Girls always lose interest after a while

[BericDondarrion]

Most legit thread in this section, right up there with the Saucehead stuff.

[Skullbreaker]

your observation is true bro. i know that feels.

[CheekyChris23]

Just judging by the thread title's logic, "girls always lose interest after a while;" if that is true, then what is the point in dating/marriage?

Brb don't do either because she will lose interest eventually and shag Tyrone, Chad, Fernando, and Ahmed while you watch and wear a chastity belt.

The title is erroneously flawed and generalizes bigly.

[drvillain]

strong bump ITT

[sundrops]

This hits on truths about biological fitness & sexual attraction. But to assume the "only purpose" we have is to reproduce is presumptuous and silly, although it is the cultural Marxist PC fashionable view.

The more you learn about real biology, physics, mathematics, music, the less the Darwinian mechanism makes sense as an explanation for the complexity of life.

In fact, it's mathematically so improbable that the function "sexual selection + random mutation" accounts for the diversity & complexity of life so as to make this theory absurd. It's been tested by computer algorithms and they can't achieve anything. In fact entropy and all tests show that life on earth would become more chaotic and self limiting, not more ordered & complex.

To understand the universe we must think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration. - Nicolas Tesla .

I think the same applies to male & female. And that biology, survival & reproduction are very important parts in this system.

But reducing our relationships to sexual evolution is not helpful for building a healthy society with strong morals & family.

Where the source of this energy is and what it is can not be assumed. But to assume there is no purpose besides the physical is a foolish & scientifically unfounded notion being pushed by a Marxist political agenda that is destroying our culture.

The goal of these silly ideas being pushed by mainstream as the only scientifically valid truth?? To reduce you and your Divine Will, all of your rights & dignity, to meaningless. Because in a spiritual vacuum humans are fearful & more easily controlled. The state assumes the almighty role of the creator. And you are nothing but what it decides is most useful for Progress.

[DavieCrockett]

According to zyzz and the other genetic elite, a girl will make a move on you if she is interested enough. If you find yourself having to make a move or "missing" escalation windows, she just wasn't interested enough.

LMS/face crew checking in

I'm going to quote my Pa here. If a woman likes you, you'll be having to chase her away. Women are really clingy around their boyfriends. If she's not putting in an effort, she just doesn't like you.

I learned that lesson after chasing the same girl for a semester. She'd do just enough to have me thinking I had a chance, but never put in the effort to actually date.

[AndroMuscle]

I dont know dude, just enjoy the time you have i guess.
Try to believe in yourself and her, that things are good.
Try to look for signs or mistakes or anything that might not be going right...

[AndroMuscle]

I'm gonna break it down for you like this bro. As an animal species our only purpose on this earth is to survive and reproduce just like all the other animals that populate this world. Our sole purpose is to live long enough to pass on our genes and then die. But somewhere along the line we evolved to such a degree that we began to add layers and layers of meaning to these two functions of survival and reproduction. As mankind progressed through time and moved from a nomadic race to a civilized race we developed these meanings into beliefs. These beliefs then evolved further into norms and standards which have morphed/changed over the centuries as we grew more "civilized." And we lost sight of the fact that 90% of human behavior is tied into survival and reproduction. For instance, we want acceptance by our peers - why? survival. We want a job, money, and material things - why? survival. And so on.

Now why is this all relevant? B/c when it comes to women you need to look to the reproductive instinct and this instinct is governed by the laws of nature. Males mate with the most fertile females and females mate with the strongest most dominant males.

If your woman is losing interest in you over time its b/c she is losing attraction to you over time. It means you've communicated to her limbic system (the region of the brain where attraction, lust, sexual desire all occur) that you are a wuss. That's what "no spark", "no chemistry", "losing interest", "crap tests", etc. are all about - these are all euphemisms from a woman basically telling you that you're a wuss and the tests are her way of seeing if you're strong and dominant. Women can instinctively sniff out weakness in men and they have zero tolerance for weakness in males.

The solution is to understand that women are VERY sensitive sexually to your "energy"; that is the behavior that you're demonstrating to her. The minute your energy becomes feminine that is to say your behavior becomes whiny, needy, clingy, insecure, wishy washy, uncertain, weak, etc. she will drastically lose sexual attraction for you. A woman is relying on you to be a chiseled granite rock. You need to be the Byronic Hero that she fantasizes about when she reads Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights. You need to be Mr. Rochester/Heathcliff, not the wuss you've turned into.

