Official No fap Thread V4. Let get this shiz started. v3 is gone.

[MeatFalafel]

Then you're doing it wrong. It's not just about eye contact, you have to have an approachable frame and body language to accompany it.

With that combination, anyone who takes it upon themselves to be offended has deep seated psychological issues and ergo are none of your concern.

I once had a fat bish report me to my manager for "staring at her". I merely told him I did what I do to every customer; maintain eye contact as stated in my customer service training. He dropped the subject quickly.

I think you're missing my point.. I'm not talking about some fat bish customer in a retail store. Where is the risk of violence there?

Some men get very aggressive when you extend eye contact beyond a glance. Are you suggesting it's worth a physical altercation with someone who's a potential nutcase just over the principle of holding eye contact? Maybe it's different in cities than in more rural areas (noted you're from Shropshire).

I will eye**** girls on the regular and I'm not afraid of staring guys down per se, but if they look psycho it's just not worth it.. Has got me into so much **** in the past.

[bpatient]

Guys any advice for getting past day 2 of no fap, I just failed again I always make it past 1 day then the 2nd day I find myself keep thinking about it

[IZionLionI]

Today marks 42 days. Six weeks completed, I'm deep in on this **** now! Keep it going bros.

Also, MBD, this is real **** you're posting. I also didn't know how big this was for your life. Stay strong brah and best wishes.

[Adrogeus]

So the founder of Youporn, and apparently the "biggest porn king of all time" has been jailed. He's being extradited to Germany for tax evasion charges.

Today he heads the company Manwin, which he founded. Driven from hubs in Canada and Luxemburg, the company owns over 35 subsidiaries and brands such as Youporn, Brazzers, Pornhub, Tube8 and Mydirtyhobby.

Their products – sex videos catering to every imaginable fetish – may be filthy, but the business is lucrative. This is less because of that old saying "sex sells" than the fact that Thylmann has developed an effective porn business model for the Internet. This is the very thing that people in the music, film and news sectors are still trying desperately to figure out.

Users can consume all the pornographic content they want for free on the Manwin empire’s many web pages, a number of which rank among the 100 top-visited sites in the world. They are visited more often than the New York Times, for example, and are in the same league as ********, Google and Twitter.

http://www.worldcrunch.com/business-...neur/c2s10387/

[centrelink1]

fuk depression in the fukking mouth brah, your young grab your balls and scream and start everyday like your gonna go into battle.
every girl you walk past imagine her finger banging herself to the thought of you, now smile as you think about that, thats how you should smile at her as she passes.

Lol'd at this.

Yeah the relapse was heart breaking, but I've got an army of cheeky kunts behind me and failure is just not an option. I read every post of yours and I know how difficult this has been for you. At the same time I know how close you are to making it. I know how your brain is trying to deceive you into believing that you aren't really gaining anything. It is just a trick because your brain is craving that dopamine hit.

It's pretty miserable right at the moment, but I don't want to quit. I'm starting to cope better with these moodswings though. I think I'm becoming a more stable human being, which is good.

Day 7 today. A girl flaked on me for a drinks date on Wednesday and i met another girl on Wednesday. I could potentially plow both with some effort, but i've been hit with dat dere depression. Been feeling lazy and unmotivated in all areas of life. Fuark.

It'll pass, brah. Fapping is just hiding from your depression. It isn't a genuine feeling of pleasure.

Day 40 here. Feeling downright miserable and deflated, but I'm really beginning to notice a yin/yang feeling. There can be no sadness without happiness, and no happiness without sadness. Truth and deceit work the same way.

[Maiar]

15 days but i think i will go back to zero tonight. srs.

think of how much of a piece of sh-t you'll feel when you do it. I've failed at 30 days, I couldn't even report it in the no fap thread I was so ashamed.

Take control of your life.

