Da faq? You some kinda Chad fraudin’ as a pathetic incel? 7/10 is chad territory brah.
I’m average as balls I can assure you, a solid 5/10. Maybe a 6/10 on a good day when I was when I younger and my chit was on point. Probably coulda’ been an overall 7/10 had I maxed out hard but those days are behind me now that i’m starting to show my age.
In short: Fuk you.
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11-08-2019, 10:50 AM #841
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11-08-2019, 10:55 AM #842
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11-08-2019, 10:58 AM #843
I never get with girls as hot as Brittany, no. It's super rare. Once every few years. It makes sense based on how hard she has been negging me, etc. I think 6.5-7.5 is my wheelhouse. So when ya think about it, nothing I am doing is really that impressive because thousands of guys out there get much hotter girls than me. But yeah Brittany is well above my pay grade. I'd say the other two girls I am talking to and gym crush are on my wavelength. Nothing I am surprised to attract, basically.
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11-08-2019, 11:10 AM #844
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11-08-2019, 11:27 AM #845
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11-08-2019, 11:32 AM #846
Yeah a lot of women don't find a lot of men attractive but that doesn't mean dudes can't get laid. And plus even if someone ain't your physical type, you can still find them attractive like this one chick who was pretty tall (6'0") and normally I like thicker women but something about her got my dick hard (I guess because she was cute and had a nice body/ass and she was wearing booty shorts). Now if a woman is completely unattractive to you then there's nothing you can do but if you still got sex appeal, it can still work.
I've had women say I wasn't their type and then later on they admitted that something about me they found attractive.
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11-08-2019, 11:34 AM #847
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11-08-2019, 11:34 AM #848
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11-08-2019, 11:42 AM #849
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11-08-2019, 11:53 AM #850
Game,personality...etc..for 99% of the sloots on dating apps, all of that is a non factor. You either pass the looks test or you don't, and then its just a matter of not ****ing it up. i'd be suprised if you can get results.
I'd say out of all the matches I made, there were maybe 2 who I actually "converted" based off of our conversation and they weren't already interested
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11-08-2019, 11:57 AM #851
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11-08-2019, 12:04 PM #852
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11-08-2019, 12:08 PM #853
I mean definitely, I matched with a girl and stopped talking to her because she tried to correct my use of you're even though I used it properly..
What I mean is that at the point I matched with her, all she had to do was not **** it up, because I thought she was attractive. I don't know if that makes sense, but basically what i'm saying is that if someone matches with you, all you need to do from that point is not say something stupid, because if they were going to meet you, they probably made their mind up on that before you even said anything to them.
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11-08-2019, 12:15 PM #854
Not necessarily....even if you say the right thing, a woman might just ghost you because she's really not interested in meeting up with you and so she's using you for attention and entertainment due to her being bored. Timewasters are plenty plentiful online. Anyway Vick has my pics and so he's gonna see if he can get matches (most likely) and set up dates I'm assuming where he lives with my pics. I'm sure I'll get Timewasters but he'll probably do better with the pics of what I look like now compared when what I looked like before when I used to be on Tinder 2 years ago.
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11-08-2019, 12:19 PM #855
They taught me that Im not bad at smanging at all, and I guess for older women game /body >face, but then again most of their demographic has extremely let themselves go. Bout all I learned cuz.
He can just send me his zip code, and I'll try it there.★cVc★ OEFx2
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11-08-2019, 12:27 PM #856
Yeah older women put more emphasis on personality over looks due to what you said....the guys their age look terrible. However even older women still care about looks; particularly with younger men. Most older women that are cougars go after younger men that are in shape, look decent, are masculine, dominant, mature and yet still can be adventurous and youthful and fun. They ain't really going after dudes who are Timothy's unless they're trying to manipulate them (older women that look good know how to run game on naive simps and they do it well). However the typical 40, 50 or 60 year old woman ain't gonna get no man; whether they're old or young.
But yeah if you're younger (say 21) you can't really talk to an older women like you're in high school and expect her to take you seriously.
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11-08-2019, 12:28 PM #857
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11-08-2019, 12:58 PM #858
Girl I was seeing exclusively basically cheated and told me she doesn't want to be exclusive anymore so I told her goodbye.
