Vick's Dating Log and Advice Thread v. 3.0 (that escalated quickly!)

[BlackScorpio91]

Bro you and I sound like very similar people LOL.



Quick question Vick, out of all of this dating you've done so far have you ever seen a previous date or girl you're still talking to while youre out with another girl?

To me the typical dating that people like to do based on the 1950s era of dating and modified to suit their needs is obsolete. We're dealing with a younger generation of people, everybody is trying to have sex whether they admit it or not, whether they wanna be in a serious relationship or not. Ain't nobody wanna wait til marriage to have sex anymore unless the person is strictly religious. All these dinner dates and bar dates are predictable and redundant and quite frankly unoriginal. For all the people that seriously wanna date, be unconventional with it and mix it up but for all the people that just want sex then don't go on dates as they're a waste of your time.

[xvicknumber7x]

Bro you and I sound like very similar people LOL.

Quick question Vick, out of all of this dating you've done so far have you ever seen a previous date or girl you're still talking to while youre out with another girl?

Never have, but kind of want to tbh. I do a good job of mixing up spots and being in different areas of town.

Why you texting about chit you don't care about instead of getting to the point? LOL Sure it would have been the same result but every 2 days to "build rapport" before asking her out is a waste of time.

Anyway just keep on trucking man

Too much texting is a great way to ruin shiit.

We texted about a football game she was watching, her team won. 2 days later I asked had the kids calmed down. No response. Then 2 days later I threw out the idea of lunch. No response. Guess not being a christian, she wasnt that interested, or chaderception occurred.

Not that it is the missing piece in your game, but don't text about that stuff.

[otakutrevan]

Not that it is the missing piece in your game, but don't text about that stuff.

She is the football fan and not me lmao. wtf. And the kid text was about her venting to me about the stress of being a teacher. Am I...supposed to not talk about stuff that matters to her ? That she brought up ? ! ? !

[xvicknumber7x]

She is the football fan and not me lmao. wtf. And the kid text was about her venting to me about the stress of being a teacher. Am I...supposed to not talk about stuff that matters to her ? That she brought up ? ! ? !

texting to just talk is for women. save it for dates. its after the first date. that shiit shouldnt matter to you.

[BlackScorpio91]

She is the football fan and not me lmao. wtf. And the kid text was about her venting to me about the stress of being a teacher. Am I...supposed to not talk about stuff that matters to her ? That she brought up ? ! ? !

Just say that sucks and quickly change the subject towards something you actually care about....like getting together.

[otakutrevan]

texting to just talk is for women. save it for dates. its after the first date. that shiit shouldnt matter to you.

Just say that sucks and quickly change the subject towards something you actually care about....like getting together.

I did that ? and she never responded. I generally dont have long winded convos nor do I try to have "deep" convos. Hell if I had time machine, ignored her football text, and still tried to set up another day she still more than likely would have ghosted. Several times when Ive tried the "only use texts to get together" Ive been told "you didnt seem interested". I could just make up a scenario, say it failed, and you guys would just say "you should have done the opposite" lmao.

none of this matters. i wish op well. im just here for the lols.

[xvicknumber7x]

i never agree with appearing too interested from the jump.

[otakutrevan]

i never agree with appearing too interested from the jump.

Well my genes will end with me brah. This problem of feeling like dating is walking on eggshells stops here my guy.

[BlackScorpio91]

I did that ? and she never responded. I generally dont have long winded convos nor do I try to have "deep" convos. Hell if I had time machine, ignored her football text, and still tried to set up another day she still more than likely would have ghosted. Several times when Ive tried the "only use texts to get together" Ive been told "you didnt seem interested". I could just make up a scenario, say it failed, and you guys would just say "you should have done the opposite" lmao.

none of this matters. i wish op well. im just here for the lols.

But you did that over a period of 2 days, not on the same day.

[otakutrevan]

But you did that over a period of 2 days, not on the same day.