[nicko44]

i remember a no fap thread ages ago and a miscer wrote like 4 paragraphs on why you should fap 2-3 times a week (without using pron) because it is "naturual" and "needed" for balance in your body and doing no fap is wrong and can be damaging i.e. monks/priests suffer very low test levels due to no fap

[Adrogeus]

Day 40 here. Feeling downright miserable and deflated, but I'm really beginning to notice a yin/yang feeling. There can be no sadness without happiness, and no happiness without sadness. Truth and deceit work the same way.

^^^ I had a bad day today too, feeling sad and unmotivated. But that's right about the yin and yang thing. You win, you lose; you pass, you fail; you're with friends, you're alone; sun and rain, etc. Or like the start of Ecclesiastes 3.

I considered fapping today briefly, but I know that it would only make me worse in the end. Even when I was reading a news website, a major paper in france, and there was a picture of "The Origin of the World", a famous painting of a naked bish who's just been plowed (i don't recommend looking it up for guys who are a little more horny than me now), and I thought "hey let's fap", but I knew it would be pathetic and meaningless, all before I got angry at the paper for having that on there.

We'll pull through though...just don't give up and we'll be free before we know it.

[HunterMC6]

i remember a no fap thread ages ago and a miscer wrote like 4 paragraphs on why you should fap 2-3 times a week (without using pron) because it is "naturual" and "needed" for balance in your body and doing no fap is wrong and can be damaging i.e. monks/priests suffer very low test levels due to no fap

The problem with this is fapping for 99% of males is always associated with porn, I bet it's pretty high with females too there are just not as many of them that admit to watching porn. If you have ever fapped without porn what do you think about? I would bet a majority of people think about that last porn scene they watched. Even though it might not be the same as watching porn and jerking we are still making the association.

If you have to get your rocks off 2 or 3 times a week get a GF or a FWB, real sex trumps masturbation every time, and if it doesn't then you have a psycological issue you need to deal with

[ShefBrah]

Hey guys,

I'm here to come to terms with my problem. Despite doing two ~130 day streaks (and many more smaller ones) I always relapse and am sick to death of it. I was part of the original thread and started doing no fap December 2011. Since then it has greatly improved my life.

But, I've hit a low point and have fapped the last two days (with pron) and feel like absolute chit for it. I figure if I start checking in on this thread you guys can help give me the strength to rid my life of pron once and for all.

This is day one. I won't let you guys down.

[PatHead]

Hey guys,

I'm here to come to terms with my problem. Despite doing two ~130 day streaks (and many more smaller ones) I always relapse and am sick to death of it. I was part of the original thread and started doing no fap December 2011. Since then it has greatly improved my life.

But, I've hit a low point and have fapped the last two days (with pron) and feel like absolute chit for it. I figure if I start checking in on this thread you guys can help give me the strength to rid my life of pron once and for all.

This is day one. I won't let you guys down.

I remember your name from the original thread, it's funny how we keep coming back to this thread despite relapsing and failing.

Glad to see a lot of the people from the original thread still doing this. This thread is a true brotherhood inside of a larger community. A community that can be unruly, downright disgusting at times, but threads like these keep me coming back.

Stay strong kents.

[hmichaelt]

Hey guys,

I'm here to come to terms with my problem. Despite doing two ~130 day streaks (and many more smaller ones) I always relapse and am sick to death of it. I was part of the original thread and started doing no fap December 2011. Since then it has greatly improved my life.

But, I've hit a low point and have fapped the last two days (with pron) and feel like absolute chit for it. I figure if I start checking in on this thread you guys can help give me the strength to rid my life of pron once and for all.

This is day one. I won't let you guys down.

im on day 1 too. all we can do is move forward from here.

[Ittoryu]

34 days in brahs. Dat no libido still here, thought it'd be over by now but still there. Had a wet dream the other day which wasn't as huge a load as I thought, but I never have wet dreams so it was surprising (but it felt so fukkin good).