Guy she went with:
1. Shorter - probably 5'9-10, I'm 6'4
2. Smaller penor
3. Not in shape - skinny/fat, while I have a swimmer build/6 pack, upper/lower body muscle definition throughout
4. Lives in his parents basement - I own a house in a nice neighborhood
5. We are about the same facially imo +/-
Just LoL if anyone thinks they can understand women.
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11-08-2019, 01:01 PM #859
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11-08-2019, 02:18 PM #860
I think it was the emotional connection. I could have played the "how's your day going?" convo game better, and been more involved/interested in other parts of her life.
Personality and vibe definitely played a part there.
So she found it elsewhere and wanted to keep my dink but I wasn't gonna share after we were exclusive.
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11-08-2019, 02:46 PM #861
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11-08-2019, 02:51 PM #862
It's a hard thing to recognize unless you've experienced it.
I've had the same experience. I've had a lot more guys tell me I'm good-looking.
I think it's the difference between an "objective" rating and actual attraction. It's similar to how there's always some actress whom women love and call beautiful, but most men don't give a chit about (not talking about actually unattractive ones).Last edited by MediocreGains; 11-15-2019 at 07:38 PM.
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11-08-2019, 03:18 PM #863
Could be. Repped.
I tend to date alot of arrogant and superficial women, but she wasn't at all. Very sweet, but with her own set of issues. I blew chances to be there for her to give her emotional support. She cried like 1x every week over one thing or the other, and my perspective on how she should deal with lifes challenges wasn't empathetic to her character/nature. It was more direct/cold water in the face type of advice but she needed gentle reassurance. I phucked it up.
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11-08-2019, 03:37 PM #864★cVc★ OEFx2
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11-08-2019, 03:44 PM #865
Or it could be because she's a whore who flashes her vag on camera for money. You're still in denial.
You seem to be normalizing this part of her and just talking about her like some regular girl. Misc often conflates sloot and whore, but to me they're different things. Sloots have high partner counts and while I'd never take one seriously, they often still fall within the range of "normal." A whore is not a normal person.Last edited by MediocreGains; 11-08-2019 at 04:12 PM.
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11-08-2019, 04:11 PM #866
Very interesting. I figured that there'd actually be more of a stigma against black men in the countries you mentioned, but it seems that's not the case. As you point out, there's no history of Jim Crow or any of that over there. Now that you mention it, I remember reading an article a couple years ago about how German women were really into black men. Some black guys were a bit weirded out by it, but of course went with it anyways because why the hell not.
Interesting that you mention the cultural/social class difference making it harder to date some black women. I've hooked up with/went on dates with a few non-hood black girls, and they said they generally didn't date black guys for the same reason. To be honest, I thought that was a bit weird since I mostly dated other Asians myself, but it makes sense. Hell, even when I dated Asian girls, it was always Asian from Asia rather than Asian American. Most of the Asian American chicks around me either tried to act "hood" (think they're called ABGs these days) or talked like valley girls. Didn't care for either type.
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11-08-2019, 04:31 PM #867
German women are all about Black dudes. It was the weirdest meme in the military, but so many Black Army bros had like BANGING germany wives, and their marriages all seem to last to this day.
A major thing is like....archtypes and accents. Example. If I took a rural "redneck" korean guy, and a guy from Seoul ? Most non Koreans, assuming if they were wearing the same outfits wouldnt be able to "figure them out". So they people couldnt project or use their own anecdotal experience to label these people.
Ive tried to snag up nerdy, dorky, proper, highly educated black girls. It still just didnt work. Idk man, but....once I get more programming experience Im thinking about applying to gigs overseas and if the company will pay for moving me ? Ill spend 2-5 years as a transplant somewhere just to see how I fair.★cVc★ OEFx2
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11-08-2019, 05:29 PM #868
Yeah there's truth here. But don't forget I fed into it. She started camming soon after we met so she was in transition to becoming a whore, and wasn't a full fledged whore just yet when we went on our first date or two. Then I threw gasoline onto it with the porn venture. It's part of it too TBH. I obviously encouraged it, and was an influence, and I regret not giving her better direction in life. I could have.
And related to what I was saying about the emotional connection, I became too focused on the business side of our relationship and less focused on her. I get hyperfocused on winning and results. So basically would talk her ear off about content pyramids, engagement rates, target markets, micro niches, etc... when she wanted to talk about her cat.
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11-08-2019, 06:14 PM #869
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11-08-2019, 06:18 PM #870
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