Fcuk that sucks for you bro. Yeah dunno how I made it to this age with no girlfriends. Music used to help me a lot but now I find I can't even concentrate on that. I've put a lot of effort into dating the last couple of months but I never hear back from the girl after the first date or I'm told I'm a nice guy who they would like to be friends with. I know I need to keep practicing with all dating but it's hard when you feel depressed and you can't see things improving. Are you finding that girls are flaking on you a lot or just not showing interest?
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09-29-2015, 07:32 AM #91
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09-29-2015, 10:47 AM #95
Update:
We dont have class today since it was canceled but I went up to the room anyways to see if she was there, and bang bang she was there working, alone.
I'm thinking to myself perfect time to introduce myself. So without thinking much at all about what to say, I go up and ask what is due for next class. Blah blah blah we talk for about 5-10 minutes, and the convo flows smoothly, she even made effort to ask me some questions and continue the convo (maybe a sign, maybe not, whatever, its just conversation). Made her laugh a couple times, and all went well. In the end I asked her name and told her mine and I left.
Didn't do the jajaja joke because I forgot, but I def will at some point. Just happy I actually introduced myself to her, and within a couple more classes (2-3) I plan on asking her out.
edit: Oh yeah, and my lip quivered once or twice, hopefully she didnt see.. pretty sure that is a symptom of oneitis. **** me.Last edited by Briisk; 09-29-2015 at 02:25 PM.
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09-29-2015, 10:50 AM #96
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09-29-2015, 02:13 PM #99
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So I approached the girl that approached me today, she waved at me as I was walking towards her hnnggg. She's so hot, but she talks to literally all the guys in my gym srs. Atleast I'm getting practice talking to a hot girl face to face though.
I always rape back (semisrs)
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09-29-2015, 06:05 PM #100
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09-29-2015, 07:27 PM #101
i think i talk too much srs. i approached a girl at work yesterday in the lunch room, sat next to her, and was like so hows everything going? and then when she started to talk i kept talking over her and after her lolol. not on purpose though. gotta work on that. i like talking, but i think i gotta get used to not talking too much.
i went to the smoke hut with my coworkers during break to chill and it was hilarious. whenever someone tried to talk, i was about to talk too. so its just like a pause, and then "go ahead", then pause, then "go ahead"There is only one Hell: the one we live in now.
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09-30-2015, 01:49 AM #104
In on new thread with my FA brahs.
For new brahs or those who dont remember me
20 years old, never had a real gf.
Non virgin
Basically my story summed up in tl;dr form is i was a fat fuk in high school and therefore had no confidence with women and didnt gain experience so i lost 50lbs so i can now do the drunk hookup thing, but have absolutely no experience in terms of dating or suchKeep mod discussions out of your sig line
Misc 2018 and 2019 NFL Pick Em Champion- Better luck next year fellas
Resident miscer for the Super Bowl 57 CHAMPION LA Rams.
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09-30-2015, 11:47 AM #109
I meant to post about it once I've analyzed the situation so here goes..
As most of you would have guessed (me being a 30year old virgin and all) it was with a escort.
however it was kinda not like a escort too.. let me explain..
Me and another miscer took a 2 week vacation to Thailand. He was taking girls back to the hotel several times but me I just didn't feel like it.
Eventually he ended up going to a BJ bar which is specialized in doing BJs.. I thought whatever and bought a BJ.. worst experience ever (btw wasn't my first BJ I had gotten one from a stripper about 7years ago).
It was very mechanical and almost robotic.. girl had nice boobs but didn't even let me touch them or take her top off.. after about 20mins it actually started to hurt and I said it was enough.. My dink actually hurt for a couple of days after that..
Later on we started going to this one specific go go bar several times.. To those unaware a gogo bar is like a strip club but the girls will try to go back with u for sex. We ended up talking to a couple of girls and this particular girl was with me for two days.. Didn't take any of them back tho.. On the third day my friend decides to take one home and the other one wants to come back with me but I was kinda sick and said no.. The club was near closing time and that girl said she was done and she's like to come back anyways (without any prior pay) with her friend.