Got midterm exams this week, and after that I'm thinking of cold approaching a girl a day. Not sure how that'll pan out, but I need some female vagina creatures. Would be cool if we could get an approach a day chain, along with the no fap chain going (at least for the brahs who don't have girlfriends or girls around to bang). Share our stories daily and improve each other that way. If other's are down I'd be more than willing to start a chain and/or thread for it. Let's take this chit a step further bruhs.

[snowyowl]

think of how much of a piece of sh-t you'll feel when you do it. I've failed at 30 days, I couldn't even report it in the no fap thread I was so ashamed.

Take control of your life.

yeah brah i gotta stay strong.

[Citric]

I wish people would post actual descriptions of results they've gotten physically and mentally instead of treating the thread as a personal log. As much I am happy that people are succeeding, what would truly motivate people would be pages filled with great benefits that they've gotten from no fap. Last 30+ pages are just logs and people encouraging each other to keep going (which is great, but posts that talk about real benefits they've gotten would be much more encouraging/motivating).

[IZionLionI]

34 days in brahs. Dat no libido still here, thought it'd be over by now but still there. Had a wet dream the other day which wasn't as huge a load as I thought, but I never have wet dreams so it was surprising (but it felt so fukkin good).

Got midterm exams this week, and after that I'm thinking of cold approaching a girl a day. Not sure how that'll pan out, but I need some female vagina creatures. Would be cool if we could get an approach a day chain, along with the no fap chain going (at least for the brahs who don't have girlfriends or girls around to bang). Share our stories daily and improve each other that way. If other's are down I'd be more than willing to start a chain and/or thread for it. Let's take this chit a step further bruhs.

The Approach-A-Day chain sounds like a great idea. I don't see myself having long streaks at all for that, haha.

[Ittoryu]

The Approach-A-Day chain sounds like a great idea. I don't see myself having long streaks at all for that, haha.

It's all good bro, the point is to improve. I think I've got a pretty awesome idea for it that'll force people to improve. I already wrote up a post for it that I'm currently proof-reading, going to post it soon if more brahs seem to be interdasted (will post here once I do)! I've got exams this week so I really gotta' kill the studying instead of going out, so I won't start until Feb. 17, but it'll give people time to become more aware of it.

[TX23]

dear diary,

Today is day 6, I could not control my urges. I am out

[PatHead]

I wish people would post actual descriptions of results they've gotten physically and mentally instead of treating the thread as a personal log. As much I am happy that people are succeeding, what would truly motivate people would be pages filled with great benefits that they've gotten from no fap. Last 30+ pages are just logs and people encouraging each other to keep going (which is great, but posts that talk about real benefits they've gotten would be much more encouraging/motivating).

don't know if you've seen this, but it is exactly what you were describing

http://www.reuniting.info/download/pdf/0.BENEFITS.pdf

150+ pages of benefits from abstaining from PMO

I downloaded the pdf and have it on my desktop to open from time-to-time

[Tax843]

I'm back on it brah! 4 days down. This time I'm going to shoot for reasonable goals such as 2 weeks at first, then increase it.

Been noticing mood swings just like last streak.

Although this time, it seems like I'm becoming a cync. Not sure if its because of "no fap" or just triggered by something else (might have an idea of what that is)

But in general. I can control urges at the moment!

[AncientBeast2]

In i just fapped even tho i didn't feel like it and i wanna stop!

[mntbikedude]

Congrats to our Feb Kunts

Aim2maim 2 weeks
silver arrow 1 week
Marhqwl 1 week
cano23 1 week

Adrogeus and Meatfalafe both coming up on 3 weeks ( I seriously need you brahs to hang in there)

And kudos of Big77 for jumpin right back in

And good to see the Taxenator back in.

[centrelink1]

I wish people would post actual descriptions of results they've gotten physically and mentally instead of treating the thread as a personal log. As much I am happy that people are succeeding, what would truly motivate people would be pages filled with great benefits that they've gotten from no fap. Last 30+ pages are just logs and people encouraging each other to keep going (which is great, but posts that talk about real benefits they've gotten would be much more encouraging/motivating).

