Question for miscers in relationship incels stay out

[ye193x]

Is girls trip a redpill meme or is it as bad as they say ? Srs

[skinnyfat88]

Depends on the girl(s).

At the end of the day you need to trust them, & trust their friends to respect her boundaries and not put her in uncomfortable situations.

There comes a point too where it would be strange for people in relationships wanting to go on party trips with their single friends who were out tryna hookup.

[OliverHeldens]

You know if your girl and her friends are whores.

If they are, yes it's a red flag. If not, there's no much to worry about.

[OliverHeldens]

Depends on the girl(s).

At the end of the day you need to trust them, & trust their friends to respect her boundaries and not put her in uncomfortable situations.

There comes a point too where it would be strange for people in relationships wanting to go on party trips with their single friends who were out tryna hookup.

At the same time though, I've been on trips with married friends and they weren't trying to hook up while everyone else was. It really just depends on character. Most married guys aren't capable or even trying to get random pussy.

[AVIK777]

Depends if ur gf was a sloot b4 she dated you and her friends are also sloots

[skinnyfat88]

At the same time though, I've been on trips with married friends and they weren't trying to hook up while everyone else was. It really just depends on character. Most married guys aren't capable or even trying to get random pussy.

No but pretty much all women are capable of getting random hookups.

I think at the very minimum, if people in relationships are going to be going on trips with their single friends then they shouldnt be buying drinks/accepting drinks from strangers, dancing with them, going to afterparties, & their single friends should prioritize spending quality time with their friends, respecting their boundaries by not putting them in uncomfortable positions, and doing w/e they set out to do on said trip over finding other singles to mingle with.

[OliverHeldens]

No but pretty much all women are capable of getting random hookups.

I think at the very minimum, if people in relationships are going to be going on trips with their single friends then they shouldnt be buying drinks/accepting drinks from strangers, dancing with them, going to afterparties, & their single friends should prioritize spending quality time with their friends, respecting their boundaries by not putting them in uncomfortable positions, and doing w/e they set out to do on said trip over finding other singles to mingle with.

I agree with you. But I'd say with strong conviction that a girl is either a sloot or not a sloot. If a girl is single she might occasionally hook up with dudes on girls trips, but if a girl wasn't a sloot before and is now in a relationship, it's pretty unlikely that she's all of a sudden going to begin cheating on her man.

If a chick is cheating, eventually you'll find out. And in that case you get rid of her.

This is a lot better way to live than constantly being an insecure jealous bitch all the time.

[p7nk]

not all girls sloot. and you should know if the girl your in a serious relationship has sloot tendencies or her sloot friends. but pussy blinds.. like if you were able to hook up with her on the first date.. just know so did a lot of other guys.

[skinnyfat88]

I agree with you. But I'd say with strong conviction that a girl is either a sloot or not a sloot. If a girl is single she might occasionally hook up with dudes on girls trips, but if a girl wasn't a sloot before and is now in a relationship, it's pretty unlikely that she's all of a sudden going to begin cheating on her man.

If a chick is cheating, eventually you'll find out. And in that case you get rid of her.

This is a lot better way to live than constantly being an insecure jealous bitch all the time.

Yeah I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt and trusting them until proven otherwise but I think it's also perfectly healthy to have boundaries and if you're not on the same page as someone you have to be willing to lose them if you aren't aligned.

Some men aren't comfortable with their partner going on any girls trips. Ok fine but then be willing to lose them over it and don't b1tch and moan because she wouldn't oblige to your rules and just assume she's some mega-sloot because she wouldn't conform to your ways.

I've been with someone I trusted so much I honestly never even had to talk about boundaries when she went on trips with friends.
I've also been with someone I didn't fully trust, had those conversations, and in the end it didn't matter because she overstepped them anyways.

As you get older it becomes easier to just trust your gut and walk away if it doesn't feel right.