I could argue and say our purpose was to build a relationship with God.
That God is the source of all things, and it is in his belief that we find purpose.
Some people are lost and try to essentially worship another person and then they fail you, they always will.
Only God can be with you forever an never let you down.

[SelenasAss]

I'm gonna break it down for you like this bro. As an animal species our only purpose on this earth is to survive and reproduce just like all the other animals that populate this world. Our sole purpose is to live long enough to pass on our genes and then die. But somewhere along the line we evolved to such a degree that we began to add layers and layers of meaning to these two functions of survival and reproduction. As mankind progressed through time and moved from a nomadic race to a civilized race we developed these meanings into beliefs. These beliefs then evolved further into norms and standards which have morphed/changed over the centuries as we grew more "civilized." And we lost sight of the fact that 90% of human behavior is tied into survival and reproduction. For instance, we want acceptance by our peers - why? survival. We want a job, money, and material things - why? survival. And so on.

Now why is this all relevant? B/c when it comes to women you need to look to the reproductive instinct and this instinct is governed by the laws of nature. Males mate with the most fertile females and females mate with the strongest most dominant males.

If your woman is losing interest in you over time its b/c she is losing attraction to you over time. It means you've communicated to her limbic system (the region of the brain where attraction, lust, sexual desire all occur) that you are a wuss. That's what "no spark", "no chemistry", "losing interest", "crap tests", etc. are all about - these are all euphemisms from a woman basically telling you that you're a wuss and the tests are her way of seeing if you're strong and dominant. Women can instinctively sniff out weakness in men and they have zero tolerance for weakness in males.

The solution is to understand that women are VERY sensitive sexually to your "energy"; that is the behavior that you're demonstrating to her. The minute your energy becomes feminine that is to say your behavior becomes whiny, needy, clingy, insecure, wishy washy, uncertain, weak, etc. she will drastically lose sexual attraction for you. A woman is relying on you to be a chiseled granite rock. You need to be the Byronic Hero that she fantasizes about when she reads Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights. You need to be Mr. Rochester/Heathcliff, not the wuss you've turned into.

Damn

[swordplay76]

I usually date for a few months, then they lose interest, yeah.

[Sinan09400]

I'm gonna break it down for you like this bro. As an animal species our only purpose on this earth is to survive and reproduce just like all the other animals that populate this world. Our sole purpose is to live long enough to pass on our genes and then die. But somewhere along the line we evolved to such a degree that we began to add layers and layers of meaning to these two functions of survival and reproduction. As mankind progressed through time and moved from a nomadic race to a civilized race we developed these meanings into beliefs. These beliefs then evolved further into norms and standards which have morphed/changed over the centuries as we grew more "civilized." And we lost sight of the fact that 90% of human behavior is tied into survival and reproduction. For instance, we want acceptance by our peers - why? survival. We want a job, money, and material things - why? survival. And so on.

Now why is this all relevant? B/c when it comes to women you need to look to the reproductive instinct and this instinct is governed by the laws of nature. Males mate with the most fertile females and females mate with the strongest most dominant males.

If your woman is losing interest in you over time its b/c she is losing attraction to you over time. It means you've communicated to her limbic system (the region of the brain where attraction, lust, sexual desire all occur) that you are a wuss. That's what "no spark", "no chemistry", "losing interest", "crap tests", etc. are all about - these are all euphemisms from a woman basically telling you that you're a wuss and the tests are her way of seeing if you're strong and dominant. Women can instinctively sniff out weakness in men and they have zero tolerance for weakness in males.

The solution is to understand that women are VERY sensitive sexually to your "energy"; that is the behavior that you're demonstrating to her. The minute your energy becomes feminine that is to say your behavior becomes whiny, needy, clingy, insecure, wishy washy, uncertain, weak, etc. she will drastically lose sexual attraction for you. A woman is relying on you to be a chiseled granite rock. You need to be the Byronic Hero that she fantasizes about when she reads Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights. You need to be Mr. Rochester/Heathcliff, not the wuss you've turned into.

This.

Took a girl out a while back tried kissing she refused.