That's a nice sentiment, but really you should stop fapping and see for yourself.

[mntbikedude]

That's a nice sentiment, but really you should stop fapping and see for yourself.

Good answer Aussie brah

[ShefBrah]

im on day 1 too. all we can do is move forward from here.

Make a pact with me then: No more failure, no more relapses.

[mntbikedude]

MBD, I had no idea how serious this was for you. I was rattled when you last relapsed, but reading that just left me heartbroken.
I'm on day 61 right now, and I likely wouldn't be if it wasn't for your cheeky kunt initiative
It's indescribable how much you've helped me, and now it feels like my turn to try to help you.
I'm going to PM you my number. If you feel like you are going to relapse, I want you to call me, any time, day or night and I'll talk you out of it.

No words brah no words

Day whatever since 2013. Only one nocturnal emission (was on Day 14).

So awesome that you lost count.

Snap I know this feel.

Day 58 and arm day. Was strutting around in a beater with dat pump and caught this little cardio bunny. Held her gaze and damn her eyes were so lush I almost got a boner right there and then.

Never appreciated stuff like this before my streak.

60 days bro nearly there and one heck of a streak. Nice those feels that emerge

Inspirational as fuk man.. for real. Just reading your post alone gives me a good enough reason to continue with no fap for as long as I want. We're all gonna make it

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Thanks and congrats bro and you're right we're all gonna make it.

As the master race of this world, we must accept any challenge.

You kill me Cody

Day 39 brahs. Want to say thanks to feelsg00dmayne, his post always motivate me and give me this will to be the best I can be. Thanks for everything broski.

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Congrats bruh on 39 and I agree feelsg00dmayne has amazing talent, love his motivational posts. One night I just put on the headphones and tried to soak it all in.

I've made it to day 5 without any problems as of yet, haven't even been active in this thread but I just read MBD's post and I felt exactly the same, heartbroken. Just wanted to say that's a really thoughtful and considerate gesture Yashkovich and a great way to support a guy who I'm truly rooting for

So good to see you back. That's exactly how I felt when you relapsed. Up until then it was all fun and games. Your lapse is when I kinda started to realize just how real this **** was gonna get.

Today marks 42 days. Six weeks completed, I'm deep in on this **** now! Keep it going bros.

Also, MBD, this is real **** you're posting. I also didn't know how big this was for your life. Stay strong brah and best wishes.

Thanks and I don't think most of us realize how big this is for all our life's. Thanks for your example you add so much here.

We'll pull through though...just don't give up and we'll be free before we know it.

before we know brah before we know it

I'm back on it brah! 4 days down. This time I'm going to shoot for reasonable goals such as 2 weeks at first, then increase it.

Been noticing mood swings just like last streak.


But in general. I can control urges at the moment!

Always glad to see you get up one more time. We all can control urges one moment at a time brah one moment at a time. Always push the limits, if you never fail you will never succeed. I know you will succeed Tax.

[hmichaelt]

Make a pact with me then: No more failure, no more relapses.

Im with you bro. 90 day no fap here we go.

[Nocks]

Day 20... had my first wet dream ever while napping today, feelsweirdman. Didn't even had one when I went 45 days no-fap. Had a dream where a girl sucked my dink for literally 5 seconds and I woke up and starting busting everywhere lulz

[defyant]

Had to restart 2 weeks ago. At day 16 now, feels great to finally pass the 2 week mark!

[WhirlwindTobias]

I am on my phone, and have work soon but I have time to respond to Meats post.

I think you're missing my point.

If we're talking about guys exclusively, I learnt from pick-up not to hold 100% contact anyway as it's bad male-male etiquette.

Like going to the next urinal if there's enough available for a gap...so we're on the same page just for different reasons.