Girlfriend won't give BJs

[BetaAsPhuck]

Yeah, accidentally.

All was fine and rosy until we got married. Then now it's like I'm the selfish one for even asking. I've tried to say something along the lines of surely if she wanted to make me happy she'd do something that made me happy but that went down like a ton of bricks...

If we didn't work for the same company which makes it really complicated, I'd consider pressing it more and other avenues, however it's just not worth it though. I see now why people cheat.

Are you annoyed, because from your perspective she did a 'bait and switch'?

You thought you were marrying someone who would meet your sexual needs, but she stopped meeting them after you got married?

[TheRealFLanders]

Start giving her blow jobs instead

[OhMightyOne]

Are you annoyed, because from your perspective she did a 'bait and switch'?

You thought you were marrying someone who would meet your sexual needs, but she stopped meeting them after you got married?

Pretty much to be honest. There were slight warning signs in hindsight leading up to marriage which I can now see, but I never expected it to drop so much.

Our sex drives don't match at all. She won't do anything exciting, new or anything like that. Same vanilla **** time after time. No BJ's because it's selfish for me to want them when she can't do anything.

I should point out that I know how it should be, I've had GF's before that would do stuff like described in this thread no problem. My solid advice is just to make sure that you match 100% sexually. Any slight warning signs and call it off.

[Drakor]

It's lose lose OP. Either you never get dome or you do and she always hates it. Unenthusiastic BJ FTL. Sounds like game over bro.

[HouseOfISRAEL]

lmao, I pity betas who believe the whole "she feels bad about it because she was forced to do it in previous relationships"

she sucked them off like there was no tomorrow because she was attracted to them, you are a beta provider and thats why you dont get your dick sucked, loser

didn't believe there were *******s who still fell for that tbh
beta providers will stay beta providers
That's why they are them and we are not

it means that you are not her Chad, srs

all of the girls that were really into me wanted to pretty much be featured in my private facial abuse episode

You should talk to her tho, maybe you are just a filthy animal and don't wash your dink or maybe some other weird health issue that you don't notice

hes just the engineer from the comic
a real phucking loser

Misc has very real cuck fantasies. This is one of them.

She would get down and beg for her ex to use her throat as a fleshlight if he even hinted at texting her “wyd”

anybody would take a real male over this beta male OP

Upon clicking this thread I immediately thought, here comes the abuse story, and there it is.

ding ding ding

[DesiredUserphag]

Just LMAO @ spending time with or dating girls who don't crave a cock in their mouth

[BetaAsPhuck]

Pretty much to be honest. There were slight warning signs in hindsight leading up to marriage which I can now see, but I never expected it to drop so much.

Our sex drives don't match at all. She won't do anything exciting, new or anything like that. Same vanilla **** time after time. No BJ's because it's selfish for me to want them when she can't do anything.

I should point out that I know how it should be, I've had GF's before that would do stuff like described in this thread no problem. My solid advice is just to make sure that you match 100% sexually. Any slight warning signs and call it off.

Yeah, that is a serious issue. I have experience what it's like to be married to someone who is sexually incompatible, and I too understood why some in my situation cheated.

(Though I never did it myself. The closest I came was sending 2 sexual text messages to a co worker - who I genuinely had no intention of doing anything with, whilst married. One thing is being in a situation like that, and not cheating, is that it shows just how strong your integrity can be.)

In the following thread, I spoke about the importance of sexual compatibility (OP was arguing against sex before marriage)...

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...post1568487441

IMO some people don't realize how much sexual incompatibility can mess with the sense of intimacy, and can foster resentment, in a relationship.

[peacefromwithin]

Over time you will start to resent her. If this is your first relationship, maybe it won't bee too bad. I was in a long term relationship and she didn't do it much, that I found myself thinking of previous girls, and over time you start to drift.

[Komisch]

Don't know those feels brah.

[VinnyPazRules]

Go into that cucks thread. The kid who looks like a girl. His Girlfriend will give you a nice bj. Probably want you to finish in her mouth too so the cuck can kiss her after.

[sabonis224]

I was with someone for a really long time who didn't like them. I was with someone off and I'm recently who liked giving them. What a game changer. I'm not picky or needy sexually, prob more easy going than most guys, but now it's kindve a deal breaker tbh.

[Uber_Dad]

Deal breaker for me...there are plenty of really fun women out there that love it!!

[TirCeol]

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[ibedanny]

Red flag, walk away while you still can. You definitely don't want a BJ from a woman that is not into it or is feeling like you're forcing her.

[GhenghisPWN]

Head is overrated and most girls are terrible at it. I’d say less than 10% of my BJs have been good. The girls who say they are good are usually the worst in my experience. It’s the quiet ones that have skill.

[HouseOfISRAEL]

Head is overrated and most girls are terrible at it. I’d say less than 10% of my BJs have been good. The girls who say they are good are usually the worst in my experience. It’s the quiet ones that have skill.

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