Anyways then as I was walking her to her car she treated me like I was a girl then suddenly I spotted 2 dudes fighting I intervened pushed both of them and then ended the fight succesfully.

Suddenly she got wet af to that began touching me etc.

God sent those two dudes fighting

[bradlehman]

This.

Took a girl out a while back tried kissing she refused.

Anyways then as I was walking her to her car she treated me like I was a girl then suddenly I spotted 2 dudes fighting I intervened pushed both of them and then ended the fight succesfully.

Suddenly she got wet af to that began touching me etc.

God sent those two dudes fighting

I had a similar experience in college. I was sort of into this girl but didn't feel like I was really getting anywhere. One night a group of us were all walking to a party and my buddy who had pre-gamed way too hard was really drunk ran up behind her and lifted her off the sidewalk, which freaked her out a bit. I grabbed him by the arm, told him he was getting too rowdy and had scared the girl, so I had him apologize and walked him back to the dorm. As soon as I met back up with the others at the party she grabbed my hand and kept me with her the whole night, end up going back to her room with her, etc. It was like a light switch.

[Wiktor37]

It's important to remember that dating is a learning process, and each experience, even if it doesn't lead to a long-term relationship, provides an opportunity for personal growth and understanding. If you find that this pattern is repeating, consider reflecting on your own communication style, expectations, and any patterns that may be emerging in your interactions. Additionally, maintaining open communication with your potential partner about your feelings and intentions can help both parties understand each other better.

[elterrible987]

you only have to look at the first page of this thread to see how great misc used to be in its prime and had actual good advice

[swordplay76]

Yes, this has happened to me every time.

[latverian41]

I'm gonna break it down for you like this bro. As an animal species our only purpose on this earth is to survive and reproduce just like all the other animals that populate this world. Our sole purpose is to live long enough to pass on our genes and then die. But somewhere along the line we evolved to such a degree that we began to add layers and layers of meaning to these two functions of survival and reproduction. As mankind progressed through time and moved from a nomadic race to a civilized race we developed these meanings into beliefs. These beliefs then evolved further into norms and standards which have morphed/changed over the centuries as we grew more "civilized." And we lost sight of the fact that 90% of human behavior is tied into survival and reproduction. For instance, we want acceptance by our peers - why? survival. We want a job, money, and material things - why? survival. And so on.

Now why is this all relevant? B/c when it comes to women you need to look to the reproductive instinct and this instinct is governed by the laws of nature. Males mate with the most fertile females and females mate with the strongest most dominant males.

If your woman is losing interest in you over time its b/c she is losing attraction to you over time. It means you've communicated to her limbic system (the region of the brain where attraction, lust, sexual desire all occur) that you are a wuss. That's what "no spark", "no chemistry", "losing interest", "crap tests", etc. are all about - these are all euphemisms from a woman basically telling you that you're a wuss and the tests are her way of seeing if you're strong and dominant. Women can instinctively sniff out weakness in men and they have zero tolerance for weakness in males.

The solution is to understand that women are VERY sensitive sexually to your "energy"; that is the behavior that you're demonstrating to her. The minute your energy becomes feminine that is to say your behavior becomes whiny, needy, clingy, insecure, wishy washy, uncertain, weak, etc. she will drastically lose sexual attraction for you. A woman is relying on you to be a chiseled granite rock. You need to be the Byronic Hero that she fantasizes about when she reads Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights. You need to be Mr. Rochester/Heathcliff, not the wuss you've turned into.

There is some truth to what you are saying bro but it's hardly an exact science like that. Women just like.men have different taste and different turn on. Not all chick's are attracted to the mega Chad athlete. Some like nerdy geeky guys.


I think it's only natural to lose some of that luster you had when you first got together. That's why it's so.importsnt to be very good friends as well when the attraction and see appeal has lost its meaning you have the friendship to fall back on which is a must. Especially if you have kids together and wanting to raise a family.

[skinnyfat88]

There is some truth to what you are saying bro but it's hardly an exact science like that. Women just like men have different taste and different turn on. Not all chick's are attracted to the mega Chad athlete. Some like nerdy geeky guys.

I'm willing to bet almost all find the athletic chad types physically attractive - they just don't like the perceived personality or have any shared interests that go along with it.

& for the most part, physical attraction is a lesser part of the total equation for women than it is for men.

