Feel like GF shafted me, please advise if Im overreacting. (She going to Cuba wo me)

[latverian41]

Age 41 and you're giving the advice of a fukin highschool potato...Is this a joke? For every guy reading this thread, this is the type of siht that separates immature relationships and people from mature ones. You don't play these kind of fukin games in a relationship...and if you do, then you're either inexperienced, young af, or just an old idiot that hasn't learned from past mistakes and your relationship will inevitably fail...

He voiced his opinion in a mature way about not wanting her to go.

Yes,I agree being real and true and no fronts is part of alpha. I did not tell him to fake anything

I told him not to cry and whine to her about her going. Its pointles to belabour those dreary ills at this point

[W1LLW]

thread turned into about tree fiddy side beefs.

[donblaximus]

Interesting deductive reasonings. I wont say that your right or wrong but ill just list facts.

-Her romper I believe is from Asos.
-The shoes are Steve Madden, idk if you consider that low or top quality.
-She dresses for attention from me. Plus she lost a good amount of weight since weve been dating (my fitness influence) and likes to show off a bit more.Take that into consideration because we all do it when we started lifting

We all want attention, I fault no one for that. I was going to say something about the weight (you can tell from her knees) but I thought that was getting a little too personal.
Props to her for losing the weight.

Steve Madden shoes are made in China. Again, I dont need to have the whole misc ripping me about this. I wear plenty of things made in china, but if I am making a statement (like she is with her shoes) then my shoes will be hand made by John Lobb or Enzo Bonafe. I make a statement when meeting a large client for the first time, etc.


If im going out to a nice dinner with the wife, i'll still just wear my vans and jeans. I dont need attention from anyone going to dinner with wife.

If my wife wants to make a statement with lets say her purse, shes gonna carry hermes or bottega veneta. All this stuff is non labeled and does not have a "look at me" type of design to it. Subtle stuff made by hand with the best materials and craftsmanship. To the regular joe these pieces cant be deciphered, but for the people that know, will know.
On a day to day basis my wife carries a cheap purse she literally bought at Target or something.

[Phesper]

We all want attention, I fault no one for that. I was going to say something about the weight (you can tell from her knees) but I thought that was getting a little too personal.
Props to her for losing the weight.

Steve Madden shoes are made in China. Again, I dont need to have the whole misc ripping me about this. I wear plenty of things made in china, but if I am making a statement (like she is with her shoes) then my shoes will be hand made by John Lobb or Enzo Bonafe. I make a statement when meeting a large client for the first time, etc.


If im going out to a nice dinner with the wife, i'll still just wear my vans and jeans. I dont need attention from anyone going to dinner with wife.

If my wife wants to make a statement with lets say her purse, shes gonna carry hermes or bottega veneta. All this stuff is non labeled and does not have a "look at me" type of design to it. Subtle stuff made by hand with the best materials and craftsmanship. To the regular joe these pieces cant be deciphered, but for the people that know, will know.
On a day to day basis my wife carries a cheap purse she literally bought at Target or something.

Well in terms of context, which I think you are implying, this was taken at new years at a hotel right before going out to the club. She does not wear stuff like this daily or on a regular basis. She wanted to dress sexy to shine better than the other woman and look sexy for me.

Interesting points though, I like your thought process

[anonkunbrah]

Don't worry about a thing OP. Raul will look after her

[MuckSnapper]

thread turned into about tree fiddy side beefs.

Is it even a good thread if this doesn't happen?

[Lefticle]

Lmfao OP looks like your GF is the one who will be getting the shaft....not you

[donblaximus]

Well in terms of context, which I think you are implying, this was taken at new years at a hotel right before going out to the club. She does not wear stuff like this daily or on a regular basis. She wanted to dress sexy to shine better than the other woman and look sexy for me.

Interesting points though, I like your thought process

I think its all healthy conversation, not everyone will agree with me but I dont expect everyone to agree.
Understand, she wanted to "out shine" the other women at the club......but here in lies my point:

1. BS if you honestly think its just for you then you and her are both lying to yourself.
2. My wife doenst value "lots of attention" as a good thing. Its the quality of attention that matters to her.

She and I agree with my second point. On a day to day basis Id rather have a low profile and only draw attention from the right people.
If I want to come out with a bang, i coming out with a bang and bringing quality stuff.

[wincel]

I'm sure your gf and her sister will have a wonderful time in Cuba. They will really get a feel for the people there. I am sure they will appreciate how long and hard the people of Cuba work. Their tour guide, Javier, will be happy to show them everything. I'm sure they will appreciate Javier's palette as they sample his peoples' delicious Cuban desserts. Not only are they salty and high in protein, but your gf will also find that they also act as a soothing facial skin softener. I bet she will remember her trip to Cuba fondly forever, and in nine months or so, she will receive an authentic Cuban souvenir for her travels.

