Is it possible to be content alone and incel?

[Issobolic28]

I''ve been trying and its just hard to sustain consistently.

If you think that's hard to sustain, try going 2 weeks without an ejaculation.

[miscbro333]

I would disagree strongly that I havent suffered enough. The loneliness and rejection and pain of living like this is becoming too much, to the point that the rope is inevitable if I continue like this.

I really dont even see how much more debilitating loneliness I can suffer through before I qualify for this next stage in your eyes. It literally cant get worse. I cant even get fat chicks dude. I am 100% hopeless.

you rejected a girl a couple of months ago and said you didn't want to date

[BigBallsMcgee]

You speak in circles. In your initial posts you state you have friends. You have some (albeit minimal) family. So you are not alone.....so its all good bro.

I mean romantically. Friends are good but as you get older its not the same. and they do not provide the things that you would get from romantic relationships

[BigBallsMcgee]

I’m content alone but I would still rather be married to Chad.

It’s fine but not optimal. I would be happier in a happy marriage to Chad. But there are lots of other marriage scenarios in which I would actually be happier just being alone.

Of course you're content alone. By definition, any woman who isnt content alone can very easily not be alone. they have options.

The only ones who are alone are those who truly who are ok with it..

doesnt work that way with men.

[BigBallsMcgee]

you rejected a girl a couple of months ago and said you didn't want to date

I didnt want to date HER. big difference which I didnt realize at the time, but I just didnt like her.

[donblaximus]

I mean romantically. Friends are good but as you get older its not the same. and they do not provide the things that you would get from romantic relationships

Back to circular point already made in this thread.
If you arent willing to take extreme measures towards seeking romantic relationships....then yes.....the outcome wont be good.

[miscbro333]

I didnt want to date HER. big difference which I didnt realize at the time, but I just didnt like her.

if you struggle as much as you say you do then why not give it a go? why move across the country and stay with your GF?

[TappingTheZen]

I didnt want to date HER. big difference which I didnt realize at the time, but I just didnt like her.

You are not an incel, you have a standards problem, they are different things.

We've gone from 'wahh i can't get laid' to 'wahh i can't wife up a girl who ticks all my boxes'... guess what son, that's the reality for most men (just look at marriage statistics), and has nothing to do with being an incel.

You've dated and banged at least 2 women, and sabotaged yourself in at least one of these, and you have rejected another women who you claimed is attractive enough but you simply 'dont like her'. That's fine, but stop claiming to be an incel and take responsibility for your own decisions.

The truth is you're not an incel, you're a (fairly) undesirable (at least by your claims) male who thinks he's too good for his female equivalent. Honestly, after that last thread where you were shown pretty much objectively to not be an incel, i really thought you might stop with this bullchit.

[Silence2]

Of course you're content alone. By definition, any woman who isnt content alone can very easily not be alone. they have options.

The only ones who are alone are those who truly who are ok with it..

doesnt work that way with men.

Yeah just keep in mind there are TONS of women in unhappy marriages who are cheating or who are getting cheated on or who argue all the time etc. Marriage is not all sunshine and rainbows.

[Muzzgtpress]

You are not an incel, you have a standards problem, they are different things.

We've gone from 'wahh i can't get laid' to 'wahh i can't wife up a girl who ticks all my boxes'... guess what son, that's the reality for most men (just look at marriage statistics), and has nothing to do with being an incel.

You've dated and banged at least 2 women, and sabotaged yourself in at least one of these, and you have rejected another women who you claimed is attractive enough but you simply 'dont like her'. That's fine, but stop claiming to be an incel and take responsibility for your own decisions.

The truth is you're not an incel, you're a (fairly) undesirable (at least by your claims) male who thinks he's too good for his female equivalent. Honestly, after that last thread where you were shown pretty much objectively to not be an incel, i really thought you might stop with this bullchit.