There was a 3 text exchange about a game, that she texted me about.

I then sent a text asked her how the monday was going. she didnt respond

Yes. She was totally down to hang, but of course asking did she want to hang, instead of I guess not saying a single word post date would have been the magic power move.

*insert vicious eye rolling*

[Luc1fer]

She is the football fan and not me lmao. wtf. And the kid text was about her venting to me about the stress of being a teacher. Am I...supposed to not talk about stuff that matters to her ? That she brought up ? ! ? !

Sounds like they're inventing reasons. BlackScorpio tends to do that.

If she wanted to see you again, it wouldn't matter at all. I've seen men say all sorts of stupid ****, beta stuff, cringe stuff, etc., even to the point of the girl making fun of him behind his back for being clingy (personally witnessed this in the past few weeks), and still end up dating/fukking the girl because she was attracted to him. srs

[BlackScorpio91]

There was a 3 text exchange about a game, that she texted me about.

I then sent a text asked her how the monday was going. she didnt respond

Yes. She was totally down to hang, but of course asking did she want to hang, instead of I guess not saying a single word post date would have been the magic power move.

*insert vicious eye rolling*

Like I've said in a previous post, being direct and skipping over the bs would have saved you time. Of course she would have ghosted but at least you wouldn't have been texting 2 days later and then another 2 days later.

[otakutrevan]

Sounds like they're inventing reasons. BlackScorpio tends to do that.

Everyone in this section does this. Whatever you DIDNT do is the default "why this girl doesnt like you". Guarantee if I said "yeah I didnt hit her up for like 3 days after the date, and tried to set up another" it would be REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU WAITED TOOO LONG REEEEEEEEEEE ATTRACTION THAT WAS BUILT FADED REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[BlackScorpio91]

Sounds like they're inventing reasons. BlackScorpio tends to do that.

If she wanted to see you again, it wouldn't matter at all. I've seen men say all sorts of stupid ****, beta stuff, cringe stuff, etc., even to the point of the girl making fun of him behind his back (yes personally witnessed this in the past few weeks), and still end up dating/fukking the girl because she was attracted to him. srs

I never said she was interested in him, I'm just saying he would have saved time just skipping over bullchit and gotten to the point so he wouldn't have waste time trying to get a response from her. What he should have did was just charged her after she stopped responding the first time tbh.

[Luc1fer]

I never said she was interested in him, I'm just saying he would have saved time just skipping over bullchit and gotten to the point so he wouldn't have waste time trying to get a response from her. What he should have did was just charged her after she stopped responding the first time tbh.

Fair enough, I can agree that his texts has no bearing on the outcome.

[rikugunchusa]

i never agree with appearing too interested from the jump.

Sometimes I wonder if this has any bearing on how things pan out..feels like a lot of times the less I care the more likely they are to stick around

[Komytea]

texted the hinge check earlier to make sure we were still on for 6p. she said "gonna try, i've been getting of late from work". in my head i was like so then why the fk would you agree to a certain time? i told her i had plans after (which i do) she can hit me up if she wants to kick it, or we can reschedule (which i'm not). now i remember why i don't date. this **** is ridiculous. so many ghosts and flakes.


****!

[Luc1fer]

texted the hinge check earlier to make sure we were still on for 6p. she said "gonna try, i've been getting of late from work".

lol, no way I'd tolerate that.

[BlackScorpio91]

texted the hinge check earlier to make sure we were still on for 6p. she said "gonna try, i've been getting of late from work". in my head i was like so then why the fk would you agree to a certain time? i told her i had plans after (which i do) she can hit me up if she wants to kick it, or we can reschedule (which i'm not). now i remember why i don't date. this **** is ridiculous. so many ghosts and flakes.


****!

Yeah time to charge her to the game brah.

[xvicknumber7x]

lmao next that girl homie. go see the boys.

gunna go get brittany in a few.

[Zackad]

i always check into this thread just to see how you boys are doing.