[PersianP]

Agreed, 5% (or less) of males hit their first million liquid by 30 or less as well.
Im not saying the girls wearing revealing cheap rompers shouldnt be, it just tells me where their mindset is at. Its all about the data (the many many small things put together in context). Im also not saying you shouldnt get with these girls. All i am saying is if you are a top tier dude, you should get with a top tier woman, else things typically dont work out. Which is why people always complain about marraige, because they are not analyzing all of their data points.
I can also tell who the real hustlers are using the same data concept, they wouldnt have to show me the million in the bank, I will know way before then.

What do you do for work bro?

Also OP, you said this is the last chance she has to travel since she's turning 26? Wot?

[DrWilliam]

I think she's being disrespectful especially cancelling the Boston trip just to shaft you on the Cuba trip. Sounds like she's entitled and an attention whore to be honest. You gotta decide if you're ok with that or not.

[bjjruinedmylife]

This has probably been mentioned, but my experience with girls who 'like to travel' are that they lack stability, responsibility and are fukin sloots

Untraceable dick.

Every sloots dream come true

[clodoveo1]

this guy has posted the same pic of his gf in last 5 of his thread

[NeednOut]

roll bread OP

That pic been used a few times over the years

[ANumber1]

Che and Raul gonna be all up in them sanctioned sugar walls redistributing them guts equally among the proletariat.

[HalimRafiki]

you're a disgrace. glorifying that orange crush like it's some trophy. drink grape crush, the crush of africa and maybe i'll respect you.

LOL you didnt come back at me all crazy, now i know you're a slayer.

We're cool my dude.

[HalimRafiki]

you're projecting...

Maybe I am, dude's cool though, i take back what I said.

[Jigger1983]

I just read the cliffs.

go North Carolina

[alpha187]

OP

This is a bigger red flag than my rep points .

Manuel , Sosa and Tony Montanna will be taking care of her .

Don't let this happen OP

[BullittEV]

Well in terms of context, which I think you are implying, this was taken at new years at a hotel right before going out to the club. She does not wear stuff like this daily or on a regular basis. She wanted to dress sexy to shine better than the other woman and look sexy for me.

Interesting points though, I like your thought process

Lol ok.

This is new, miscer posts about his gf taking back his V-Day gift and planning a trip without him. but they've "worked it out." because "communication is key"

Dumass- communication is key from the START, not to patch crap up. your relationship is on the decline to being over dude, srs. Think about it, any girl that respected and loved her bf would never do that. or there would be a conversation about it. She just went off on her own. If you can't see the future ramifications of this then you must truly be new at understanding sloots.

[meteoraniac]

instead of forcing her not to go, let her go, turn ur gf into fwb while u find a girl that truly values u

[LDARboyo]

Sounds ****ty OP, what did you decide to do?

Reminds me of when my GF of 3.5 years went on a ski trip over new years with 2 girl friends and 8 dudes lmao and I wasn't invited. We broke up then.

[tim5p]

You have a gf that has hobbies/passions (traveling) and the wherewithal and moxy to pursue them. Who are you to tell another adult what they can or cannot do?

If her actions do not coincide with your expectations of a girlfriend then break up, but realize youre breaking up with a girl who likes to travel for traveling.

[ATT82121]

Have not read anything but the OP. I'd voice my concern and not argue it any further. Just state your stance and that's it, she will try to pull out more and it will become a fight. I'd avoid that, say your part and continue living bout your life (if you can't then this is a sign you've put the pussy on a pedestal and your emotions need to get in check). If she goes she goes, when she comes back you should have detached yourself and she's either really gotta beg for you and beckon at your will ór it's done. If she doesn't go after you voiced your opinion and did not get into an arguement then it's aight. If you got in a fight then stop that habit of entertaining her drama; instead voice your opinion and know better than to get yourself into an arguement.

[stevesteve12]

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-Her romper I believe is from Asos.
-The shoes are Steve Madden, idk if you consider that low or top quality.

how does it feel that my breakfast costed more than her outfit?

[cookiefiend]

how does it feel that my breakfast costed more than her outfit?

Username: stevesteve

:/

They are looking for you everywhere, turn yourself in pls

[AmIGoodNuff]

how does it feel that my breakfast costed more than her outfit?

Not gonna lie. I like a girl that can be thrifty and make it look good. I would of never guessed that to be 12-15 dollars. I guess its safe to say she isnt materialistic.

[MuckSnapper]

LOL you didnt come back at me all crazy, now i know you're a slayer.

We're cool my dude.

Maybe I am, dude's cool though, i take back what I said.

For what it's worth you're cool in my book now for this.

[RaibeartBruis]

Don't forget to clean up after the bull, cucky.

[BangBrahs]

She doesn't respect you (srs).