Going clubbing in mid-30s

[dusky99]

Thoughts? I'm single and not having much luck on the dating apps. I'm not going to try anything with women at work because it can end messy in my experience, nor am I the type to approach random women at the grocery store lmao. So the only option left in my view seems to be clubbing vs sitting at home on a Friday night. What do you think about a 33 year old going clubbing? I would only drink 2 beers max each night.

[WiseOldApe]

Thoughts? I'm single and not having much luck on the dating apps. I'm not going to try anything with women at work because it can end messy in my experience, nor am I the type to approach random women at the grocery store lmao. So the only option left in my view seems to be clubbing vs sitting at home on a Friday night. What do you think about a 33 year old going clubbing? I would only drink 2 beers max each night.

Like everything else in life, it depends on how good looking you are.

If you're unattractive you should save yourself the embarrassment and never go to a nightclub, unless you're a known gangster in your city or somesh*t.

[SilEightySX]

Just go out not expecting to pick up and you will probably end up pulling.

Helps if you have people to talk to so you don't look like a complete loner.

GL BRAH

[Dontoewsmebro]

In my opinion I wouldn't go to a club alone just sounds miserable...loud, and trying to talk to sloots that are on their phone 24/7.

Just go to a bar.

[GoobyPls]

I actually did this on friday, popped a molly, danced a bit, met some people from the UK and came back home with 2 girls for an afterparty at my place. was 99% sure I was gonna smash at least one of them but their jealous cock blocking friend fukked it up for me. but overall had a good time.

[dusky99]

I actually did this on friday, popped a molly, danced a bit, met some people from the UK and came back home with 2 girls for an afterparty at my place. was 99% sure I was gonna smash at least one of them but their jealous cock blocking friend fukked it up for me. but overall had a good time.

That still sounds better than sitting at home like society expects a middle-aged man like me to do.

[forthenoodz]

Thoughts? I'm single and not having much luck on the dating apps. I'm not going to try anything with women at work because it can end messy in my experience, nor am I the type to approach random women at the grocery store lmao. So the only option left in my view seems to be clubbing vs sitting at home on a Friday night. What do you think about a 33 year old going clubbing? I would only drink 2 beers max each night.

i have some bad news for you. if you have trouble on the dating apps, you probably won't have it much better in the clubs.

[alltrapbrah]

As WiseOldApe highlighted, it has little to do with age and everything to do with looks.

[ectobruh]

I still go out simply to get out of the house. Fukk being couped in all day. ****s boring. Besides I've met a few potential GFS. You never know. Worst case scenario just go home early

[WiseOldApe]

As WiseOldApe highlighted, it has little to do with age and everything to do with looks.

My wisdom knows no bounds.

[alltrapbrah]

Also if you are genuinely looking for a relationship, as opposed to a smash-n’-dash, then I’d advise remaining open to work as a potential avenue.

[MiscerLonely3]

You’re not going to meet a girl to date going clubbing in mid-30s.

Sorry brah, I know you want to think you’re gonna have a fun night and pick up a girl but it isn’t going to happen bud. You know it and I know it.

At least you’re self aware enough to know that you’re not going to meet a woman at the grocery store like so many stupid people write online as a way to meet girls. FYI, none of the guys who give advice of “grocery store” or “farmers market” or “park” have met a girlfriend this way and no girls want random miscer/redditor types approaching them in public.

Best way to meet a girl is online (which doesn’t work for 90% of men and which you’ve already said doesn’t work for you). Outside of this work (which you are no open to) is the best option.

[alltrapbrah]

My ego knows no bounds.

Fixed for ya breh, lulz

[WiseOldApe]

Fixed for ya breh, lulz

You seem to agree with my logic however.

[24HrParking]

I say give it a try. You'll never know if you don't go.

If it fails, just download Doom 1997 WAD for PC and rot for years on end srs

[dusky99]

You’re not going to meet a girl to date going clubbing in mid-30s.

Sorry brah, I know you want to think you’re gonna have a fun night and pick up a girl but it isn’t going to happen bud. You know it and I know it.

At least you’re self aware enough to know that you’re not going to meet a woman at the grocery store like so many stupid people write online as a way to meet girls. FYI, none of the guys who give advice of “grocery store” or “farmers market” or “park” have met a girlfriend this way and no girls want random miscer/redditor types approaching them in public.

Best way to meet a girl is online (which doesn’t work for 90% of men and which you’ve already said doesn’t work for you). Outside of this work (which you are no open to) is the best option.

