Hey guys, I found an article over the net from people magazine about what women call "bad boys", what's interesting about this is that it's written by a woman, and you can see things from another perspective.
Reading this article makes me see things I never saw, I mean, this article describes me so well, I'm EXACTLY like that and never realized it, it explains so much things.
Bad Boys by Cindy Chupack
A good man is not so hard to find. I've dated a bunch of them. They call when they say tey're going to call, they take you out on actual dates, they tell their friends and even their parents about you, they like their parents, they play their phone messages in front of you, they have just one glass of wine with dinner because they're driving, they have jobs, they have female friends, they haven't slept with... yeah yeah, whatever. The point is, they're not hard to find. Bad Boys are hard to find, because they're never where they're supposed to be. In fact, they're not supposed to be anywhere. They do as they please. They are where the wind takes them. If you're lucky; you might get a cell phone number, so you never know exactly what (or who) a Bad boy is doing, It's infuriating and insensitive and intriguing and insane and oh, how we love Bad boys.
You know you're dating a bad boy when you're not sure if you're actually dating. Bad boys are ussually one of two things: unavailable or undressed. This leaves you unable to think of anything but where the hell is he and when will he do that to me again? Bad boys are rulebreakers and hearth breakers and bed shakers and oh, how we love Bad boys.
A bad boy will call you "baby", probably because he forgot your name, but still, there's nothing sexier than a bad boy who's dying to see you, baby. It doesn't matter if anything he says is true. It sounds good, and it feels good, because baby, bad boys have thrown down. Bad boys are not tentative about kissing. They are not tentative about anything. THey know what they want, and they go for it, which it's thrilling when it's you, and not so thrilling when it's suddenly the model eating at the table next to yours.
Of course, that rarely happens, because bad boys rarely take you out, they don't have to. The bar is low for bad boys. They don't have to surprise you with flowers, it's a surprise they show up at all. In fact, a bad boy is happy to let a good guy take you to dinner, ask you about you, kiss you goodnight at the door... a bad boy knows he can call at midnight and still get invited for dessert.
Bad boys ARE dessert. They're like hot fudge sundaes. You know they're not good for you. You know that as a woman, at a certain age, you're not supposed to indulge anymore, but that doesn't mean you won't fantazise about it while you're eating your mixed berries. The other fantasy, of course, is that you will somehow reform a bad boy. That you will meet one with a motorcycle ans tatoos and a love of bars, and he will tell you he's trouble, but clearly that's all a front. In truth, he's just wounded, as we all are, and eventually he'll fall madly in love with you because you are what's missing in his life. Okay, I admit it. I recently married a bad boy. The thing is, bad boys are so elusive, so aware of their options (her, her and her), so impossible to pin down, that when a bad boy gives you a ring, it means something. That you should hire a very old nanny.
Oh, oh, oh, how we love bad boys.
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11-19-2005, 04:06 AM #1
"Bad boys", from a woman's perspective
Johnny Rocket
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11-19-2005, 07:44 AM #2
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11-19-2005, 08:47 AM #6
Who the hell is the dumb broad who wrote this article? She sounds like she can't be a day older than 20. This girl is just like the rest of the young ones, as clearly stated by the end of the article, when she says they'll eventually fall in love with you. It's so typical, they all get treated like **** but "have feelings for them and can't leave them" and continue to get treated like crap, because they all think they can change the guy into a nice one. Even though they can't, it's so contradictory, because they went for the guy in the first place because he was an overconfident asswipe, and now they want to change him into something that didn't attract them? Just further proof brothers, most girls are ****ed until atleast 25-30 years old.
This girl needs a dose of what a bad boy is. An ass kicking never before seen by the likes of wife beaters around the world, and then maybe she will appreciate the ones who give a **** about them. I guess I'm just sour on the whole topic, of idiotic girls going for bad boys, when there is so much better out there. Besides, most "bad boys" are limp wristed 19-22 year old collar-popping bar-hopping frat pussies who just never call. Never calling makes you Billy Badass apparently.
Oh well, I won't complain, I lucked out and got a 21 year old who appreciates nice guys who do things for them, call them, etc, and hates the types I just mentioned above.
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11-19-2005, 09:04 AM #7
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11-19-2005, 10:35 AM #12
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11-19-2005, 11:33 AM #13
Girls like this can never possibly be happy. Nice guys are too boring for them and the type of nice guy she described is a guy with a good head on his shoulders and is going places. The bad boy hurts her either emotionally or physically yet that is the only type a guy that gets her off.
I feel sorry for girls like her.
Don't think that all women are like this lady who was probably abused as a child.
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11-19-2005, 11:56 AM #14
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11-19-2005, 12:15 PM #15
im a bike drive driving , bar hopin , titty bar living , tattoo time bomb and i never try hard to land a girl i just be me and do what i like to do and the funny thing is .. i had a nerd of a girl that is very nice the complete oppisit of my self she used to chase me and now we been together for 8 years now i been with many girls but i never met a girl like this i am lucky as hell and now finialy after all this time she wants to own her own motor cycle !!!
“If there is no struggle, there is no progress.” - Frederick Douglass
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11-19-2005, 02:16 PM #16
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11-19-2005, 02:23 PM #17
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11-19-2005, 02:38 PM #18
<--- agrees with the article being stupid..
It reminds me of that Fonze looking kid from the Family Guy (from the episode where Meg or whatever the daughter's name is gets a make-over and he asks her out, but tells her that he'll pick her up whenever he feels like it).▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒▒
I am Jack's complete lack of surprise.
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11-19-2005, 03:56 PM #19
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11-20-2005, 09:04 AM #27
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11-20-2005, 09:16 AM #28
Well, I think some people got the point I was trying to make...
The fact is, like it or not: most women are like THIS, to some degree; most will never recognize it because it shows their lack of logical sense, some can say it shamelessly; and the minority looks for something deeper; but nature works this way, folks.
The article, stupid or not, shallow or not, just shows some woman in their 30's telling what she likes (she's a writer that won three golden globes and an Emmy), and where she sees the appeal of a free man, a guy that will never kiss anyone's ass and does what he wants to do, a real independent man, who doesn't need a woman at his side to call girlfriend, or "bad boy" as she calls them.Johnny Rocket
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11-20-2005, 09:18 AM #29Originally Posted by The Experiment
No she's a moron, her definition of a nice guy is a guy with a job, doesn't drink and drive, and actually gets along with his parents. None of those qualities make a guy a pushover.
what is the world coming to if those are negative qualities for a guy?
cindy chupack = dip****
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11-20-2005, 09:23 AM #30
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