Tinder Thread Part VIII: The Revival.

[boyjenius]

not to mention that some are just on tinder to have fun or check out tinder for giggles

Chicks use these apps for mainly ****s, kicks, and the ocassional dicks.

Miscers that get tons of matches don't necessarily have a high conversion rates. Meaning that even if they get 1000 matches, its highly unlikely that they'll be able to secure a high percentage of women for sex (unless someone proves me wrong.) Girls just like the validation that some hot guy thinks they're cute.

[boyjenius]

im pretty sure i just wasted months, time and smash opportunity because i was too lazy to take better/interesting pics
need to get a tripod, no selfies


will be restarting everything , tinder and okcupid
somehow still got 300 matches tho

what do your pictures look like ?

[mitch2147]

I got Tinder for a few days 2 months ago to see what it was like. Ended up dating the only girl I messaged on there for about a month, then it ended pretty quickly.

Installed it again for a bit of a motivational boost, and in 6 days I've had 85 matches (not including bots) with a couple of the girls messaging me first. Don't know if I'll respond to any, or even start convos. Might delete it shortly.

[stormyaus]

I got Tinder for a few days 2 months ago to see what it was like. Ended up dating the only girl I messaged on there for about a month, then it ended pretty quickly.

Installed it again for a bit of a motivational boost, and in 6 days I've had 85 matches (not including bots) with a couple of the girls messaging me first. Don't know if I'll respond to any, or even start convos. Might delete it shortly.

Thats a cool story but why install and then just delete?

[chaoserver]

Remember when you could actually run out of girls in your area? And when it didn't double for snapchat/instagram/twitter? Those were the good days...

Lol yea. Honestly tinder moments kinda killed it for me, but its still been good. Just kind of annoying

[stormyaus]

Lol yea. Honestly tinder moments kinda killed it for me, but its still been good. Just kind of annoying

Do you reckon moments have any purpose or just another useless feature?

[mitch2147]

Thats a cool story but why install and then just delete?

No one's asked me that question, so now I have to think of a reason haha.

In my mind I've always thought that meeting a girl online is a bad way to do it. I installed it to see what kind of girls I could get, which in return could give me more self confidence and less anxiety. It's kinda worked so far, so as I write this I am thinking I should keep it a bit longer.

[stormyaus]

No one's asked me that question, so now I have to think of a reason haha.

In my mind I've always thought that meeting a girl online is a bad way to do it. I installed it to see what kind of girls I could get, which in return could give me more self confidence and less anxiety. It's kinda worked so far, so as I write this I am thinking I should keep it a bit longer.

I agree. There's no stigma around tinder like other forms of online dating. Don't feel like it's any worse than meeting people in bars and if you're more comfortable finding someone there and will feel less anxious then meeting them in a bar or whatever then it can only be a positive right.

[Kraster]

nah overall count.

German girls love to ****. Easy to be a slayer there.

not sure if srs

[chaoserver]

Do you reckon moments have any purpose or just another useless feature?

They are pretty useless, and actually detrimental as it turns tinder into basically an instagram/snapchat fusion. Very occasionally they could be useful, either using them yourself or someone posting a moment that sparks a convo, but usually the girls posting moments are just doing so for a bunch of likes and general attention. The mindset it creates is far worse than any negligible benefit.

One of the reasons tinder was so great prior, was because the only way girls got attention was through messages, and to a lesser extent matches which encouraged active participation. Now they can get attention while being very passive like those other apps, which breeds a horrible mentality and environment.

[matw]

They are pretty useless, and actually detrimental as it turns tinder into basically an instagram/snapchat fusion. Very occasionally they could be useful, either using them yourself or someone posting a moment that sparks a convo, but usually the girls posting moments are just doing so for a bunch of likes and general attention. The mindset it creates is far worse than any negligible benefit.

One of the reasons tinder was so great prior, was because the only way girls got attention was through messages, and to a lesser extent matches which encouraged active participation. Now they can get attention while being very passive like those other apps, which breeds a horrible mentality and environment.

They can be useful, I know one brah (who rarely posts ITT) who has used moments to help revive dead convos and actually smashed girls from said revived convos.

[Ravishing_Rick]

made a" no strings attached " dtf account just now and a no picture chick sent me her number and asked my to text her for pics
fuk that.
will update if any sloots take the bait

what do your pictures look like ?

mirror selfie
shirtless selfie
vacation pics

[chaoserver]

They can be useful, I know one brah (who rarely posts ITT) who has used moments to help revive dead convos and actually smashed girls from said revived convos.

My point is, out of the thousands of moments and the mindset created, more harm is done than the couple successes that come of it.

[matw]

My point is, out of the thousands of moments and the mindset created, more harm is done than the couple successes that come of it.

I agree with you on that point, makes it more like instagram etc

Have one match who's number I got, started with small talk. Convo ended on talking about what we are doing (I had to go out so I didn't want to string the convo along), she asked me, I told her and then no response (didn't say anything weird lol).
My last message (telling her what I was up to) wasn't anything that necessarily needed a response, but I'm wondering if she went NC. Worth sending a double text to try and get the convo rolling again so I can attempt to schedule a meetup or onto the next one?

[chaoserver]

No need to NC per se. Just give it a bit and you can push for a meet up. Nothing to lose. At that point if she's not enthusiastic go NC.

[matw]

No need to NC per se. Just give it a bit and you can push for a meet up. Nothing to lose. At that point if she's not enthusiastic go NC.

