Tinder Thread Part XI : No Sway12 Club

[Insanity_SC]

she waited a day for the first reply. 30 seconds for second reply. totally forgot she was 20 lol, wanted to use that second favorite line from earlier. cute af too.

[Khristmas]

^Haven't seen you in awhile man. Hows tinder treating you these days?

Yeh she doesn't look it, but as i said she my type haha.

Go for her you lucky SOB, slam her for me and jizz on her forhead and write my name pls. That is my only request of you.

She already said no sexual activity.... feelsbadman. Maybe I can roofie her drink or something.

[Insanity_SC]

^Haven't seen you in awhile man. Hows tinder treating you these days?



She already said no sexual activity.... feelsbadman. Maybe I can roofie her drink or something.

havent actually been on a date since I went out with a 20 y/o stripper from Tinder in June. Seen her a few times since, but not much luck on tinder. a few hot matches every week but either no response or they text for a day then disappear.

my standards are also probably too high for tinder, so I really only message the 7+'s which means I dont get much. living vicariously through you and lift and american pyscho

[SubtleArrogance]

Will do bruh. We've agreed to call tomorrow. And you're correct, phone call is always the best way it's just a pain in the ass when they say they're 'too shy' for it. They obviously know once they're on the phone they will just sloot it up. Sigh

[SubtleArrogance]

Strong. Going for the phone call to set yourself apart from the beta texters.

Let us know how it goes

Personally, good things have come from calling sloots in my experience.

Fuark. Forgot to quote in my last reply

[Khristmas]

havent actually been on a date since I went out with a 20 y/o stripper from Tinder in June. Seen her a few times since, but not much luck on tinder. a few hot matches every week but either no response or they text for a day then disappear.

my standards are also probably too high for tinder, so I really only message the 7+'s which means I dont get much. living vicariously through you and lift and american pyscho

Yeah had a thing with a girl for about 3 months so I was off the grid for a bit.

Judging by your instagram you have a bomb life, make sure you link that chit on tinder if you aren't already. If tinder isn't working out for you, you can def slay in person if you have game.

[Insanity_SC]

Yeah had a thing with a girl for about 3 months so I was off the grid for a bit.

Judging by your instagram you have a bomb life, make sure you link that chit on tinder if you aren't already. If tinder isn't working out for you, you can def slay in person if you have game.

yeah I saw, you finished with her or just slowing it down? looks like you have lots of options now that you're back...even without a tinder lmao. get that **** fixed.

thanks dude, I do. I had it unlinked this summer but put it back recently. working on that game part...actually working on that social circle part. makes everything 100x easier for dating.

[FiteMeIrlFgt]

this bish better not flake

[sa7soon]

2nd link is broken. Please resend.

And yeah after she gave her number it was one chit test after another. Most of them I passed (I think). This bish is tough. But I don't think she would have sent the pic, which came at the end of the convo, unless I passed this level. Could be wrong on that. Well see. I'll probably go NC till early next week.

The word chit is in the link, need to replace the c in "chit" with a s.

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2016...tual-response/

There's a huge number of factors I've gone through in previous posts, but the biggest one is demographics.

Imagine two islands:

Island 1 has: 110 women (70 of them slim and attractive and 40 of them ugly or whales) and 100 men (60 of them fit and good looking, 40 of them average or ugly)
Island 2 has: 100 women (50 of them slim and attractive and 50 of them ugly or whales) and 110 men (70 of them fit and good looking, 40 of them average or ugly)

which island would you rather be on as a fit/good looking man?

EDIT: Also you might be misunderstanding what I'm saying. You don't get more attractive by stepping off a plane in a different city obviously. But a 7 in Sydney will feel like a 9 in NYC based on his results, iow he'll be getting results that only a 9 could get back home.

A 7 in Sydney will feel like a famous 10 in Makati, iow he'll be getting results that only a celebrity could get in Sydney.

The first. But are you saying there's more attractive women in NYC than attractive men, so average looking guys have greater value?