Physically I look better now than I did at 25, due to lifting and lowering body fat.

Online dating doesn't work for me. I get like 2-3 matches per week. The vast majority don't respond. So I can expect to get like one date every few months.

I don't want to have to go clubbing again, but I see no other choice if I want to hook up with women. I don't plan to spend hours in there. Just 2 beers max and make it a goal to approach 3 attractive women, then leave. Then doing that 3 nights per week.

Here's a pic of my last match. To make it worse you guessed it, she's a single mom like many of the women my age on dating apps. And the younger women put me outside their age filter.

[phaginator]

If you don't look old you can go for it.



Also don't listen to the defeatist cucks itt, they're projecting their failure because they can't pull irl.

[DustinTheHuss]

A lot of Miscers have tried this and end up Miscing on their phone the entire time.

Keep in mind that women go out in groups so a guy sitting in a bar alone would appear creepy to them. But give it a try and report back lol.

[dusky99]

If you don't look old you can go for it.



Also don't listen to the defeatist cucks itt, they're projecting their failure because they can't pull irl.

I'm expecting to get rejected over and over, so I need to mentally prepare for it. However I'm viewing this as a grind just like going to the gym. I'm not going clubbing to have fun, I'm going to find an attractive gf or future wife. Approaching 3 women per night 3 nights per week is over 100 in 3 months. Even if my rejection rate is 99% it's gotta lead to something eventually which is infinitely better than sitting at home on the misc.

[dusky99]

A lot of Miscers have tried this and end up Miscing on their phone the entire time.

Keep in mind that women go out in groups so a guy sitting in a bar alone would appear creepy to them. But give it a try and report back lol.

I've considered this because my mates don't go clubbing so I would have to go solo. I don't want to be seen as the creepy loner guy so I plan to go to big crowded clubs where I can blend in with the crowd. I live in a European capital city so there are enough of those popping every night of the week.

[WiseOldApe]

I'm expecting to get rejected over and over, so I need to mentally prepare for it. However I'm viewing this as a grind just like going to the gym. I'm not going clubbing to have fun, I'm going to find an attractive gf or future wife. Approaching 3 women per night 3 nights per week is over 100 in 3 months. Even if my rejection rate is 99% it's gotta lead to something eventually which is infinitely better than sitting at home on the misc.

You're going to fail with that mentality.

just go out and have fun otherwise you will give off desperate/wierdo vibes.

Girls are emotional/intuitive so they can pick up on a guy just wanting sex and that's a big no no.

[pyrogen]

What do you think about a 33 year old going clubbing?

You aren't even mid-30's. negged for misleading title DFS.

[MisterInfinity]

tours over boyo

[Pats2022SBwin]

Like everything else in life, it depends on how good looking you are.

If you're unattractive you should save yourself the embarrassment and never go to a nightclub, unless you're a known gangster in your city or somesh*t.

Yeah, there are two rules you must go by when going clubbing:

1) Be good looking
2) Don't be "not good looking."

[buwbs]

1935 must have been very a Suit & Tie vibe

music was probably better tho

[WiseOldApe]

Yeah, there are two rules you must go by when going clubbing:

1) Be good looking
2) Don't be "not good looking."

Nightclubs are dark places IMO.

[andyray]

op if you're that desperate you may as well go to some speed dating event

or at least join a meetup group "clubbing for over 30s"

i can guarantee they'll all be losers and not the kind of people you'd want to go clubbing with

but it beats a 30 something year old standing in the corner by himself drinking the same beer he's had all night surrounded by groups of 21 year olds

[ProSaibot]

Tate brothers are mid-late 30s and they seem to fit way more than 95% of the cucks that are in their 20s

If you look good and have money to spend, clubs are for you.

If you look like a defeated cuck who looks 10 years older than his actual age, then you better go home and depressmaxxxx. Overall you are welcomed in any social gathering as long as you don't look and act like a loser srs.

[bananastand11]

Remember clubbing when you were 18-25 and seeing the older creeps and how everyone was creeped out by them and thought they were utter freaks.

Why will it be different now you're the older creep?

[bananastand11]

A lot of Miscers have tried this and end up Miscing on their phone the entire time.

Keep in mind that women go out in groups so a guy sitting in a bar alone would appear creepy to them. But give it a try and report back lol.

Imagine taking advice from a used up mentally deranged cumdumpster.