Matches have pretty much died ²

[FemaleWarriorxo]

You never miss a chance to virtue signal.

That’s fine. I virtue signal and you never miss a chance to be a blow up doll for a man. It seems like a win-win in our own books

I have high morals and always have. Not even getting cancer changed them lmaooo

[Mercworx]

Dude you just gotta weed out the vapid women. There are plenty of non-materialistic ones out there; and guess what? They’ll deserve the prize. Someone like Silencespeaks would be long gone and good riddance.

I never inform any women about my financial situation. My ex thought I was worth around 10% of what I am, and never knew for all the years we were together.

Lol not posting on social media would be a tough sell for those women. A woman that is light on social media is a big plus.

Good luck with your financial plan, you have the right attitude. If you need any advice, lmk.

Good point.


Will do, once I get situated here shortly I likely will reach out for advice. I need to get on a concise long term financial plan.

[Luc1fer]

Brb build up a stock pile of cash by 35 and call a 22yo woman a prostitute for not offering to pay for her $5 latte on a date.

Bit pricey, I'd pay $3 across the street

But if I do pay $5 for the latte, I'll have her sign an agreement for sexual intercourse.

[Luc1fer]

wanted to pop in and say hello to the crew

Damn dude, where did you disappear to?

[Legz422]

Thats a solid plan. Id even say thats about as good as it gets. Only thing making it better would be the ideal partner to share that with.


****ing 2k is insane. I'd love to pay cash for a house but with a pay cut on the horizon I just want to make sure I don't buy too much house in the first place. I can aim to aggressively pay it off later. About to have all consumer debt paid off this month.





I've come to despise all depreciating assets (liabilities really) and frivolous items that serve no purpose where the value is socially implied (gems).

But...can you even get that kind of woman without those things? Only girl I would assume wouldnt be after that would be our day 1 chicks. Long since gone. Then again you might be tempted to spoil that one for being by your side that long.


Those hbbs at the pier today. Decked out in exactly what youd expect, short tennis skirts, tight tops, addidas ultra boost, face full of makeup, jewelry and platinum blonde hair. Didnt seem like sloots but its definitely a "you must pay to enter" vibe. Youre success and stability is every bit the "prize" as their beauty and values. They may think whats the point of the money if we dont enjoy it. I wont lie. They are half right. Id rather spend it on experiences though, trips etc.

Try this experiment next time you take a girl on a nice trip. Tell her you will cover everything so long as she doesnt post anything about it to social media. Wonder if shed still be interested?

I'm in!!!!!

You never miss a chance to virtue signal.

Is it really virtue signaling if those are her true feelings/opinions? I just don't think so. Everyone is different. We all have different opinions and thoughts on things like money and everything else in life. What a boring world this would be if we all had the same opinions and thoughts.

[Luc1fer]

Is it really virtue signaling if those are her true feelings/opinions? I just don't think so. Everyone is different. We all have different opinions and thoughts on things like money and everything else in life. What a boring world this would be if we all had the same opinions and thoughts.

Exactly, and I will take you on the nice trip once I dump this 23yo

[Legz422]

Exactly, and I will take you on the nice trip once I dump this 23yo

Das it!!!!!!

lol

[FemaleWarriorxo]

I'm in!!!!!



Is it really virtue signaling if those are her true feelings/opinions? I just don't think so. Everyone is different. We all have different opinions and thoughts on things like money and everything else in life. What a boring world this would be if we all had the same opinions and thoughts.

It’s okay mama legz. SS is probably still upset that I told her she’s wasting her older years by banging fat chads. I was a bit harsh but I’m usually just a blunt person. Kinda ingrained into me due to having older brothers never sugar coating things



On a side note since my clearance of U.C. My current partner stated he wants to talk about children. Which is fine to talk about but it’s too soon to actually have them imo. Honestly has me thinking about his actions a bit lol

[Legz422]

It’s okay mama legz. SS is probably still upset that I told her she’s wasting her older years by banging fat chads. I was a bit harsh but I’m usually just a blunt person. Kinda ingrained into me due to having older brothers never sugar coating things



On a side note since my clearance of U.C. My current partner stated he wants to talk about children. Which is fine to talk about but it’s too soon to actually have them imo. Honestly has me thinking about his actions a bit lol

It seems like she is salty with you over something. I honestly didn't think anything you said in that post was virtue signaling. I also don't think that stating something that you believe in for yourself is virtue signaling. I'm not one who is into status symbols. Some will say it's because I'm poor, but if I were well off I can't see myself having tons of expensive purses, jewelry, etc. I do like things that are well made and will last, though. I'm more about quality than quantity, with so many things. I have a Kate Spade purse that I got for free through my work rewards program. That was probably 4 years ago and it's the only purse I've really used for all these years. It's still going strong and I'll use it until it falls apart. Does that make me a virtue signaler? Maybe to some people. Now clothes, that's a different story. I do love me some clothes shopping.

