6/10 Okay with me cheating

[drvillain]

So on Sunday, I got drinks with this girl that has liked me for a while. I met her at a bar that we both worked for a few years ago (she was a 6.5-7/10 back then but shes got some chub on her now). She could be sexy at times. Anyway, she's awesome, and she always has been.

While out getting trashed at a bar on Hollywood Blvd; we get on the topic of cheating. Essentially, she said she wouldn't mind if I cheated on her, AS LONG as I don't let her find out. This boosted her to a 9/10 to a drunk Drvillain at the time, and I wanted to fuk her right there in the bar.

Now I don't cheat, I never have, as I think it's an integrity thing.

This made me wonder though, do all women expect us to cheat? Do you think they get mad at the fact that we cheated, or the fact that we were lazy enough to let them find out?

Discuss
edit: I am not dating this girl
Cliffs: Drvillain is bored at work so he made a lame ass thread

[OnlyHope]

Are you asking everyone for validation for a question you already know the answer to or are you bragging?

[dbluevette]

Are you asking everyone for validation for a question you already know the answer to or are you bragging?

[IvanNorge]

Are you asking everyone for validation for a question you already know the answer to or are you bragging?

[drvillain]

Are you asking everyone for validation for a question you already know the answer to or are you bragging?

Oh boy, we started this off angry already, but I'll give you an honest response. I'm legitimately curious. Men are wired to want to smash as much as possible to spread our seed. Women aren't built the same way, but I believe that they are aware of mens nature. The question is, do they not accept the act, or do they have difficulty with our negligence in hiding the act.

Stay mad or answer the question. It's legitimate

Listen boys, I've got a lot of jewels to pass on regarding women. We can either engage in some conversation like grown ass men & sharpen our sword, or we can be mad and bitter.

[lmaoits]

If they're okay with you cheating, it usually means they'll cheat on you someday as they don't see it as a huge issue.

[fleeceitout]

No pics huh?

You embarrassed by how ugly she is?

[RexTheMiniBull]

She wants to bang other dudes if things get serious with you two

[drvillain]

If they're okay with you cheating, it usually means they'll cheat on you someday as they don't see it as a huge issue.

I think this would be the case if women and men were the same. We aren't however, so I disagree with your opinion. I see your angle though.

No pics huh?

You embarrassed by how ugly she is?

I don't post pics of women I know. Men who lack credibility do such things. I respect their privacy, and would never put that in jeopardy. Neg away, my reps are too high for me to care.

She wants to bang other dudes if things get serious with you two

I'm not dating her. Women aren't wired that way. If a woman cheats, something is wrong with the man. Meaning you have failed as a man, and you have failed to satisfy your lady. You should ALWAYS take cheating personally, and reflect on your flaws.

[abdi321]

The problem is you're focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.

[drvillain]

The problem is you're focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.

What the **** did you just ****ing say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the **** out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my ****ing words. You think you can get away with saying that **** to me over the Internet? Think again, ****er. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re ****ing dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little ****. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your ****ing tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will **** fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re ****ing dead, kiddo

[Azn00Superman]

Lol some women say that OP, but you cheat on them and they scalp you in your sleep.

[abdi321]

What the **** did you just ****ing say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the **** out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my ****ing words. You think you can get away with saying that **** to me over the Internet? Think again, ****er. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re ****ing dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little ****. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your ****ing tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will **** fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re ****ing dead, kiddo

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cant troll a 2010 join date

[vordulmega]

lol you fool please feel free to open your mouth when your rapist serves a 6 month sentence, when your forced into a nonconsensual marriage, when you miss school because of your period, when youre catcalled on a daily basis, or when a woman will finally not just be the First Lady. Til then please go educate yourself and get off your island of privilege because you clearly have no idea the struggle women face. I'm sorry for your mother.

[stu4rt]

at least one person i know can accept cheating.i was flabbergasted when i heard that.

[drvillain]

You're either trolling, or you've let the misc warp your way of thinking on this topic waaaay too much, lol.


But the people who said she will wind up cheating on you are right. She basically gave herself a preemptive means to justify her own disloyal ways should she get bored and go astray on the side. After all, she said she wouldn't care if YOU did it, so that means it's not a big deal in general to her.

I'm not going to perpetuate the misc nonsense that says all women are a bunch of trashy sloots as a whole. That simply isn't true. That said, on a general basis, women cheat just as much as men, but tend to be 10x better at covering their tracks, thus making them appear like the more loyal gender to those who don't realize that.

This is what happens when you associate with women who like to go to bars/clubs and drink booze as a regular thing. You can't expect to find quality gf/wife material out of that demographic of women, it's only settling for them once they've become washed up "the past is the past" type skanks.

The irony. Nothing I posted ITT is anything like the misc says; meanwhile your post is spot on with the agenda.

I'm glad you gave a srs reply that is of an opinion different from my own though.

So let me ask you this.

Have you ever met any sloots that are happy?
I know plenty of unhappy sloots that fuk around a ton, but are sad because they can't get into a serious relationship.

Meanwhile dudes that fuk around are generally on cloud 9, and are admired by both men AND women for their sexual prowess.
We aren't the same. Period.

Back in the day, men had several wives, and their wives were fine with that, because the man still handled his business and provided.

[Haymana]

lol this happened to me two years ago. This 5.5/10 chick wanted to date me and get serious and all that. She told me that if I cheat I should make sure I kept it a secret.

Few months later she asks me if I ever cheated on her and she promised she would'nt get mad if I told her the truth. I said yes and well she exploded in my face yelling and going completely crazy lol

After that I promised myself never to cheat or tell the truth...

[drvillain]

at least one person i know can accept cheating.i was flabbergasted when i heard that.