Edit: I read your edit. I get it now.

^That's exactly why my location is one of the worst on the planet. Actual figures, 350k single men:50k single women.

[pancakemouse]

Ah, yes, 1000% independent, but yet you need a man to give you an "allowance" in exchange for access to your pussy. "sugar baby" logic strong.



P.S. matched with her and am trying to convince her to come over without paying for it so I can hate fuark her. Not looking good so far.

[Insanity_SC]

that "second favorite thing about you line" is so seamless and direct, gonna have to keep using it. and lately all I get are 20 y/o's. not going to complain though....

[spadelexus]

Her bio basically says 'Swipe left if you're a ****boy'

*opens with most ****boy line ever*

Sloot/Sloot

[url]https://imgur.com/a/jBLnU[url]

Gonna steel this opener and rep you.

[unc91]

how do i fix this parameter app_id bull****

[CXVII]

MILF apparently too busy to come out anymore because her dad refuses to look after kids... aw fuk bye. Still waiting for more matches now zzz

[spadelexus]

how do i fix this parameter app_id bull****

Lol just downloaded on a diff phone since I forgot my charger for the usual phone I use tinder on, and got the same error. Not wasting $ on a new charger, these bishes can wait till I get home.

[SubtleArrogance]

Gonna steel this opener and rep you.

Use at your own risk bro, dip your toes in with some girls you don't mind losing first. I mentioned a page or two back I'm a Chad so maybe that's why it worked... But you seem to do really well on Tinder so good luck to you sir.

Ps I'm trying to pm you my profile for review... Do I need to add you first? Because you're not accepting my request lol

[FelixDesusa]

Not with that attitude young man.

u aware?

Not aware

Well thank you but I'm not near NJ.

Just theoretically speaking would you go out on dates with older women and spend time with them going out etc.? Or would it be only sex?

If the older woman was physically attractive to me then yes, i would go out with her and date her. I've had my fill running through women on tinder (NYC is goat location) and i'm ready for a relationship. That being said i'm selective about who i want to spend my time with.

Are you talking about withholding sex for a long period of time? Or just until you're sure the guy is legitimately interested in a relationship with you?

I had a date lined up with a 39 year old who was a cutie, but she canceled on me an hour before we were supposed to meet. So lame.

Went out on Tuesday with a different tinder match and the date went real well. We made out in my car for a bit but that was it. I could line up a second date and probably smash by the third date but i don't see myself dating that person so i won't advance it any further. I'm over the smash and dash lifestyle, and i'm sure that puts me in the extreme minority itt.

But that being said, i'm not going to pass up low hanging fruit either. Example: Was talking to one girl and mentioned a tv show i was watching. She wanted to see, so I invited her over my place and that was that.

[Silencespeaks]

Are you talking about withholding sex for a long period of time? Or just until you're sure the guy is legitimately interested in a relationship with you?

The latter, for several dates at least to see if there is a connection beyond just physical attraction and to try to figure out if the guy would continue to date me after sex. I'm thinking maybe five dates or a couple of weeks would be good but I'm not really sure.

BRB mentioned splitting the check during those dates so the guy knows I'm genuinely interested and not just using him, I think that's a good strategy.

How old are you?

[FelixDesusa]

The latter, for several dates at least to see if there is a connection beyond just physical attraction and to try to figure out if the guy would continue to date me after sex. I'm thinking maybe five dates or a couple of weeks would be good but I'm not really sure.

BRB mentioned splitting the check during those dates so the guy knows I'm genuinely interested and not just using him, I think that's a good strategy.

How old are you?

I'm 33. The check split strategy is a good idea. If i'm bouncing around different places with a date, most girls will offer to pay at the next bar/location we go to. Always a plus in my book.

