
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05-19-2014, 03:32 PM #8Dymatizing
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Idk. I actually assume the opposite lol.
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05-19-2014, 03:33 PM #9Registered User
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Because since most people get married , they look bad upon others that do something different and who don't follow their ideals.
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05-19-2014, 03:34 PM #10Zero Supplementation
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got married 10 months ago, happier than ever.It is amazing feeling to have someone care so much for you. B there for you no matter what.Do anything you want.
Its like rebirth. As a child wehad our parents give us what we desire, now I have my wife.
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05-19-2014, 03:40 PM #11most hated
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I guess you have never heard of the honeymoon phase. Either way enjoy it while it last, statistics aren't on your side.Originally Posted by TurkBrah
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05-19-2014, 03:40 PM #12dude did you really become a mod or were you always a mod?Originally Posted by MissChill
Were you the girl i was insulting and calling a dumb kunt not so long ago?
Did you ever argue in a feminism thread? (Just curiosity) cause i might mistake you for someone else
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05-19-2014, 03:41 PM #13I hav got sum bad nuwz broOriginally Posted by TurkBrah
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05-19-2014, 03:41 PM #14
i know that feel
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05-19-2014, 03:43 PM #15Let me ban bro
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Been a mod for about 6 months m'ladyOriginally Posted by DeShawn123
Doubt I was in a feminism thread though lel☆ pUniCepts Appreciation Crew ☆ Owner ☆ Σ ☆
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05-19-2014, 03:45 PM #16Banned
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05-19-2014, 03:45 PM #17Lol, it'd be more credible if you were married for a long time as marriages always start rosy. Can never judge it until like after 5 years.Originally Posted by TurkBrah
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05-19-2014, 03:48 PM #18Registered User
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You can win or loose either way so be carefull and choose wisely.
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05-19-2014, 03:49 PM #19Registered User
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i think you have that backwards OP
life is a constant struggle. conquer yourself, before the world conquers you.
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05-19-2014, 03:49 PM #20Registered User
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Because they aren't happy with themselves, and seek acceptance and validation from others.
Pretty fukkin lame if you ask me.
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"got married 10 months ago, happier than ever.It is amazing feeling to have someone care so much for you. B there for you no matter what.Do anything you want.
Its like rebirth. As a child wehad our parents give us what we desire, now I have my wife."
Divorce by 10 years.The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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05-19-2014, 03:50 PM #21Registered User
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" Lycurgus also put a kind of public stigma upon confirmed bachelors. They were excluded from the sight of the young men and maidens at their exercises, and in winter the magistrates ordered them to march round the market-place in their tunics only, and as they marched, they sang a certain song about themselves, and its burden was that they were justly punished for disobeying the laws. Besides this, they were deprived of the honour and gracious attentions which the young men habitually paid to their elders. Therefore there was no one to find fault with what was said to Dercyllidas, reputable general though he was. As he entered a company, namely, one of the younger men would not offer him his seat, but said: "Indeed, thou hast begotten no son who will one day give his seat to me." - Plutarch Lives' Lycurgus of Sparta
It is time honored that men who do not further the society with children, do not shape its future.
Its hard to justify modern choices and failings with thousands of years of tradition. Modern life dictates that not everyone can reproduce or the world would explode with population, yet the men who dont are still looked at as failures.For every man, there is a sentence, a string of words, that has the power to destroy him
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Shall not be Infringed. FUK CHINA.
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05-19-2014, 03:51 PM #22Registered User
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Why does every married guy tell me not to get married?Why do they look upon me with jealousy when I'm banging a new sloot every month?Why do I look upon them with pity?
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05-19-2014, 03:52 PM #23Don't want to sound rude but UNLESS YOU ARE A WOMAN WHO LIVES IN AFRICA/INDIA/AFGHANISTAN or other 3rd world places (no hate) you have no right to try and feel the same feels we're currently feeling concerning our feelings towards marriageOriginally Posted by Violettt
You probably have the ''LUL GON GET DRUNK,**** FACED, FUK EVERY GUYS ON EARTH. IM A BAD INDEPENDANT BITCH WHO DON'T NEED NO MAN,DONT WANT TO BE TIED LOL, GON GET BORED AFTER ****ING THE SAME DICK FOR AGES,NEED TO FUK AS MANY DICK AS POSSIBLE LUL,SO FUK GETTING MARRIED CUZ THIS PUSSY OF MINE SURE AINT GETTING TIED DOWN'' mentality,that's why you're against marriage
But we are genuine worries,like getting royally ****ed up but divorce laws and ****,not being able to see your kids and be driven to the edge of suicide because of that ****
My mom told me today the situation of one of her coworkers who was gonna get retired this year. He was all set up and **** and then his wife decides to split with him JUST BEFORE HE ****ING RETIRES, SO SHE TAKES HALF HIS ****ING ****. So he decides to keep working for 3-4 years (He's ****ing 62) in order to save up a little bit more money but he knows that it won't be enough.He's depressed as ****. AND ****ING GUESS WHAT?!?!?!? 85% OF THE FEMALE COWORKERS MAKES FUN OF HIM/LAUGH AT HIM BEHIND HIS BACK FOR LOSING HALF HIS **** JUST BEFORE GETTING RETIRED. (My mom hears all their ****ing ****s, i swear this is the kind of **** that makes people go bat**** crazy insane) ****...now i'm raging, thanks alot ....
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I hate *******s that say this, nobody gives a chit about your honeymoon phase.Originally Posted by TurkBrah
Come back in 10 years and then I'll listen.
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05-19-2014, 03:55 PM #25Not gonna make it
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This! It's after the honeymoon phase is where things go really downhill.Originally Posted by InfinityThor
Not gonna make it crew
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No marriage crew (at least with western girls)
I keep it real, G.
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05-19-2014, 03:55 PM #26Registered User
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Oh its this thread again. For every happy marriage I know of, I can count 5 that didnt last or are miserable.
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05-19-2014, 03:56 PM #27Dymatizing
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05-19-2014, 03:58 PM #28Rand Paul 2016
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I don't know about not being happy with themselvesOriginally Posted by Hussar1
Im a firm believer we aren't meant to be alone.Sig line rules
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05-19-2014, 03:59 PM #29Registered User
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Just as an interesting note. Studies show that married people are happier. However, their happiness didn't increase because of marriage, it's just that happier people are more likely to get married. After a fairly short "honeymoon period", their happiness falls to roughly the level it was at prior to marriage.
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05-19-2014, 04:00 PM #30Registered User
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The guy who's been married a whopping 10 months proves my point. Look what he wrote...."feels like being reborn. Having parents take care of you", etc...etc..etc..Originally Posted by PointBreak85
That relationship is so fukked I'm surprised they've made it 10 months.The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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