I was a kissless virgin until 15 then lost my virginity a month later.
I've had sex with 9 girls since and was in a long term relationship from 16-19
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04-14-2014, 02:32 PM #31
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04-14-2014, 02:34 PM #32
I don't know, you can just sense desperation. It's mostly noticeble at clubs.
You seems to have **** confidence, also not good. You should work on that. Don't think so much negative thoughts about yourself, it will only hurt you.
Everytime I go on a date or some ****, I always do a couple of push ups and tell myself that im hot. Works wonders.
If you really feel bad about how you look do something about it.
Buy some new cloths, get a new haircut change something. May sound girly but if there is anything women know how to fix, then it's confidence.Hate hate.
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04-14-2014, 02:35 PM #33
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04-14-2014, 02:37 PM #34
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It's of course easy to say this without being sure, but I don't think it's nearly as big a deal as I was making it out to be when I was a virgin. 34 years is a long time to let your imagination blow something out of proportion, and I had pussy really blown up in my head. Do I enjoy sex? Of course. Could I go without it again? Yeah I think so.
"That boulder is too large. I could lift a smaller one."
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04-14-2014, 02:48 PM #35
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04-14-2014, 02:50 PM #36
Lol I just realized that I'm going to be turning 20 in a month... and I'm still a kissless hugless virgin
A girl approached me at the gym a few nights back and said she wanted to get big like me. We joked around for a bit then she proceeded to stare at me for the rest of my workout. I wouldn't mind clapping her cheeks but hopefully she doesn't expect me to be a pro.*got windows tinted to pick nose while driving crew*
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04-14-2014, 02:50 PM #37
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04-14-2014, 02:56 PM #38
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So much this. I let social anxiety lull me into this way of thinking when I was late teens-early 20's. Super shy introvert in high school and always told myself "Well it'll just happen eventually right?". No. You have to go out there and get what you want. Go have fun. Go talk to girls wherever. I actually almost want to cry thinking about how many girls were making it obvious I should have gone for them, especially in high school. You don't have to score a number or get laid every time you try (though more power to you if you do) But it gets easier EVERY time you talk to a girl.
Opie, you shoot yourself in the foot saying "girls with high standards". Sorry to go against the Misc Code here but not all girls are superficial bishes or cawk hungry sloots who just want someone with aesthetics. The problem is you calling yourself a fat gunt, if that's how you truly feel go do something about it. NO girl wants to be with a sad fuk who thinks the world around him just can't appreciate his inner beauty, go tell that to a Dove marketing executive.
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04-14-2014, 02:57 PM #39
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04-14-2014, 02:59 PM #40
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Total lack of confidence. I went to a really small school (13 kids in my class) and had some really ****ty interactions with girls at a young age. Treated pretty badly, publicly ostracized, that kind of crap. I've always been overweight (outside the Army) and just built up this massive fear of rejection, coupled with the fact that my hobbies are pretty much all solo (computer building, art, reading, music, gaming, etc). I don't enjoy clubs or bars very much, and I don't have any friends outside of work. My family is really spread out geographically and so I pretty much just do everything by myself. I'd probably still be in that situation if a BB.com user (female) hadn't PM'd me suggesting we meet up and have sex. You can read the thread concerning this in my sig if it interests you. Basically I was guilty of massively putting pussy on a pedestal, because now that she and I are having sex regularly, I realize there's really nothing to it. It's fun sure, but I now realize that there's nothing wrong with spending time by yourself, and I now enjoy my time alone almost as much as I do spending it with her. I'm much, much happier in general and don't have this "weight" on my shoulders like I used to.
Oh, and the Wizard powers are top secret."That boulder is too large. I could lift a smaller one."
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04-14-2014, 03:01 PM #41
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04-14-2014, 03:09 PM #43
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04-14-2014, 03:15 PM #44
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04-14-2014, 03:19 PM #45
Lol no thanks Jeff
I'm just not interested in fukking some random sloots from a bar
Looking to get a proper gf but it takes time. Been spending loads of time programming and getting good grades so I'm not even too bothered. But considering there are close to no girls in CS classes it's harder to get some solid contacts. Been hitting up some party's but meh
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04-14-2014, 03:24 PM #46
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04-14-2014, 03:26 PM #47
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04-14-2014, 03:48 PM #48
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I want you to go out to a club or bar
Get a little intoxicated
and hit on every ugly chick you see
Get a Plenty of Fish account and message every woman in your area
If you do this for 3 weeks in a row and don't get laid or at least kissed I will fly out to where you live and buy you a woman.Skepticism is the chastity of the intellect, and it is shameful to surrender it too soon or to the first comer: there is nobility in preserving it coolly and proudly through long youth, until at last, in the ripeness of instinct and discretion, it can be safely exchanged for fidelity and happiness
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04-15-2014, 06:57 AM #51
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04-15-2014, 06:58 AM #52
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04-15-2014, 07:06 AM #53
Attend high school party, drink bourbon and talk to girls. Liquid courage, brah!
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04-15-2014, 07:11 AM #55
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20 soon, still no gf, kiss less etc. not too bothered tbh, i wouldn't care about it if there was no misc.
At 17 you have better things to do than think about getting laid. Also i find that from 17-20 the development of oneitis can be absolutely crippling.Last edited by MrRipley; 04-15-2014 at 07:13 AM.
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