When did you accept that you’ll never meet a girl to date?

[MiscerLonely3]

How old were you? Or what year was it?

I foolishly kept trying and holding hope till my early 30s.

[Godfrd824]

The day I got married.

[OsPerez1996]

How old were you? Or what year was it?

I foolishly kept trying and holding hope till my early 30s.

Like Attract Like.

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Want Greater Women.

BE AN EVER-GREATER MAN.

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Stop being a pxssy.

or

Try men.

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The choice is yours.

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[NMS3]

Like Attract Like.

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Want Greater Women.

BE AN EVER-GREATER MAN.

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Stop being a pxssy.

or

Try men.

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The choice is yours.

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This is the way. Whatever the mind of man can bring himself to believe, he will achieve. If you believe you cannot meet a girl to date, this is the reality you create for yourself.
The good news here is simple. If you want to find yourself a girl to date, then you must be in the state of a man that is, indeed, dating a girl/in a relationship. You create your reality based on the states that you occupy within.

[weiss1967]

This is the way. Whatever the mind of man can bring himself to believe, he will achieve. If you believe you cannot meet a girl to date, this is the reality you create for yourself.
The good news here is simple. If you want to find yourself a girl to date, then you must be in the state of a man that is, indeed, dating a girl/in a relationship. You create your reality based on the states that you occupy within.

not quite. Good start, but there is more to it. Meeting a girl should be a low priority to begin with.

[fishnbrah]

like probably 32.

[BigElephant]

like probably 32.

Same actually. I'm still going to try but I know it's a longshot now. My pecker doesn't get hard currently as I just had prostate removal a couple weeks ago. Also because of that I can't father kids now so even if I found a woman I'd feel bad about depriving her of the joy of being a mother. I pretty much have to find a woman who is barren and shares my values and isn't a sloot, and on top of that would be willing to date/marry a manlet. Not good odds.

[wigwogzigzog]

In Lonely by Akon he lost his girl. Did you ever have a girl op

[MiscerLonely3]

This is the way. Whatever the mind of man can bring himself to believe, he will achieve. If you believe you cannot meet a girl to date, this is the reality you create for yourself.
The good news here is simple. If you want to find yourself a girl to date, then you must be in the state of a man that is, indeed, dating a girl/in a relationship. You create your reality based on the states that you occupy within.

Not going to work, I tried “manifesting” a girlfriend into my life. Didn’t work. I will never date or have a girlfriend. No girl has even ever been remotely interested in the idea of even talking to me.

Same actually. I'm still going to try but I know it's a longshot now. My pecker doesn't get hard currently as I just had prostate removal a couple weeks ago. Also because of that I can't father kids now so even if I found a woman I'd feel bad about depriving her of the joy of being a mother. I pretty much have to find a woman who is barren and shares my values and isn't a sloot, and on top of that would be willing to date/marry a manlet. Not good odds.

Damn, it’s over for you. Although I have a feeling that it never began.

In Lonely by Akon he lost his girl. Did you ever have a girl op

Brutal, can’t even like my favorite song about being alone without being reminded that I’ve never even had anyone like the lonely guy in the song.

Nopr, never even have been close to having a girl.

[FelixTheCat1919]

When MiscerLonely3 began enlightening the misc on the subject

[OsPerez1996]

Not going to work, I tried “manifesting” a girlfriend into my life...I will never date or have a girlfriend. No girl has even ever been remotely interested in the idea of even talking to me.

Not about manifesting brother.

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You are revealing your actions(or lack thereof) ((ie: who you are as a man)) in your posts.

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As stated above by Weiss1967 as well: meeting a women is indeed low priority.

It's about who you are as a Man brother.

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Eliminate the sob story (( "whoa is me" self defeatism ))

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Own that you are deciding currently to be a man that warrants minimal female attention.

YOU CAN DECIDE OTHERWISE AT ANY MOMENT THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS.

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Your Life is Your Decision Absolutely Brother.

Great Love.

[mrdot]

ive had a few girlfriends when i was younger they all progressively got worse and worse so after my last one i realized how bad they are and id rather stay single

and these were girls i met in person , i couldnt imagine dating a girl from tinder they have all been with so many guys its unreal

[Visel]

Not going to work, I tried “manifesting” a girlfriend into my life. Didn’t work. I will never date or have a girlfriend. No girl has even ever been remotely interested in the idea of even talking to me.