I've also heard female friend make the outlandish claim that ALL men cheat

lol this happened to me two years ago. This 5.5/10 chick wanted to date me and get serious and all that. She told me that if I cheat I should make sure I kept it a secret.

Few months later she asks me if I ever cheated on her and she promised she would'nt get mad if I told her the truth. I said yes and well she exploded in my face yelling and going completely crazy lol

After that I promised myself never to cheat or tell the truth...

lmao, yeah take that to the grave

[CremePie18]

Drvillain I remember you as a good poster however there is more to life than a quick bust. You have problems my man. What would your mother say? Have a word with yourself. If pussy is a top ten concern in your life you need to sit down and read the bible son.

[drvillain]

Drvillain I remember you as a good poster however there is more to life than a quick bust. You have problems my man. What would your mother say? Have a word with yourself. If pussy is a top ten concern in your life you need to sit down and read the bible son.

I appreciate the bolded; but you are misunderstanding me/flat out not reading. I don't cheat, I just found her point of view to be fascinating, and I wanted to discuss it on these forums. I hold myself accountable and have a ton of pride. I wont cheat or do anything unloyal because of my pride & ego alone.

I think we're arguing two different aspects of the topic. You seem to be arguing from a very naturalistic, human biology standpoint. From that point, you are right - primates such as ourselves are all about dat dere kinky sex with numerous parnters. In fact, the bonobos are probably the only species as equally sex crazed us, if not more so.

I'm speaking more in terms of potential idealistic concepts - or what is idealistic in my perspective, at least. Personally, as much as I would love to plow as many random hoes as possible from a physical standpoint - and cot damn, I would - they've got nothing on my wife. Cheating is completely out of the question for me, to the point where I wouldn't do it under any circumstances.

As skeptical as I am of people's loyalty in general (I think 70%+ of people are kind of dbags when push comes to shove tbh), I am fully confident that this legitimately the same for my wife. Then again, we both have a pretty oldschool value in a stable marriage/family, even though we're not even religious. I think a big problem is that we live in the age of instant gratification and self-centeredness, and it's been setting back any progress most of society has made beyond Neanderthalian urges and desires.

You are correct that an actual majority of people in general do not truly hold profound value in concepts such as non- negotiable loyalty in a relationship, taking commitments like marriage seriously, etc. Hell, tons of people don't even really give much of a chit about their kids the way they should, IMO.



Cliffs:
- from an animalistic, biological standpoint, you are right.

- Humans are intelligent enough to think better of simplistic monkey sexual desire, but the progress towards that has been regressing significantly the past few decades.

- Many people's priorities are simply fukked up when it comes to sex/relationships. It doesn't mean literally everyone has that problem.

See, if your relationship is how you say it is, then you are winning. & You're winning because you respect each other and hold each other in a high regard. I think you have to be at that level or else cheating is imminent.

[CremePie18]

I appreciate the bolded; but you are misunderstanding me/flat out not reading. I don't cheat, I just found her point of view to be fascinating, and I wanted to discuss it on these forums. I hold myself accountable and have a ton of pride. I wont cheat or do anything unloyal because of my pride & ego alone.

Yeah I'll be completely honest I didn't read a ****ing word of the OP. HAVE A GOOD DAY

[drvillain]

Yeah I'll be completely honest I didn't read a ****ing word of the OP. HAVE A GOOD DAY

lmao you as well my friend

[JUGGERNAUT1333]

Clear sign that she is fuked in the head man. No girl with any self respect would be ok with a dude cheating on her. Sounds like she really likes you, feels you are out of her league, and is trying to make herself desirable to you.

[wailshark]

Cliffs: she's lying

If you don't want to be tied down then don't be. Simple as that

[TheMusketeer]

She looks hot in those pics op. I say go for it.

[Bownage666]

monogamy is a lie. Just lol @ "cheating"

[GirlRed]

I can think of a couple of reasons someone would be okay with cheating;

1. No self respect
2. Low self esteem
3. Plans on cheating
4. Accepts cheating as a normal part of relationships
5. Wants relationship so badly will accept being treated like ****

As a woman my perspective is that cheating is never okay. I would never expect it from a relationship (why would you be in a relationship with someone you dont trust?). As to getting mad, I would get next level mad if this ever happened to me in a serious relationship and it would not be because they were too lazy to hide it but rather because actions speak louder than words and cheating shows just how little a person thinks of you.

[TheFuarkingBoss]

I was talking to this girl on the weekend, who wanted it bad. As we were progressing the conversation she let out she was on a hen night and it was her hen night next week and she wanted to suck some dick.

Now this is just the type of girl she was. There are certain people on this planet that just revolve their life around the opposite sex and sex. A man on the same wavelength as her would have had a raging boner but honestly it completely put me off.

As a man I don't want a virgin women who worships me and I am the only guy she has ever been with. I want a women who is just a little more respecting of her self, she has other things going on in her life other than sucking dik on the weekends.

[TheFuarkingBoss]

I can think of a couple of reasons someone would be okay with cheating;

1. No self respect
2. Low self esteem
3. Plans on cheating
4. Accepts cheating as a normal part of relationships
5. Wants relationship so badly will accept being treated like ****

As a woman my perspective is that cheating is never okay. I would never expect it from a relationship (why would you be in a relationship with someone you dont trust?). As to getting mad, I would get next level mad if this ever happened to me in a serious relationship and it would not be because they were too lazy to hide it but rather because actions speak louder than words and cheating shows just how little a person thinks of you.

It doesn't show you how little they think of you, it shows how little they think of themselves. They need all the love and attention from anyone they can get it from.

[badbl00d]

If a woman is okay with you cheating she's complete trash.