As for your bf talking about kids. Wat?! How long have you been dating?

[FemaleWarriorxo]

It seems like she is salty with you over something. I honestly didn't think anything you said in that post was virtue signaling. I also don't think that stating something that you believe in for yourself is virtue signaling. I'm not one who is into status symbols. Some will say it's because I'm poor, but if I were well off I can't see myself having tons of expensive purses, jewelry, etc. I do like things that are well made and will last, though. I'm more about quality than quantity, with so many things. I have a Kate Spade purse that I got for free through my work rewards program. That was probably 4 years ago and it's the only purse I've really used for all these years. It's still going strong and I'll use it until it falls apart. Does that make me a virtue signaler? Maybe to some people. Now clothes, that's a different story. I do love me some clothes shopping.

As for your bf talking about kids. Wat?! How long have you been dating?

I was a little rude to her. I admit. Probably shouldn’t of misc’d when my medication was causing me to feel rough lol

She’s reaching with the statement. In general I was raised in a traditional household. Which is something I love. I love the traditional mindset and way of living. I don’t care for designer items and this is coming from someone that literally gets spoiled by family. Brb had 100$ shoes at 8, pure gold earrings at 7, etc. All I’ve ever wanted (even as a kid/teen) was to be a SAHM. One of the main reasons why my degree is focused on IT. So I can be home with the children and raise them while my future husband does his thing outside of the house lol

Eh, I’ve known him for over 4yrs and dated since late March. I think he’s only bringing up to see if the sperm donation is still on my mind lol

Edit: which makes me giggle a bit. We haven’t even done anything sexual yet lol

[Legz422]

I was a little rude to her. I admit. Probably shouldn’t of misc’d when my medication was causing me to feel rough lol

She’s reaching with the statement. In general I was raised in a traditional household. Which is something I love. I love the traditional mindset and way of living. I don’t care for designer items and this is coming from someone that literally gets spoiled by family. Brb had 100$ shoes at 8, pure gold earrings at 7, etc. All I’ve ever wanted (even as a kid/teen) was to be a SAHM. One of the main reasons why my degree is focused on IT. So I can be home with the children and raise them while my future husband does his thing outside of the house lol

Eh, I’ve known him for over 4yrs and dated since late March. I think he’s only bringing up to see if the sperm donation is still on my mind lol

Oh I see. Well, I think we all get salty over certain things.

I don't think there's one thing wrong with wanting to be a SAHM. I was for a couple years, mostly worked part time until my son was 12 so that I could be home when he was not in school. It's not for everyone and I have nothing bad to say about moms who choose to work. It's a personal decision and I don't think we should be judging one or the other.

Ahhhhh.......didn't realize you'd known him for so long. Haha yeah, could be to see if sperm donation was still on your mind.

[Luc1fer]

SS is probably still upset that I told her she’s wasting her older years by banging fat chads. I was a bit harsh but I’m usually just a blunt person.

The truth usually hits people the hardest.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Oh I see. Well, I think we all get salty over certain things.

I don't think there's one thing wrong with wanting to be a SAHM. I was for a couple years, mostly worked part time until my son was 12 so that I could be home when he was not in school. It's not for everyone and I have nothing bad to say about moms who choose to work. It's a personal decision and I don't think we should be judging one or the other.

Ahhhhh.......didn't realize you'd known him for so long. Haha yeah, could be to see if sperm donation was still on your mind.

It’s human nature to get offended imo

I get it. I just think it’s important for one of the parents to always be there for the children. I just personally want to do it because I’ve always wanted to be the mother that would get up early and make the school lunches, be able to volunteer at their school when needed, encourage healthy after school activities, etc. I’d never judge a woman over picking work but I truly believe it’s a woman’s job to be there when creating a family.