During your "let's see if there is a connection phase" how flirty or sexual are you? There has to be a balance between being sexual and being too closed off (dangling the carrot theory). One girl i met at a bar one night wanted to do the "let's wait and see thing". But then she would text me the nudes and talk about sex a lot. I kept trying to set up a sex date cause i wasn't interested in dating her. Never happened cause she got pissed i wasn't interested in dating her. The mixed signals kept me talking to her longer than if she had toned down the sex talk. Her strategy worked in filtering me out, but she executed poorly is point of the story.

[Silencespeaks]

I'm 33. The check split strategy is a good idea. If i'm bouncing around different places with a date, most girls will offer to pay at the next bar/location we go to. Always a plus in my book.

During your "let's see if there is a connection phase" how flirty or sexual are you? There has to be a balance between being sexual and being too closed off (dangling the carrot theory). One girl i met at a bar one night wanted to do the "let's wait and see thing". But then she would text me the nudes and talk about sex a lot. I kept trying to set up a sex date cause i wasn't interested in dating her. Never happened cause she got pissed i wasn't interested in dating her. The mixed signals kept me talking to her longer than if she had toned down the sex talk. Her strategy worked in filtering me out, but she executed poorly is point of the story.

Interesting, I haven't really gotten to that phase yet.

[spadelexus]

Use at your own risk bro, dip your toes in with some girls you don't mind losing first.

6's.

I mentioned a page or two back I'm a Chad so maybe that's why it worked... But you seem to do really well on Tinder so good luck to you sir.

Not a self proclaimed Chad, but I get traction using just as aggressive openers or more.

Ps I'm trying to pm you my profile for review... Do I need to add you first? Because you're not accepting my request lol

Nah just pm me. I don't check bodyspace requests. Could be my inbox is full too. I'll delete some later.

[SubtleArrogance]

6's.



Not a self proclaimed Chad, but I get traction using just as aggressive openers or more.



Nah just pm me. I don't check bodyspace requests. Could be my inbox is full too. I'll delete some later.

Can't find an option to pm you which is why I thought we had to be friends first. Try and pm me so you pop up in my inbox. If that doesn't work then nvm bruh

[Silencespeaks]

Spade I have been thinking about your suggestion that if not being social is holding me back then I should change that.

Do you have any ideas on how I could put myself in more social situations but with the specific goal of meeting someone to date? I don't want more friends so it would be for the specific goal of meeting a guy.

[American Psycho]

[liftyousay]

Just literally dominated the piss out of this girl as she squirted all over her bed, really rough sex and we were drinking vodka red bulls. Really rough it was nice.

well i'll be damned, single moms really are like this these days in letting complete strangers over, despite having young kids. got one one last night with twin 4 year olds that i could hear coughing in the room across the hall (they were asleep) as i was smashing their mom. she literally invited me over past 9, walked through to the side of the house and into her backyard where she already had wine out (on ice) and is sitting down - i'm def not the first guy she's done this with. it was just set-up too perfectly.

[yoked4women]

What now brahs? Do i just give her my snapchat or should I go NC. If she was serious she'd have given her number instead of asking to snapchat instead?

[TSBrah]

I don't think she is, I didn't ask. If I were to guess I would say Lebanese.

Naa I'm not Persian. I'm half Lebanese/German

lol this guy is a frauding *******, lmao..catfishing ..notevenonce

[MakingGaines]

I have been spending a lot of time with a single girl recently, might be catching feels, as a result I have been pretty inactive on tinder this last week although still keeping up with the thread.

Can't remember who came up with this opener but I am surprised how effective it is. Sent it to 15 matches, 11 replied, 3 gave up their number within the first 5 messages, and 3 more handed it over with slightly more effort.



edit: and each of these screenshots were a 6, 8 and 7 respectively

[BloodyBaron]

brahs, how do you avoid cropping a tinder pic? the link in the OP is broken.

[Khristmas]

lol this guy is a frauding *******, lmao..catfishing ..notevenonce

stay mad

brahs, how do you avoid cropping a tinder pic? the link in the OP is broken.

get a photo editor that automatically squares pictures.