His only standard is dont be morbidly obese. I think thats reasonable when BBMG isnt even overweight himself

[TappingTheZen]

His only standard is dont be morbidly obese. I think thats reasonable when BBMG isnt even overweight himself

Nope, the girl he decided to not pursue even though she liked him wasn't morbidly obese, and at the time he was in fact enthusiastic then U turned. It's only now he's saying he doesn't like her.

Guess you and BBMG got some catching up to do.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Back to circular point already made in this thread.
If you arent willing to take extreme measures towards seeking romantic relationships....then yes.....the outcome wont be good.

Extreme measures wont work. Nothing will work. Please stop trying to shove that down my throat, I will never ever change my mind on that.

[BigBallsMcgee]

if you struggle as much as you say you do then why not give it a go?

Because I didnt like her.

why move across the country and stay with your GF?

because it wasnt going to last long term either way and that was possibly the only opportunity for me to get the house I wanted given rates and prices.

[BigBallsMcgee]

You are not an incel, you have a standards problem, they are different things.

"I have to like the woman" is a standards problem? Ok

[WhirlwindTobias]

If I were a mod I would just immediately lock all threads from BBMG unless the title gave an indication of improvement. These threads are groundhog day incarnate.

Imagine every couple of months the same person made a thread like "I'm always going to be obese and unemployed" or "Can anyone be happy while obese?". Responses come in with weight loss advice, pointers for acquiring and passing interviews etc

"My genetics keep me fat"
"You're already slim you don't get it"
"No-one in this world is gonna hire me so why bother"
"I'm not asking for advice I just want to know if I'll always be depressed"
"I don't want to work as a cleaner, I'll only be CEO or it's a waste of time"
"Actually I'm not that depressed this thread is just a hypothesis"

Would anyone take this seriously?

Nope, the girl he decided to not pursue even though she liked him wasn't morbidly obese, and at the time he was in fact enthusiastic then U turned. It's only now he's saying he doesn't like her.

Guess you and BBMG got some catching up to do.

BBMG is the firewood and the guy you're responding to is the stoke. He will write anything to further the thread's purpose. Don't respond. Ever. If he didn't exist these threads would get 3 pages not 10.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Nope, the girl he decided to not pursue even though she liked him wasn't morbidly obese, and at the time he was in fact enthusiastic then U turned. It's only now he's saying he doesn't like her.

Dont be fat is my only standard physically.

There are other standards beyond physical. I have to like the person for example. I guess thats unreasonable right. I better propose to women I do not like right? thats the solution.

[TappingTheZen]

"I have to like the woman" is a standards problem? Ok

At the time you had no issue with her

But yes, it is a standards problem. If you're crying and making depressing pathetic thread like this, when you actually have/had options, then you need a good hard look in the mirror. You got to do some mad mental gymnastics to justify dating and banging at least 2 women, and turning down a third (at least), while still claiming to be an 'incel'

You yourself admit you're a low value male, yet you're not willing to date your female equivalent, so yeah it's a standards issue. A

Dont be fat is my only standard physically.

There are other standards beyond physical. I have to like the person for example. I guess thats unreasonable right. I better propose to women I do not like right? thats the solution.

Was the girl you swerved fat? Either way, a fat girl is the female equivalent of a low value male.

I never said it's unreasonable, but it absoloutly is a standards problem. There's a big difference between not being able to get laid, and 'not being able to get laid by a girl i find attractive who has a personality i like'.

I'm also not pretending to offer a solution, so your sarcastic tone is a waste of time. I'm simply pointing out you should stop crying like a little b1tch about being an incel, because you're not one. Cry about your standards issue instead if you must, but stop being disingenous, because after that thread, nobody here can take you seriously. You can get laid, you can't find a woman who ticks your boxes; again this isn't being an incel, this is something probably more men suffer from than don't. It also probably doesn't help that you have an absoloutly insufferable personality and frame yourself as a perpetual victim of fate, and ignore any culpability you hold.

Get over yourself you pathetic ph@ggot.