Gonna throw out a very controversial opinion for you guys, just based off my own experience.

You guys always say to keep texting for meetups specifically, and i agree with that, to a point. After you've smashed, I find that having conversations over text no longer matters if the girl is still into you after the smash. Granted, I'm not writing long ass winded replies, usually just responding to their texts and maybe engaging the convo a bit to keep it going, but it never goes bad.

of course if you're just doing it for the sake of smashing, don't waste your time having conversations about her day/life or you gonna get into bf territory real quick.

keep at it boys, these hoes don't stand a chance

[Komytea]

lol, no way I'd tolerate that.

Yeah time to charge her to the game brah.

lmao next that girl homie. go see the boys.

yup. fck it.

[alltrapbrah]

Never heard a word back from the teacher after the great date. Rip.

Got a latina bbw chick that is hyper interested.

Think an older lady at my job is flirting.

Gotta love my dating pool

Keep us updated brah. I can’t relate to these Chad-lites whereas I can relate to you. It’s nice to hear stories from someone with busted ass options. Funnier too, albeit in a kind of tragic way.

[Luc1fer]

Keep us updated brah. I can’t relate to these Chad-lites whereas I can relate to you. It’s nice to hear stories from someone with busted ass options. Funnier too, albeit in a kind of tragic way.

Lol true, can’t really relate to Vick having a consistent line of options and dates.

I’m pretty happy if I get a date with 1 reasonably cute girl every few weeks.

[alltrapbrah]

I’m pretty happy if I get a date with 1 reasonably cute girl every few weeks.

This is why my hat goes off to Otaku - he keeps pluggin’ away despite a chitty ROI.

[stevesteve12]

its weird because i told her on saturday that i will need at least 2-3 months to know if i want to be in a relationship with someone. ive barely even known her for two weeks.

anyway, last night's date was awesome. i'll update this post in a little while with it.

update:

went out with another hinge girl last night. she was cute, and she is a redhead. she is really talkative and funny and open. anyway, we go and play pool and she buys me a beer. nice. she is really insistent on paying her half. we get really comfortable with each other over the course of the date since we are both shiit at pool lmao. we play 3 games and it takes a long ass time because we are talking a lot and we both suck. we make a bet over the game and i lose so i have to learn a song on the fuucking recorder (she is a kids music teacher.) so we make some future plans and head out to leave. she legit grabs my face to make out with me, if i had a pussy it would have been soaked at that confidence level. so anyway, we parted ways. ill be seeing her saturday afternoon. she invited me over to make me dinner. she's pretty cool.

seeing brittany tonight for wings and whatever else, probably. i'd like to get to the bottom of that outburst the other day, but i'll probably ignore it.

following this thread here and there.

got any pix of these broads?

[Luc1fer]

This is why my hat goes off to Otaku - he keeps pluggin’ away despite a chitty ROI.

Ye I’ve given him kudos on that. I just didn’t/don’t have that sort of drive or desire. Although my ROI is much higher than 10 years ago, I can’t even fathom getting the interest levels Vick does.

[Rebel012]

Lol true, can’t really relate to Vick having a consistent line of options and dates.

I’m pretty happy if I get a date with 1 reasonably cute girl every few weeks.

A date with a cute girl from the apps every few weeks is still pretty decent.

[otakutrevan]

A date with a cute girl from the apps every few weeks is still pretty decent.

This.

*Decent Date Every 6 Months to a Year Crew*

Just lol at this **** man

EDIT: If anyone is bored ill post all the photos for girls that AGREED to dates when i used vicks photos and my game. Just LOL at him being "average white dude". His looks attract them wimmenz

[BlackScorpio91]

This.

*Decent Date Every 6 Months to a Year Crew*

Just lol at this **** man

EDIT: If anyone is bored ill post all the photos for girls that AGREED to dates when i used vicks photos and my game. Just LOL at him being "average white dude". His looks attract them wimmenz

Do it *******.