and settle down then, I've got some baaaad newz. This meme of aging like wine and wifing a prime, family/marriage oriented 22 yo as a 30+ yo fit, norwood 0, CEO male is fantasy. It will lead a lot of men to ruin when they get to that age and realize it was a false hope.
There are 3 types of women that will be available to you to marry as a 30-something yo man:
1) The divorcee
May or may not have children, will definitely have baggage. Will likely be over 30 and overweight. No glow, is bitter, suspicious of men, set in her ways and poor habits. There's a reason why she married before and isn't anymore. Good chance that she feels she missed out on slooting it up in her 20's so now she just went on a sloot spree. Enjoy the leftovers.
2) The careerist
She had the same ambitions as you. Focusing on "making it" and putting the pursuit of money and non-committal flings above all else. She's taken more miles of dink then you drive in a year. Definitely has HPV and Herpes. She won't put you or family ahead of her career. Hates life because she works 60 hour weeks, always stressed, premature aging, no time for you. You try to get the 27 yo careerist since she's still relatively young, but she ghosts you a few weeks into it because she was dating 4 other guys from Tinder and you just didn't quiet make the cut. The 35 yo careerist is all over you though, she's desperate, the bio clock is ticking hard. But how do you know she genuinly loves you and isn't just settling for a last minute kid and husband? You don't, you can never know until she hands in the divorce papers 10 years later because it's a "loveless marriage".
3) The golddigger
Don't even need to explain why this is bad.
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05-02-2018, 11:13 PM #1
Let's be 110% real, if you're planning to smash and dash till your 30's
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The young wifable non-sloots are just not on the market for old guys. They are taken fast, usually in undergrad or right after. They never went on Tinder (didn't need to, her bf asked her out within the first week of meeting her through mutual friends), so you never had the opportunity to cross paths with her and take a shot. They are almost never single, and when they are, you have no access to them through social circle, jobs, or school because of the age difference.
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"at the moment" exactly, it's temporary because she is either not long term relationship material or she doesn't see you as it either. Probably met her off Tinder. She's not available as a legitimate gf/wife, so not relevant to the point of my thread, which is about when you want to settle down as a 30+ yo.
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Malls, grocery stores, word of mouth through friends is where I've been the most successful. You should always maintain a large circle of friends even if you don't like them all that much for networking purposes. Tinder works if I just wanna get my dink wet. I won't take any girl that uses Tinder seriously though.
Having enough money to travel is another powerful tool. Girls LOVE foreign guys. Just being from another country girls will think you're mysterious and want to know more about you.
I don't know what it is about word of mouth. If someone a girl trusts puts in a good word for you, you be the the most autistic **** and still get laid. It's much easier then going on dates with randoms
edit: I don't date any girl over 28/29 so I haven't run into the issues you describe. 30+ year old girls are dead to meMod neg Cry-Baby Crew
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