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07-06-2015, 04:27 AM #91
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07-06-2015, 04:29 AM #92
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07-06-2015, 04:30 AM #93
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07-06-2015, 04:37 AM #96
- Join Date: Apr 2011
- Location: Windsor/Detroit, Ontario, Canada
- Age: 42
- Posts: 13,186
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10 years...He needs to make this a lifelong investment...can you imagine how an experienced woman would have played him?
Self reflection is definitely in order for this guy. He's been focusing on trying to save her, but I wonder what happened in his life that was so bad that he would continue this chit. There is some abandonment issues there.
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07-06-2015, 04:41 AM #97
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07-06-2015, 04:43 AM #98
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07-06-2015, 04:45 AM #100
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07-06-2015, 04:47 AM #101
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07-06-2015, 04:50 AM #102
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07-06-2015, 04:51 AM #103
This is a sad thread. I legit feel for you mane. But cmon - be real tea here. How in the world. I can't even....
You sound like a nice guy but you can't save this girl. Better let someone else try. Betcha the next guy will go thru the same as you. Some day she will grow up and change - but until then she won't change.
DO NOT sleep with her. Just don't. You still have feelings for her. I can tell you already feel bad for wots happening to her right now. She'll tell you all the things she used to tell you and then you will be right back where you started. Girls are a dime a dozen - you will find someone else. Let this one go
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07-06-2015, 04:56 AM #104
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07-06-2015, 05:00 AM #105
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07-06-2015, 05:08 AM #106
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07-06-2015, 05:08 AM #107
Engaging a child and expecting her to act like an adult was your first mistake. Your second mistake is not kicking her to the curb immediately after she strayed the first time: she is not ready for a relationship, much less a marriage, and you should have realised this right there and then. Everything following this is entirely your fault.
My advice to you is act like a f-in adult and move on. You're 29 ffs. What kind of a man lets himself be walked over by an 18 year old? You can't save her, and in the process of trying you're wasting valuable years of your life on an immature person who will never (and I mean NEVER) love you back in the way that you expect her to. If she cheated, that means she has lost all respect for you, and judging from your actions it seems like you don't even respect yourself. Realise that this is over, step back and reevaluate.++ Positive crew ++
Lurking since '07 crew
Stoic Crew
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07-06-2015, 05:13 AM #108
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07-06-2015, 05:45 AM #109
Honestly yall yankee boys can hate all yall damn want but that right there is a 10/10 in alabama. she got almost all her teeth intact and knows how to waddle to the fridge to get that breakfast bud light for her man.
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07-06-2015, 07:32 AM #110
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07-06-2015, 07:47 AM #111
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07-08-2015, 01:18 AM #112
- Join Date: Oct 2007
- Location: Alabama, United States
- Age: 37
- Posts: 11,401
- Rep Power: 52611
So update
She has a new mad and is engaged. The guy is 33. He is her step dad's first cousin so she is related to him by marriage?
Her mom is 48 and her stepdad who was my friend which is how I met her is 27
The whole situation is getting weird
Is that incest if he is her step dad's first cousin?How about natypes decides your sig for eternity...
* KENKONG is the greatest mod of all crew *
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07-08-2015, 01:25 AM #113
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07-08-2015, 01:33 AM #114
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07-08-2015, 01:42 AM #116
- Join Date: May 2013
- Location: United States
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op based on her story you are not fit to just keeping her for smashing purposes.
- Don't feel bad, because most guys can't.
- You have to be a real cold SOB.
If you want to try, this is what I do:
- Never give or buy her anything ever again
- Don't go out of your way to please or be there for her.
- Keep texts short and conversations short
- Keep going out and live your life like she isn't there
- Only hit her up to come over and smash
be safe- I'm sorry; I couldn't hear your complaints over the sound of all this freedom!
~ Merica
- Everybody wants to make it, but nobody wants to put in the work!
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07-08-2015, 02:06 AM #117
- Join Date: Aug 2007
- Location: Idaho, United States
- Age: 32
- Posts: 10,170
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Lol @ 18 year old girls.
Your life will never be a straight path.â€
“To not only take risks, but to be open to life. To accept new views and to be open to new opinions. While it may be frightening, it will also be rewarding. Because the chances you take… the people you meet… the people you love…the faith that you have—that’s what’s going to define your life.â€
“And when you fall throughout life, fall forward.â€
-Denzel Washington
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07-08-2015, 02:17 AM #118
lol, I remember when you posted a thread about her long time ago.
OP, heres what I suggest and recommend right now.
Everytime u think of her, think of how she cheated on u multiple times and betrayed your trust, now get up, get mad, get angry, yell, gtfo, and go train as hard as you can and eat 5000 cals a day while training like a monster and become the best you can be.
I want you to think of her betrayal in your car, and play and blast this song loud in your car, and I guarantee you you will get over her in a second.
Murder it op, murder it
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07-08-2015, 12:01 PM #119
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07-08-2015, 12:04 PM #120
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