[BigBallsMcgee]

If I were a mod I would just immediately lock all threads from BBMG unless the title gave an indication of improvement. These threads are groundhog day incarnate.

Imagine every couple of months the same person made a thread like "I'm always going to be obese and unemployed" or "Can anyone be happy while obese?". Responses come in with weight loss advice, pointers for acquiring and passing interviews etc

"My genetics keep me fat"
"You're already slim you don't get it"
"No-one in this world is gonna hire me so why bother"
"I'm not asking for advice I just want to know if I'll always be depressed"
"I don't want to work as a cleaner, I'll only be CEO or it's a waste of time"

Would anyone take this seriously?

They allow openly racist threads constantly every single day.

But those bigballs threads have to go. Cant have a lonely sad incel! Only nazi white supremacists ranting about jews are allowed here!

[donblaximus]

Extreme measures wont work. Nothing will work. Please stop trying to shove that down my throat, I will never ever change my mind on that.

Bro....im not shoving anything down your throat. I am agreeing with you. Life will suck.

[donblaximus]

Dont be fat is my only standard physically.

There are other standards beyond physical. I have to like the person for example. I guess thats unreasonable right. I better propose to women I do not like right? thats the solution.

Yes correct. Thats the solution. You got it bro.

[BigBallsMcgee]

At the time you had no issue with her

But yes, it is a standards problem. If you're crying and making depressing pathetic thread like this, when you actually have/had options, then you need a good hard look in the mirror. You got to do some mad mental gymnastics to justify dating and banging at least 2 women, and turning down a third (at least), while still claiming to be an 'incel'

You yourself admit you're a low value male, yet you're not willing to date your female equivalent, so yeah it's a standards issue.

What are you talking about at the time? at the time I didnt like her. Never did, never will.

If you're telling me I have to get with any willing women even if I dont like her, well, thats batchit retarded.

and you're roping me into a discussion I dont even want.

I've accepted being alone, this discussion about doing that in a worthwhile way

[BigBallsMcgee]

Yeah just keep in mind there are TONS of women in unhappy marriages who are cheating or who are getting cheated on or who argue all the time etc. Marriage is not all sunshine and rainbows.

Never said it was sunshine and roses, but they are still choosing to be in those marriages. They are still at some level deciding its better than being alone. Otherwise....be alone. Nobody is stopping you.

[donblaximus]

What are you talking about at the time? at the time I didnt like her. Never did, never will.

If you're telling me I have to get with any willing women even if I dont like her, well, thats batchit retarded.

and you're roping me into a discussion I dont even want.

I've accepted being alone, this discussion about doing that in a worthwhile way

Here are some ideas on how to spend your time in a worthwhile way:

watch city of angels
make some hot coco and snuggle up on the couch
plant some vegetables
volunteer in a soup kitchen

[TappingTheZen]

What are you talking about at the time? at the time I didnt like her. Never did, never will.

If you're telling me I have to get with any willing women even if I dont like her, well, thats batchit retarded.

and you're roping me into a discussion I dont even want.

I've accepted being alone, this discussion about doing that in a worthwhile way

Nope, i've never told you that you have to be willing to do that, did i? You sure love a strawman though, don't you?

I'm saying that if you've banged women in the past, and have women around you who aren't physically deformed and utterly grotesque, who are likely willing to sleep with you but you think you're too good for them, then you're absoloutly not an incel but you have a standards problem.

Nowhere have i told you what youy should do with women or whom you should sleep with, that's your own projection. I've simply pointed out that you're not an incel, and should stop calling yourself one because it's simply a lie; what you have, and i repeat again, is a standards issue. (and to be clear, before you put words in my mouth, that's not me saying you should or shouldnt sleep with women below whatever you deem your standards to be, im saying you should frame what your problem actually is accurately, instead of flat out deceiving people about your status as an 'incel').

Frankly, given your posts on other topics too, you very clearly have a kind of victim mentality and struggle to take responsibility for your actions. You'd rather perpetually whine like a little b1tch.