Yeah I followed up to see if she responds/get conversation going again, nothing to lose. If she flakes/doesn't reply, NC and onto the next one.

[Kraster]

I agree with you on that point, makes it more like instagram etc

Have one match who's number I got, started with small talk. Convo ended on talking about what we are doing (I had to go out so I didn't want to string the convo along), she asked me, I told her and then no response (didn't say anything weird lol).
My last message (telling her what I was up to) wasn't anything that necessarily needed a response, but I'm wondering if she went NC. Worth sending a double text to try and get the convo rolling again so I can attempt to schedule a meetup or onto the next one?

some people are really fukking weird and too immersed into the whole misc/alpha mentality sometimes.... NC only, ONLY works if a girl is already HEAVILY interested in you to begin with, it's not a tool to actually generate interest or attraction, so going NC once convo stops, you do that when you weren't that interested anyway. also what is that huge fear of double texting? it's not like you're dropping 10 messages right after each other saying "Please respond"

[matw]

some people are really fukking weird and too immersed into the whole misc/alpha mentality sometimes.... NC only, ONLY works if a girl is already HEAVILY interested in you to begin with, it's not a tool to actually generate interest or attraction, so going NC once convo stops, you do that when you weren't that interested anyway. also what is that huge fear of double texting? it's not like you're dropping 10 messages right after each other saying "Please respond"

I think you should re-read what I wrote m8. I'm not saying if I should go NC (only unless she stops responding in which case I realize it wont go anywhere), I was wondering if she (not me) went NC since she didn't respond to my last message (which didn't necessarily need a response).

I followed up and she responding so still in...for now.

[Forgetmenot95]

I need some advice. I matched with this cute girl and she messaged me first. We were talking and she was responding well. Then all of a sudden she just went cold. It's only been like 30 minutes since she was on but it kept saying she was active. Its 2 in morning where I am and I don't mean to sound obsessive but this has happened before and I am starting to get really mad about it.

[stormyaus]

I need some advice. I matched with this cute girl and she messaged me first. We were talking and she was responding well. Then all of a sudden she just went cold. It's only been like 30 minutes since she was on but it kept saying she was active. Its 2 in morning where I am and I don't mean to sound obsessive but this has happened before and I am starting to get really mad about it.

fuk me mate calm your farm its tinder not a life and death situation. go to sleep, wake up and if she hasn't sent you anything fkn send her something stupid like 'did you died?' Or just delete her, many more fish in the ocean.

[chaoserver]

I need some advice. I matched with this cute girl and she messaged me first. We were talking and she was responding well. Then all of a sudden she just went cold. It's only been like 30 minutes since she was on but it kept saying she was active. Its 2 in morning where I am and I don't mean to sound obsessive but this has happened before and I am starting to get really mad about it.

You're getting over invested first of all. Getting crazy over something that minor means your heads in a place your gonna make a mistake later on. Just chill and sometime tomorrow hit her up if you feel like it. Or you could just message have a good night/sleep well/Im going to bed but hit me up tomorrow if you really want to contact.

[matw]

I need some advice. I matched with this cute girl and she messaged me first. We were talking and she was responding well. Then all of a sudden she just went cold. It's only been like 30 minutes since she was on but it kept saying she was active. Its 2 in morning where I am and I don't mean to sound obsessive but this has happened before and I am starting to get really mad about it.

This happens relatively frequently. Just move onto the next one brah.

[stormyaus]

Fukkk thanks for the tinderspiration bros, chat been going epic tonight, got a number of numbers, solid 7/10s too, and to think I thought it was too much effort.

[SanOs]

That feel... when you get unmatch

[tikeshe]

Got Some new numbers. Had to add tinder PIC to phone numbers so I know who they are.

Two chicks asking me if I live alone. They thirsty.

Don't really have any prospects that are worth pursuing. Majority aren't worth the effort when I can get laid relatively easy by 6/10s.

[BRBMakingMoney]

I just added a new main pic. Went through hundreds of holiday pics to find the absolute best lighting, best angle face pic. Then made some minor photoshop touch ups. Now I'm matching like a male model troll account and get opened by chicks telling me how gorgeous I am.

Turns out Tinder is all about the face.

brb white knighting ugly chicks and whales with my blue steel pic to increase their ego's and further decrease beta's chances

[imasadknicksfan]

I've barely even swiped...my location is set in manhattan...

and all my matches haven't logged in ranging from 4 days to a month....... ? no matter how I change the ages/range

[jignat]

Hey guys newbie from FL here.

Ive had the app for 1 week and all my matches have been bots, and they usually initiated text within 4-5 hrs or if i sent a message replied within 30 min.


Thing is i got a match last night, and i trolled it and said some nasty sexual **** and called it a bot, but no reply and the girl did not unmatch me yet.
I probably ****ed up ?

[gmelchor]

I just added a new main pic. Went through hundreds of holiday pics to find the absolute best lighting, best angle face pic. Then made some minor photoshop touch ups. Now I'm matching like a male model troll account and get opened by chicks telling me how gorgeous I am.

Turns out Tinder is all about the face.

brb white knighting ugly chicks and whales with my blue steel pic to increase their ego's and further decrease beta's chances

post pics and detailed account of your photoshop tricks. never doctored my images up (never even filters), but if it plays it plays

[mnbvcxz987]

Actively seeking out GF material since I´m tired of ****ing random sluts. Am I doing it wrong?

Edit: does anyone even have a successful GF-story from Tinder?