Damn, it’s over for you. Although I have a feeling that it never began.



Brutal, can’t even like my favorite song about being alone without being reminded that I’ve never even had anyone like the lonely guy in the song.

Nopr, never even have been close to having a girl.

Ever considered doing the visa method, incentivize a woman from a 3rd world country or something like that?

TBH if I were in your shoes OP I'd just try to look on the bright side. Get lost in your own ideal systems and hobbies during 100% of your leisure time. Just be like Gale Boetticher from Breaking Bad, or Adrian Monk from Monk.

[wasp9166]

When the cellphone came out

Sadly

[johnvee73]

I stopped chasing women almost 13 years ago, they all have one, or multiple of the following problems: sl*t, dirty, lazy, welfare, ugly, fat, stupid.

[RichH0mieQuan]

the day I made my first alone in the trap thread

[V0M1T]

when i was bout 16-17

all my friends started banging/dating chicks

i still couldnt even talk to one without getting red in the face and sweating

tour was over way long ago

[nothingshocking]

ive had a few girlfriends when i was younger they all progressively got worse and worse so after my last one i realized how bad they are and id rather stay single

Pretty much this. Been dating a lot since I got divorced 10 years ago, mainly women in their 30's. Like mrdot, either they have been progressively worse or I was not seeing it earlier. So, I did some reflecting last year. I turn 50 in November, and I've been planning for solo life and travel the last 1/3 of my functional life.

I found one a couple months ago though, seems pretty awesome but not sure if it can go long term. Enjoying the moment for now.

good luck boyos

[latverian41]

I've only accepted the fact that I don't try to fin one anymore. Finding a chic is not a hard thing OP.

[Voidgaze]

When I was sitting across from her on a date and thought "Now that I finally did it, I actually don't feel like being here"

Got tired of putting in work just to go on dates with women who I didn't actually like.

[MiscerLonely3]

Ever considered doing the visa method, incentivize a woman from a 3rd world country or something like that?

TBH if I were in your shoes OP I'd just try to look on the bright side. Get lost in your own ideal systems and hobbies during 100% of your leisure time. Just be like Gale Boetticher from Breaking Bad, or Adrian Monk from Monk.

Already tried. Didn’t work. I’m Indian and couldn’t even get a girl to agree to arrange marry me. It’s over, it never even considered begging for me.
Also it’s not as simply as just “go overseas bro” or just “get an arranged marriage to a homely Pajeeta bro”.

the day I made my first alone in the trap thread

Damn, I feel honored that you replied to my thread (srs).

[BigElephant]

Damn, it’s over for you. Although I have a feeling that it never began.

Pretty much. The erections will come back within 3 months, but not being able to give a woman a child sucks and will be a deal breaker for many. Especially the type of woman I'm looking for.

And as for never began, pretty accurate as I've always been short and had social anxiety. I should have pushed myself more in HS and college to date classmates though. That was probably my best shot as it lets you get to know girls gradually without the pressure of immediately initiating romance. Tbf it would have still been hard in college though as I never saw the same women semester to semester. So pretty much I'd have 3-4 months to make something happen and then have to start all over next semester.

Closest I got was a girl in band with me. But she was leading me on/using me for validation and was never really interested, I just was unable to recognize those social and language cues at the time. If that happened now I would know pretty quickly that she was uninterested and it wouldn't effect me as much and I wouldn't waste as much time on her as I did.

[DrewDarden]

I never had that problem.

But I am older than many Miscers at 43, and Incel Miscers ALMOST had me believing that there truly was something different about the current generation... But then my own sons grew up to dating age and eventually marriage age. And neither one of them ever had trouble getting dates. Now my oldest is married.

It always was in the hands of the incel himself. There are good females out there.

It was always you.

Srs post.

[jmal2000]

Never had a problem with females. I'm tall funny and good looking. I've worked hard on my social skills and myself tho. And it shows. Girls love confidence and I have it.

[Onlinedatingcel]

I'm the opposite of good looking, tall, great shape, rich and narcissistic.

I'll spare myself the humiliation.

[Rebel012]

Already tried. Didn’t work. I’m Indian and couldn’t even get a girl to agree to arrange marry me. It’s over, it never even considered begging for me.
Also it’s not as simply as just “go overseas bro” or just “get an arranged marriage to a homely Pajeeta bro”.



Damn, I feel honored that you replied to my thread (srs).

Have you tried not being obese?