[Muzzgtpress]

Nope, i've never told you that you have to be willing to do that, did i? You sure love a strawman though, don't you?

I'm saying that if you've banged women in the past, and have women around you who aren't physically deformed and utterly grotesque, who are likely willing to sleep with you but you think you're too good for them, then you're absoloutly not an incel but you have a standards problem.

Nowhere have i told you what youy should do with women or whom you should sleep with, that's your own projection. I've simply pointed out that you're not an incel, and should stop calling yourself one because it's simply a lie; what you have, and i repeat again, is a standards issue. (and to be clear, before you put words in my mouth, that's not me saying you should or shouldnt sleep with women below whatever you deem your standards to be, im saying you should frame what your problem actually is accurately, instead of flat out deceiving people about your status as an 'incel')

Whats my issue then?

Unlike BBMG, I've never had a girlfriend. I've only had sex without paying 3 times and they were drunk fat girls from the bar

[BigBallsMcgee]

Here are some ideas on how to spend your time in a worthwhile way:

watch city of angels
make some hot coco and snuggle up on the couch
plant some vegetables
volunteer in a soup kitchen

breh I already explained, its not about how to spend the time. I can spend the time. dont need ideas for that.

[TappingTheZen]

Whats my issue then?

Unlike BBMG, I've never had a girlfriend. I've only had sex without paying 3 times and they were drunk fat girls from the bar

Dunno, no idea what you look like or know much about you apart from the fact you appear mentally ill.

You may well be an incel, but frankly there's clearly more to it because you have serious mental issues too. You have a very off-putting personality, and making these weird alt threads about muzzlepresses butthole among other things makes me suspect you're an extremely strange individual. Now i'm sure you could argue the causality is that you're like this because you're an incel, rather than vice versa, but again frankly i don't know enough about you to draw any firm judgement.

[WhirlwindTobias]

They allow openly racist threads constantly every single day.

But those bigballs threads have to go. Cant have a lonely sad incel! Only nazi white supremacists ranting about jews are allowed here!

Whataboutism.

You keep telling us our posts do not help you at all. That we don't understand you. That we are trolls posting racist threads. So why do you keep making threads?

For the incel circle jerk from a grand total of 3 people - 1 of them who's not even authentic?
Because we're the only people on this planet who will listen to your gripes more than a few seconds? Do you even talk to your family?

[Silence2]

What are you talking about at the time? at the time I didnt like her. Never did, never will.

If you're telling me I have to get with any willing women even if I dont like her, well, thats batchit retarded.

and you're roping me into a discussion I dont even want.

I've accepted being alone, this discussion about doing that in a worthwhile way

I think lots of women marry men they don’t like srs. Maybe even the majority.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Nope, i've never told you that you have to be willing to do that, did i? You sure love a strawman though, don't you?

I'm saying that if you've banged women in the past, and have women around you who aren't physically deformed and utterly grotesque, who are likely willing to sleep with you but you think you're too good for them, then you're absoloutly not an incel but you have a standards problem.

Nowhere have i told you what youy should do with women or whom you should sleep with, that's your own projection. I've simply pointed out that you're not an incel, and should stop calling yourself one because it's simply a lie; what you have, and i repeat again, is a standards issue. (and to be clear, before you put words in my mouth, that's not me saying you should or shouldnt sleep with women below whatever you deem your standards to be, im saying you should frame what your problem actually is accurately, instead of flat out deceiving people about your status as an 'incel').

Frankly, given your posts on other topics too, you very clearly have a kind of victim mentality and struggle to take responsibility for your actions. You'd rather perpetually whine like a little b1tch.

So if a 60 year old man fuked 1 woman when he was 18 and never again, because did that one time he's not an incel?

Incel != virgin. I'm not a virgin.

But I'm undesirable enough to qualify as an incel because I get zero or next to zero interest and cant get laid to save my life. Thats an incel.

Even the girl you're talking about was not begging for my dcick. Absolutely bullchit strawman to act like she was.