Yee. I also think it’s due to the fact I’m so open about how bad I wanted children. I couldnt help it. I was a cute baby so I know for sure I’d make cute ones lmao. Let alone what I was going through lol

[FemaleWarriorxo]

The truth usually hits people the hardest.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Especially when you are in denial

[BigBallsMcgee]

Damn dude, where did you disappear to?

I think he just went into misc retirement

[Legz422]

It’s human nature to get offended imo

I get it. I just think it’s important for one of the parents to always be there for the children. I just personally want to do it because I’ve always wanted to be the mother that would get up early and make the school lunches, be able to volunteer at their school when needed, encourage healthy after school activities, etc. I’d never judge a woman over picking work but I truly believe it’s a woman’s job to be there when creating a family.

Yee. I also think it’s due to the fact I’m so open about how bad I wanted children. I couldnt help it. I was a cute baby so I know for sure I’d make cute ones lmao. Let alone what I was going through lol

Yeah, it was really great that I could go volunteer in his school all the time. I worked part time in the kitchen for a couple years too. That way I had off whenever he did and summers so I could be home with him. I knew all his classmates. It's been weird since he hit high school, besides the kids he went to school with from K-8th grade and their parents I don't really know anyone.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Yeah, it was really great that I could go volunteer in his school all the time. I worked part time in the kitchen for a couple years too. That way I had off whenever he did and summers so I could be home with him. I knew all his classmates. It's been weird since he hit high school, besides the kids he went to school with from K-8th grade and their parents I don't really know anyone.

Ye. Then you understand me a bit more.
Personally I have been saving just in case if me and my future husband decides to stay in the city. If so, I’d want to put my children through private school vs public in the city. I think it’d be a better option imo. That’s why I lol’d at what SS said.

I have my fun now since I am 23, but I don’t waste money. Never have. I’ve watched my parents go from rich to poor then to middle class. I think it’s one the biggest reasons why the traditional lifestyle has stuck with me for so long.

[Legz422]

Ye. Then you understand me a bit more.
Personally I have been saving just in case if me and my future husband decides to stay in the city. If so, I’d want to put my children through private school vs public in the city. I think it’d be a better option imo. That’s why I lol’d at what SS said.

I have my fun now since I am 23, but I don’t waste money. Never have. I’ve watched my parents go from rich to poor then to middle class. I think it’s one the biggest reasons why the traditional lifestyle has stuck with me for so long.

It's definitely worth being there for them as they grow. It goes so fast. It's not easy being a full time mom, but IMO, I don't regret any of that time I had with him. Now that he's basically an adult it's nice to have those memories to look back on and cherish.

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and a good plan for your future.

[DustinTheHuss]

I gave up responding to the idiotic roommate comments, I don't think people recognize the added expense of having your own place, even a studio.

The people criticizing me are unlikely to be on track for early retirement.

That said, when I do leave the city I will have my own place.

You said you live in a big city. It's ridiculous to get your own apartment and blow that much money. I wish I was on track for early retirement. GJDM

[FemaleWarriorxo]

It's definitely worth being there for them as they grow. It goes so fast. It's not easy being a full time mom, but IMO, I don't regret any of that time I had with him. Now that he's basically an adult it's nice to have those memories to look back on and cherish.

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and a good plan for your future.

Thanks mama legz. I’d say I’m more stubborn with my morals in a way. When I have my mindset to something it’ll never change It can be seen as a good head, or something that can be flaw. I like the best of both lmao

I’m sure he appreciates everything you’ve done for him. I know I loved the early memories of when my mother was actually acting like one lol

[Legz422]

Thanks mama legz. I’d say I’m more stubborn with my morals in a way. When I have my mindset to something it’ll never change It can be seen as a good head, or something that can be flaw. I like the best of both lmao

I’m sure he appreciates everything you’ve done for him. I know I loved the early memories of when my mother was actually acting like one lol

Ahhhhh...... you sound like me. Stubborn AF here. lol Of course it can be bad at times, but I really think it's a good thing in the end.

I think he does appreciate those times. We watched his schools livestream Mass on Sunday and there was a lot of Mothers Day talk and the priest was talking about how important our sons are to us and have been since we carried them. I got all teary eyed and squeezed his arm and said "it's true. it's so true". Sniffle. I love my baby so much. I can't believe he's graduating high school in a few weeks.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Ahhhhh...... you sound like me. Stubborn AF here. lol Of course it can be bad at times, but I really think it's a good thing in the end.

