I think the worst thing out of all that is my perception of the world and my fragility has done a 180. I used to think I could literally do anything and be fine the next day, or I would never die. Now I randomly think about some retard t-boning my car and ending my life weekly.
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04-30-2024, 05:21 AM #31I was always looking at the finger pointing at
the moon. Now I'm just looking at the moon.
And theres no me looking. Theres just looking.
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04-30-2024, 06:10 AM #38
Yeah there are many many decisions people make every day and there are many many pitfalls. The road is definitely rocky. You either cry about it or you do something about it. Most people cry about it because the alternative is harder unless you learn to enjoy the grind. Because not only is the road rocky.....but the path to success is a very long road. Takes years and years of consistency.
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04-30-2024, 07:46 AM #44
Just lol that guys who are 35 feel old.
That was the best age of my life but I had a 2 year old who was a lot of fun to play with.
I have spine degeneration and bone spurs in my neck and back now in my early 50s, but I was fine with tennis and lifting at 35? Maybe you guys were lifting too heavy.
Why don't you try some hobbies like paint models or build Legos, or join an adventure club to give you things to look forward to after work and on the weekends? I'm sure you can still hike and kayak.
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04-30-2024, 08:28 AM #45
you want to marry a crazy b**ch who brings a bunch of annoying bratty kids into the world who'll constantly have to fork out money for, only for them to grow up & ditch you?
god forbid if things dont work out well & you end up responsible for child support...
thats why life is better as a gay man ☺ even though i have no luck with other men even, I would MUCH rather be a Gay Incel than a straight incel!
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04-30-2024, 07:58 PM #49
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At 33 I feel none of the nerve pain, etc that OP is talking about.
Idk man, drink some ginger, turmeric, and cayenne shots/shakes. Stretch daily.
I will say, I did tear a ligament in my foot last year for the first time ever, and that was pretty painful. But it was also the result of doing a tough mudder (6th one for that matter).
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04-30-2024, 08:10 PM #51
Happy birthday brah. You're right about most of it, but kids are the best thing most people can do with their lives. Too bad in order to have kids you have to deal with the modern woman, and most of them are sloots, psychologically damaged, medicated, or some combination of the three.
Yeah getting older sucks. Just had my prostate taken out last week. Hopefully I get my catheter taken out tomorrow if everything is healed up down there. It's not like it was unexpected; grandfather [dad's side] had it, and all three of his kids including my dad also had it. I just wasn't expecting prostate cancer at 35.
But yeah as a result of that kids are off the table for me. It's very depressing, but unlikely that it was going to happen for me going forward, and I'm also not sure I'd want to be much older to start having kids anyways.See Krackerjacked's sig
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04-30-2024, 08:24 PM #53
I know a 43yr man who pays $500 a month for a room in a some house, makes twenty-two dollars an hour, has no children, attends church, hangs out with friends, and works out.
doesn't stress, wont work any OT and is Happy AF
Happy Birthday BTW... Life is tough but God Puts you in situations so you can learn and make you strongerLast edited by mr.left hook; 04-30-2024 at 08:32 PM.
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'Cause I went from negative to positive
And it's all Good..."
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04-30-2024, 09:28 PM #56
I appreciate the sentiment. I'll be fine physically going forward and I will likely be fine from an erectile standpoint, but the reality that kids are a 100% non-possibility now hit harder than just me thinking about it before the procedure.
And yeah, that would definitely suck and is a legitimate concern. It's hard to trust women period nowadays, let alone when we're talking about something like raising a child especially if a disagreement happens that leads to a divorce and she becomes spiteful.See Krackerjacked's sig
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