Why so many men in the US have stopped working

[BigBallsMcgee]

Are you saying marriage will fix all single man's problems?

What about

-The men in miserable marriages?
-The men who's wife don't have sex with them?
-The men who have to pay thousands in child support?
-The men who lost their house and now rent expensive dumps?

Nah, you dont have to literally be married. Im saying WOMEN and SEX will motivate men to work.

If these men do not want to get married, thats fine but the basic idea of 'if you work hard and make money women will sleep with you' is a trade most men are willing to make.

[MikeLowrrrey]

Nah, you dont have to literally be married. Im saying WOMEN and SEX will motivate men to work.

If these men do not want to get married, thats fine but the basic idea of 'if you work hard and make money women will sleep with you' is a trade most men are willing to make.

Why do you think single men aren't getting sex?

[N0stradamus]

Thats interesting. I'm very ugly yet i've beem working for close to 30 years.

I am manlet, I am Indian, I an single with no family, Ill be 48 next week...

and I still work. Because its called being an adult.

Why make this thread about yourself? This is a BBMG thread.

[blueberryboy]

being single your entire life with no relationship or family isnt an adult life style to begin with.

Sure it is - not everyone is destined for that type of thing .

You put way way way too much stock into " if YOu DonT HAVe a WiFe and kidS you aren't a maN"

It's like your inexperience shines thru - you think getting married and having kids must be a story book fairy tale. It doesnt end up like that for all. Some it might

Like I said the rich chad gets divorced, cheated on too. We all just have to try our luck

[Issobolic28]

Why make this thread about yourself? This is a BBMG thread.

Good point. Ill stop.

[BigBallsMcgee]

While I myself am a Giga-Incel, I'm happy to work because I like money and I like buying nice things for myself. I also want to use my income to escortmaxx

But i'm an incel thats currently unemployed because no company will hire me. i dont get it... i have a college degree, 7 years of work experience, no criminal record, good resume and cover letter, and I get plenty of interviews but I always get the "at this time we have moved on to other candidates who fit our needs" email everytime

Guys, I'm tellling you it's because I'm ugly. Studies show good looking people are more likely to get jobs

the economy is terrible right now its not you.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Why do you think single men aren't getting sex?

the basic cliff notes is that women are empowered and dont need billy beta anymore. They're all gravitating to a subset of men who are elite or attractive, leaving a huge number of men with no options.

[outfoxxed]

Bbmg is right though. Working is about status and providing for your family. A man only needs status if he’s trying to get poon, garner respect or to self actualize.

Sure if you’re a Mexican, you work some minimum wage job because it puts food on the table but if you can access food via leeching off society then you have no real reason to work.

I actually support the rejection of work by men. Less competition in the labor market and a rejection of a gynocentric society can only be good for men. A silent form of protest if you will

[blueberryboy]

Are you saying marriage will fix all single man's problems?

What about

-The men in miserable marriages?
-The men who's wife don't have sex with them?
-The men who have to pay thousands in child support?
-The men who lost their house and now rent expensive dumps?

THIS 100 %

This is where op inexperience shines thru majorly

He thinks wife and kids will fix society's problems ...it won't. Also thinks it will fix everyone's personality defects...absolutely not

Op is viewing this issue from a very inexperienced pov

[MikeLowrrrey]

the basic cliff notes is that women are empowered and dont need billy beta anymore. They're all gravitating to a subset of men who are elite or attractive, leaving a huge number of men with no options.

But why do I see short/average men with a woman with them everywhere I go? Grocery store, the zoo, a baseball game, I always see below average/average men with a women. Why do you think that's the case?

[sf813]

While I myself am a Giga-Incel, I'm happy to work because I like money and I like buying nice things for myself. I also want to use my income to escortmaxx

But i'm an incel thats currently unemployed because no company will hire me. i dont get it... i have a college degree, 7 years of work experience, no criminal record, good resume and cover letter, and I get plenty of interviews but I always get the "at this time we have moved on to other candidates who fit our needs" email everytime

Guys, I'm tellling you it's because I'm ugly. Studies show good looking people are more likely to get jobs

Maybe if you spent the same effort in job searching that you do making threads about how you want to lick some black guy's butthole and how you're an incel using 100+ alts, you might have better luck

[Issobolic28]

I always see below average/average men with a women. Why do you think that's the case?

Its because why 2 people are attracted to each other is a complex thing.

[blueberryboy]

But why do I see short/average men with a woman with them everywhere I go? Grocery store, the zoo, a baseball game, I always see below average/average men with a women. Why do you think that's the case?

Because they are men that believe in themselves at a core level . That simple. Are you surprised that girls arent feeling ops attitude? I'm not

[BigBallsMcgee]

Sure it is - not everyone is destined for that type of thing .

You put way way way too much stock into " if YOu DonT HAVe a WiFe and kidS you aren't a maN"

It's like your inexperience shines thru - you think getting married and having kids must be a story book fairy tale. It doesnt end up like that for all. Some it might

Like I said the rich chad gets divorced, cheated on too. We all just have to try our luck

Well look, I realize western culture is getting weird and telling everyone to be dogmoms or whatever but im Nigerian.

You arent a man if you dont raise a family. thats the entire point. You get a wife and kids and continue your family. And thats why you work. The notion that you would be content being alone your entire life makes absolutely no sense in the context of my culture.

For what? What else is life for? So you can dikck around the entire time? No. Thats for children. A man is supposed to work and sacrifice for the family.

[BigBallsMcgee]

But why do I see short/average men with a woman with them everywhere I go? Grocery store, the zoo, a baseball game, I always see below average/average men with a women. Why do you think that's the case?