I think he does appreciate those times. We watched his schools livestream Mass on Sunday and there was a lot of Mothers Day talk and the priest was talking about how important our sons are to us and have been since we carried them. I got all teary eyed and squeezed his arm and said "it's true. it's so true". Sniffle. I love my baby so much. I can't believe he's graduating high school in a few weeks.

Haha. Yeah i can be very stubborn lol I’m still young so it’s at the peak, but I’m working towards on destroying the flawed side lol
I am thankful for it a bit. It has helped me a lot with making decisions throughout my life.

Aww. That’s so freaking adorable! Is the school doing anything graduation at all during this coronavirus? Also you should be proud mama legz (:

[spadelexus]

Spade, you have a lot to learn about Silencespeaks. She doesn’t offer constructive criticism, she nitpicks at apparent flaws with a holier than thou attitude, while NEVER admitting fault and stubbornly continues to parrot her point. Debating her is a frustratingly fruitless endeavor.

She’s an autistic troll, and left this thread due to so many posters getting sick of it and calling her out.

I remember her from the tinder threads. She was the only female poster in that thread. I'm one of a handful of miscers that know what she looks like. So maybe I give her more respect than others do bc of the history. Still don't understand the hate.

The only reason why I think she could be a male troll is bc she knows what I look like and declined to meet. Women in her age bracket/looks caliber usually compete for my attention.

She does add some hilariously cheeky comments tho, gotta give her that.

Bit pricey, I'd pay $3 across the street

But if I do pay $5 for the latte, I'll have her sign an agreement for sexual intercourse.

As crazy is this sounds there are girl next door type women out there who would sign.

Who's the bigger fool.

Exactly, and I will take you on the nice trip once I dump this 23yo

You're missing the point. If a woman feels like you are being stingy on things, that gives off a vibe which says "what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours" at the least. That's a fair/semi-safe area to play in early on in a relationship.

However after a certain point if you are still acting stingy on things she'll think it's selfishness and think "what happens when I go on maternity leave, and only get paid for two weeks vacation? Will he expect me to still pay half of everything while I'm waking up at 3am changing diapers and breastfeeding his fukin baby?"

You don't want to be the guy giving off that vibe dude. It's not much better then a deadbeat who can't keep a job.

And I say it's a semi safe area to play in above bc that's how most people think towards strangers. But when you are dating for a potential baby momma, especially if she is below your socioeconomic status, giving off the "what's mine is mine/yours is yours" vibe could potentially have a woman subconsciously think "what happens when I go on maternity leave?" and eliminate you. So why risk that over a $3.50 coffee? Seems penny wise and pound foolish to me.

If you are smart than you should really think about how to leverage your status. Most women look for a man that has good genetics and who is smart & strong enough to protect and provide during a crisis so her children will survive.

Side note: I didn't put my ex wife on my main cash account until our 2nd child. We had a joint account I transferred money to while she was a stay at home mom breastfeeding/making me 3 meals a day, so she could buy food and diapers. My ex is a selfless, frugile woman. She was never into a flashy lifestyle, shiny jewelry, etc...She bought everything on sale, would walk past Anthropologie to go in H&M, etc... I would say stuff like "lets go to [insert European or Carribean country] for a week with the baby" and she would say "we don't have the money." I literally had to fight her, so I could spend money I made, to take my family to Rome, Israel, Canada, Dominican Republic, etc..

She's also a very smart woman, but can be impulsive. So I think to myself if 42yo me, met 23yo her today, and took her for a first date coffee, and when we got to the cash register the cashier asks "are these together or separate?" and I said "separate" - she would probably next me in a heartbeat. Understand when I met her I was 24 and broke. In fact, she probably paid more than 50% early on in the relationship. Let that sink in.

[rikugunchusa]

shoutout to the clearly attractive women on tinder with absolutely abysmal photos..y'all are the GOATs

[Legz422]

Haha. Yeah i can be very stubborn lol I’m still young so it’s at the peak, but I’m working towards on destroying the flawed side lol
I am thankful for it a bit. It has helped me a lot with making decisions throughout my life.

Aww. That’s so freaking adorable! Is the school doing anything graduation at all during this coronavirus? Also you should be proud mama legz (:

I think if the stubborn is channeled correctly then it's def a bonus. It's helped me keep to personal goals/standards in my life.

I am very proud of my son. He's a good kid. It feels so weird to be almost done with raising him.