So we ended up going back to our hotel. I wasn't even sure she wanted to actually have sex (since i hadn't paid her) I thought she was accompanying her friend and then leave. But she ended up coming to my room. My friend said she liked me enough to take any amount of money I'd give (usually they will negotiate a fee upfront and you have to pay them first)..
I felt comfortable with her since I had hung out with her for a couple of days and she seemed nice.
So we ended up having sex but I had no idea wtf I was doing. Had to go to 7eleven in the middle of it to get a condom lol (thankfully there are 7elevens all over the place in Thailand). But I didnt feel anything. condom was too big too. I couldn't stay hard for it to stay on either.. Only position that worked was her on top .. Even then she was so tight my dink hurt (I later found out she was 20 even though I thought at the time she was 29 lol u can never say for sure with Thai girls).
Overall had sex for like 5 mins each night with her on top before I lost my erection.. also recieved about 30mins of BJ/HJ each night.. Still didn't cum.
oh yeah almost forgot fingered her for a good 20mins and she seemed to get off on that.. my fingers got tired tho lmao!
Anyways she was nice. I paid her the usual and she ended up coming back with me 2 more days. On those days she stayed over night and in the morning. basically GFE/10.. But i never finished in any of those days. She even added me on Fb and bought me food when we hung out(weird as fuk for a bar girl.. was half expecting some BS story on how she needed money for her sick mum or something to come but it never came.. she never asked for any money other than what i gave her.)
I guess she is just new at this lmao
Well now I'm kinda no longer a virgin but not sure if I'm heterosexual or asexual. I can still fap to porn (normal porn.. nothing weird . i fap to solo vids of girls teasing/fapping most of the time). But with a real life flesh and blood girl I just don't feel anything.
Oh and I've never actually liked a girl in my entire life anyways. A lot of you FAs have had crushes and oneitises despite being virgins. For me that has never happened.
So yeah not sure whats wrong with me lol.. probably some srs psychological chit which I have no time or motivation to get fixed.. On one hand its kind of freeing.. I know i don't need girls and have nothing to gain from trying to convince a girl to have sex. I'd rather drink a tasty cappuccino while watching youtube than have sex tbh lol
ps. When I had sex with the girl i was on 2 weeks no fap + on cialis..While you were partying I studied the Blade.
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09-30-2015, 10:36 PM #113
About a month ago I wrote a letter to this charity that helps people get plastic surgery and today I got a response. They told me that they wanted to see pictures of me but I am suicidal and can't even look myself in the mirror. I don't know what to do because on one hand I want to get the plastic surgery but on the other hand I am very hideous and might end up killing myself if I take a picture of myself. What do I do ?
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09-30-2015, 10:38 PM #114
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09-30-2015, 10:48 PM #115
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09-30-2015, 10:51 PM #116
because it's not going to help me all theyre going to do is to tell me that I need to think positive. I don't need that I need a body transplant. I hate everything about me. My legs my arms my face eyes hair nose neck chest arms back and just everything. I want to be in a different body I really do.
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09-30-2015, 11:33 PM #117
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09-30-2015, 11:47 PM #118
Maybe the situation would be different with a normal girl with longer time mutual interest and no condom.
I didn't finish either on my first 7 times with a condom and thought sex was meh but when you get rid of condom and get really comfortable/relaxed with a girl sex turned out to be much better. Anxiety/condom can really ruin the experience.
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10-01-2015, 12:18 AM #119
yeah i thought that too.. the anxiety part.. but after that first night I was pretty comfortable around her srs.
she was kinda inexperienced as fuk as well. Actually she was quite shy when she was alone and not with the other girls from the club :3
plus my virgin dink hurts whenever its out of its foreskin lmao.. only time it didnt hurt was when she was sucking on it.. gently.. lol
ayy looks like fapping 2x per day for the last 4yrs (didn't fap till i was 26) hasn't toughened it up enough.. fml
brb 100 cock pushups a day
nah srsly brahs i need to find out why my dink hurtsWhile you were partying I studied the Blade.
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10-01-2015, 01:28 AM #120
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