The same reason you see some fat women who are married despite the fact that most men are repulsed by them.

There are exceptions.

[tehgosu]

But there's plenty of incentive to work?


Buying a house, a motorcycle, and being able to travel whether it's road trips or going overseas.

can't travel more than once, twice tops a year when you gotta work and you gotta work to pay off that house and motorcycle

must be nice if those things bring enough incentive

[BigBallsMcgee]

Because they are men that believe in themselves at a core level . That simple. Are you surprised that girls arent feeling ops attitude? I'm not

Stop this just world nonsense. I myself have had some gfs before. I didnt change. it comes down to luck and odds and the less attractive you are the worse your odds are.

Its getting to the point where the odds are not worth the effort anymore for lower tier men.

[blueberryboy]

The average man would be content living a peasant life. He really doesn’t need much to be content. Like kormo

I make 200k+ and spend a fraction of it. Income is just a high score for men. The average man does not need much money to survive and live life

My life did not change when i made less than 100k compared to now. Maybe my ego went up.

But if you don’t want to play the game then might as well be NEET.

Kormo has his mom as a slave. Most people don't have that option nor would see that a desirable option.

You can't use him as an example.

[MikeLowrrrey]

The same reason you see some fat women who are married despite the fact that most men are repulsed by them.

There are exceptions.

Exception would be a small portion no? Also the women I typically see with those men aren't bad looking.


All the places I've been to, all the cities, I've seen below average/average men with a woman, and the woman wasn't bad looking.

[MikeLowrrrey]

can't travel more than once, twice tops a year when you gotta work and you gotta work to pay off that house and motorcycle

must be nice if those things bring enough incentive

You can travel once a year though, even jobs that only start you off with 10 days of vacation you can travel. If you only took Monday and Fridays off, that's 5 vacations. You can take a lot of trips with 4 days off. Add some holidays and you'll get 5 -6 day vacations.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Exception would be a small portion no? Also the women I typically see with those men aren't bad looking.


All the places I've been to, all the cities, I've seen below average/average men with a woman, and the woman wasn't bad looking.

Im saying those are exceptions or those are men from past generatons that didnt have this dating situation.

The current trend is very clear, record numbers of men are single and not getting laid.

Just as an example, one of my friends is a short indian guy married to good looking girl, but they got together 10 years ago. Dating was a different situation back then, so just because you see them at walmart doesnt mean he got that girl in the current dating climate. he did not.

If you look at single men right now in 2024, dating is a nightmare and many of us have no options.

[MikeLowrrrey]

Im saying those are exceptions or those are men from past generatons that didnt have this dating situation.

The current trend is very clear, record numbers of men are single and not getting laid.

Just as an example, one of my friends is a short indian guy married to good looking girl, but they got together 10 years ago. Dating was a different situation back then, so just because you see that at walmart doesnt mean he got that girl in the current climate.

If you look at single men right now in 2024, dating is a nightmare and many of us have no options.

The men I see with a gf/wife are current and past generation though. Ages 23 - 45.

How is it a record when I see it everywhere?

I was at a basketball watch party and every man had a woman with him. I see tons of below average/average men with a woman no matter where I go. And the women aren't ugly hogs, they're also in the same looks range.

[Cleveland33]

Im saying those are exceptions or those are men from past generatons that didnt have this dating situation.

The current trend is very clear, record numbers of men are single and not getting laid.

Just as an example, one of my friends is a short indian guy married to good looking girl, but they got together 10 years ago. Dating was a different situation back then, so just because you see them at walmart doesnt mean he got that girl in the current dating climate. he did not.

If you look at single men right now in 2024, dating is a nightmare and many of us have no options.

fine, we don't need them in the workforce

[tehgosu]

You can travel once a year though, even jobs that only start you off with 10 days of vacation you can travel. If you only took Monday and Fridays off, that's 5 vacations. You can take a lot of trips with 4 days off. Add some holidays and you'll get 5 -6 day vacations.

I mean I like to travel as much as the next guy and do it as often as possible, but aint no way that's a motivating factor for me to keep working, only thing is the pure grit to keep yourself in the game and maybe a slight hope you'll eventually slide into a position that you somewhat like

[Cleveland33]

I mean I like to travel as much as the next guy and do it as often as possible, but aint no way that's a motivating factor for me to keep working, only thing is the pure grit to keep yourself in the game and maybe a slight hope you'll eventually slide into a position that you somewhat like

so you quit working?

[tehgosu]

so you quit working?

not an option for me personally but to me just working isn't much better than not working so I can see why some guys with a less stubborn mindset decide to just fuk off from the workforce alltogether

[Cleveland33]

not an option for me personally but to me just working isn't much better than not working so I can see why some guys with a less stubborn mindset decide to just fuk off from the workforce alltogether

right except I would guess most are the in a similar spot where not working isn't a long term option despite what BBMG wants to continue to push

[BigBallsMcgee]

The men I see with a gf/wife are current and past generation though. Ages 23 - 45.

How is it a record when I see it everywhere?

I was at a basketball watch party and every man had a woman with him. I see tons of below average/average men with a woman no matter where I go. And the women aren't ugly hogs, they're also in the same looks range.

you probably arent paying attention to the single men then. cause there's literally a record number. https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-brief...women-are-not/

[MikeLowrrrey]

you probably arent paying attention to the single men then. cause there's literally a record number. https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-brief...women-are-not/

If below average/average men can get a woman, there's a lot of hope for single men to also get a woman.



Heck, I ran into an old high school friend. He wasn't one of the cool kids, was overweight, and nerdy.


He has a son now.

[TheParish]

Idk but I wish they would go look for jobs instead of standing around the gym in the middle of the day while I'm trying to workout.