I remember her from the tinder threads. She was the only female poster in that thread. I'm one of a handful of miscers that know what she looks like. So maybe I give her more respect than others do bc of the history. Still don't understand the hate.

The only reason why I think she could be a male troll is bc she knows what I look like and declined to meet. Women in her age bracket/looks caliber usually compete for my attention.

She does add some hilariously cheeky comments tho, gotta give her that.

LMAO You're ridiculous. So if someone doesn't have any interest in meeting a Miscer they're automatically frauding on being a woman? Good to know I'm a fake because I don't want to meet someone.

[Luc1fer]

Spade, if you wanna flush women with expensive dinners, gifts and flaunt your status - go right ahead.

You have created a false dichotomy in your contrived set of examples. There's a huge grayscale in between. Honestly not surprised autistic SS would create such a black & white mischaracterization, but you should be capable of nuance. I may not be at the perfect point in the grayscale, but I will continue to lean towards weeding out materialistic women.

At this point, it sounds like you're merely attempting to rationalize your approach as "exhibiting my protector and provider prowess", whereas in reality it's just showering young women in ways that younger men can't, to feed your own narcissism.

And I think the bolded point above mine fully exposes your level of narcissism.

[Legz422]

Spade, if you wanna flush women with expensive dinners, gifts and flaunt your status - go right ahead.

You have created a false dichotomy in your contrived set of examples. There's a huge grayscale in between. Honestly not surprised autistic SS would create such a black & white mischaracterization, but you should be capable of nuance.

At this point, it sounds like you're merely attempting to rationalize your approach as "exhibiting my protector and provider prowess", whereas in reality it's just showering young women in ways that younger men can't, to feed your own narcissism.

And I think the bolded point above mine fully exposes your level of narcissism.

I agree with you. Buying someone a coffee or a drink is no biggie, but splurging on expensive dinners for a first meet for someone you've never even met before is legit ridiculous. Whether you can afford it or not.

Yes, the bolded was complete narcissism. "Oh, any woman that doesn't want to meet me must be frauding. " Just lol. Is too bad he doesn't have long hair to flip as he says that.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

I think if the stubborn is channeled correctly then it's def a bonus. It's helped me keep to personal goals/standards in my life.

I am very proud of my son. He's a good kid. It feels so weird to be almost done with raising him.



LMAO You're ridiculous. So if someone doesn't have any interest in meeting a Miscer they're automatically frauding on being a woman? Good to know I'm a fake because I don't want to meet someone.

That’s what I’m focusing on mama legz. I think channeling your flaws into positive aspects it’ll help control them. So far it has worked besides a few hiccups, but I am human

I wouldn’t see it that way mama legz. He’ll always need you (:

Also loling at spades ego. Holy hell.


SS please come back. I want to debate our differences even though everyone knows that you’re a troll. My debate groups are becoming boring

[spadelexus]

Spade, if you wanna flush women with expensive dinners, gifts and flaunt your status - go right ahead.

You have created a false dichotomy in your contrived set of examples. There's a huge grayscale in between. Honestly not surprised autistic SS would create such a black & white mischaracterization, but you should be capable of nuance. I may not be at the perfect point in the grayscale, but I will continue to lean towards weeding out materialistic women.

At this point, it sounds like you're merely attempting to rationalize your approach as "exhibiting my protector and provider prowess", whereas in reality it's just showering young women in ways that younger men can't, to feed your own narcissism.

And I think the bolded point above mine fully exposes your level of narcissism.

No.You should know by now I'm only dinner pitching some young pretty women in their prime who I known there's top compitition for and I know there's a good chance of getting intimate with. Yeah that's obviously a full throttle looks/money/status flex, and I know going into these girls aren't LTR potential. They wanna get dolled up in heels taken out by a tall well dressed decent looking guy then dominated. Funny some actually offer to split believe it or not. But the vast majority are drink/dessert pitches. The gift thing you're making up for whatever reason. And that strategy I use as a 42yo male pulling college/sorority girls wasn't even what I was talking about bc those are casual encounters. But there's a little overlap.

I was talking about you telling me you write 23yo girls off if they don't offer to split coffee.

That's just absurd. Sorry you don't get it. Reread the last part about my ex and you might.

And that part about silence rejecting me was obviously bait. Knew either SS or legz would take it. Im cocky but not to that extreme.

I'm not her type anyway. She likes fat kids.

[HoustonMiscer]

I finally got a haircut today