[VivekFan]

you only have to look at the first page of this thread to see how great misc used to be in its prime and had actual good advice

facts

[swordplay76]

I had a similar experience in college. I was sort of into this girl but didn't feel like I was really getting anywhere. One night a group of us were all walking to a party and my buddy who had pre-gamed way too hard was really drunk ran up behind her and lifted her off the sidewalk, which freaked her out a bit. I grabbed him by the arm, told him he was getting too rowdy and had scared the girl, so I had him apologize and walked him back to the dorm. As soon as I met back up with the others at the party she grabbed my hand and kept me with her the whole night, end up going back to her room with her, etc. It was like a light switch.

Strong white knight, sir *******

[bradlehman]

Strong white knight, sir *******

Lol.

[LastNite]

They never had interest in me anyway.

[HootyBootyTooty]

Sad take, don't take things for granted, try and surprise your partner even years down the line

[HootyBootyTooty]

Tf is a limbic system

[HootyBootyTooty]

Edgy af

[YGRelax]

Tf is a limbic system

get your knowledge up beta

[bradlehman]

Just LOL’d reading a text I just received. Went on maybe 6 or so dates with this girl, she slept over a couple times, etc. Texted me every day. Said she couldn’t believe how lucky she was to meet me and so on.

Was texting me late last night making plans for a date today, probably coming over to my house for dinner, etc. Looks like she went to brunch with a friend earlier. Just texted me basically saying she’s not ready for a serious relationship (LOL) right now and hopes our paths will cross again in the future, but she doesn’t want to be unfair to me right now.

I wasn’t really feeling it anyway so am not upset, but the ridiculously sharp 180 made me laugh. Probably found some guy on a dating app or something. Makes things easy for me though.

We’re all gonna make it.

[Friendster]

We’re all gonna make it.

well said brother, wagmi. I had a similar situation once. brutal, and yes they have too many options so probably just found another guy who didnt f up

[bradlehman]

well said brother, wagmi. I had a similar situation once. brutal, and yes they have too many options so probably just found another guy who didnt f up

Yep, at least in this case I legitimately didn't care at all and wasn't upset by it. Just LOL'd sitting on my couch reading the text. Simply responded with "OK" and deleted her number. On the plus side, my hot MILF neighbor came over last night to "cheer me up" for a few hours, which by that time also counted as fasted cardio. All's well that ends well.

[FastBack6]

Just LOL’d reading a text I just received. Went on maybe 6 or so dates with this girl, she slept over a couple times, etc. Texted me every day. Said she couldn’t believe how lucky she was to meet me and so on.

Was texting me late last night making plans for a date today, probably coming over to my house for dinner, etc. Looks like she went to brunch with a friend earlier. Just texted me basically saying she’s not ready for a serious relationship (LOL) right now and hopes our paths will cross again in the future, but she doesn’t want to be unfair to me right now.

I wasn’t really feeling it anyway so am not upset, but the ridiculously sharp 180 made me laugh. Probably found some guy on a dating app or something. Makes things easy for me though.

We’re all gonna make it.

I’ve had girls send nudes, videos of them flicking the bean, FaceTiming me, telling me they couldn’t wait to meet up, how hot I was etc, only for me to wake up on the day of the date to see that they blocked my number and Snapchat.

It’s happened like two dozen times at least.

The internet will be the downfall of society.

[rtljmc17]

Thread needs a disclaimer

Girls always lose interest after a while* - true

*but - that is only if they believe you need them more than need you because if you don't they ALWAYS come back.

This is why it is critical to match and mirror your womans level of effort (not just her words).

My girl when her attraction is high will complain that we need don't spend enough time together. As soon as this is corrected she is happy...then slowly and almost against logical reasoning she will reduce the effort she puts in, be less appreciative of me and less worried about spending time together. In other words I become too familiar.

So I hit her with the uno-reverse and just start fading away, let her do 90% of the contacting, focus on my own stuff, lifting, personal growth, hanging out with the boys. (always being loving and polite to her but not worried)

Because like clock work she will start to realise unless she does something she won't hear from me...this triggers her natural need to chase me, then she comes back hot and heavy. If she doesn't come back then we win either way since the self improvement we do just increases the pool of women we can have.

Sun goes up sun goes down, moon makes tides go in and out, cant explain it. Women are no different. But the sun always rises.