People typically think of the “betabuxx” as a nerdy Timmy that couldn’t get laid and now is being used for money. But in reality I very rarely see a high volume of ugly guys with money married to a woman.
Yes, every now and then (especially online) you’ll find some fat ugly old rich guy with a yacht in Miami married to an obvious bimbo gold digger. I’m not talking about super rich yacht owner with an obvious gold digger. That’s not what I’m taking about.
I’m talking about regular women that work regular jobs with regular guys (that happen to make like $120k plus) maybe they’re in sales or managers or own their own business or tradies or whatever.
When you see a 4-7/10 mid 30s married woman (who has had lots of previous partners) and she finally settles down, she’s not settling down with a beta Timmy, she’s settling with a 6ish/10 Brad (good looking but not Chad) with a good job. She has options to get good looking, hard working and upper middle class Brad. Why would she choose an ugly guy making $170k when she can get a decent looking guy making $140k?
That’s why ugly guys focusing on their careers and making money won’t end up with a decent looking post wall 5/10 woman, she has options for better, Timmy will need to settle for a 2/10 that still has more sexual and relationship experience than he does.
On the other hand this makes the 6/10 tradie/sales/high earning Brad a cuck by misc logic as the 4-7/10 has been ran through by a magnitude of Chad’s but now Brad has to provide for her (beta 5’7 IT worker $200k tech nerd Timmy wasn’t even an option for the 6/10 38 year old lady).
We all know a lot of 8/10 who partied and slept around in their 20s now in her mid 30s wants to settle down, she doesn’t want an ugly guy but also can’t get the top Chad she dreams off, so she gets the next best option: Brad that will treat her well and take care of her while not being ugly (albeit not a Chad).
Even if I made $200k a year, I can’t get a 4/10 34 year old to date me by buying her gifts or dinners as there is a 6/10 male that makes $180k around the corner or a swipe away that will gladly wine and dine and marry her.
You’re not going to meet a girl to date by simply trying to “betabuxx”.
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