The women I've dated and encountered recently have either some sort of a diagnosed mental illness, have been raped, have been abused, cheated on or all of the above and they project their craziness onto me.
They usually reveal these things when they're drunk or the more I spend time with them, but on a day to day basis, they seem like normal, high functioning individuals.
I'm a Christian man and all I want is a normal girl with no mental issues. But even church girls are no different than normal girls.
The more I get older, the more I come to grips of the possibility that I will be single for life. Not that marriage is a good idea nowadays anyway, but still. Is there even one remotely normal girl out there?
Age is not a factor either because one girl is 18 and the other ones are mid 20s to early 30s.
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10-30-2021, 02:26 AM #1
Why does almost every girl these days have a crazy backstory?
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A significant portion of the girls I’ve been with have a crazy backstory of:
Rape story
Anti-depressants
Suicidal attempts
Personality Disorder
Making terrible life decisions and justifying them to no end
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been in long term relationships with normal girls who check none of those boxes. But I got bored because evidently, I’m too attracted to the crazy ones because they’re just so damn good in bed it’s irresistible at times to turn down unprotected sex on the regular with a baddie.
But yea too much victim mentality and the biggest issue with women in general....NOT TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR PAST ACTIONS. It’s like a sickness with them holy fuk. They’ll say sh!t all the time about “My past doesn’t matter!!” “Oh yeah??” Does Mother Theresa’s past not matter? Do Ghandi’s past actions not matter? No. That quote is only used to dismiss bad choices and it’s so transparent.
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10-30-2021, 03:42 AM #10
I don't know that many girls who have been raped.
I knew one girl who insinuated that she was raped but i never banged her and glad i didn't because she turned out to be crazy af."It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.
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Yea and I know you’re gonna be met with responses about how “Every generation says the same thing about the new generation and it’s just a common trend. But no. Things are completely different these days with social media and online dating having an adverse effects on our mental health. We’re all just test guinea pigs in real time for all these potentially disasterout innovations.
Social media is literally mental masturbation and fuels low-key narcissism across a large amount of people and it’s sad.
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10-30-2021, 04:09 AM #14
This was one of my main motivations to leave the west srs.
Every sloot I met was just a complete degenerate, or had some revolting emotional baggage, or was just a phucking loser.
BRB I’m trying to meet the future mother of my children and this sloot is taking about that time she got smashed by Trey Songs in Vegas or some chit.
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OP it’s just your social circle
I never experienced this
I went to a good school, a great college and then 2 of the top universities
The women I met along the way were all well-educated, well-spoken, career women who brought value to whatever relationships they were in
Ended up meeting a 22 year old doctoral candidate (I was 32) who I later married
So I can’t really relate to your story
Education and family values are still normal in Moscow, probably the rest of Russia as well
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Yeah I could. It won't be easy though. You can't raise a family properly and be career oriented at the same time as a woman, it simply doesn't work. Hence the current state of our society.
Also just realised you're a boomer. Your generation and women are completely different. Not even comparable to gen z and millennials. You had it good.
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10-30-2021, 04:26 AM #26
I've been dealing with this since the late 1980's. 15 YO Girlfriend then was a 'virgin' who only had a broken hymen from riding horses. :/ Then she would randomly shriek at me about never asking her about her past. Her Daddy never loved her. Serious emotional issues and would sht test me into oblivion.
Other 14 YO chick I had a fling with was molested by a cousin at 9 or 10, so she had been sexually active since she was 12. She was on all kinds of medication and would randomly quit talking to everyone about anything for a few weeks, then she would be fine again. Huge boobs, though.
Friend of my sisters was hooking up with guys in their 20's as a teenager. She was gorgeous, but always kind of a kook.
Another of her friends was a blue eyed blonde with big boobs who got drunk and got pregnant and claimed she was raped since she regretted it. She used to be as sweet as honey, but turned extremely vindictive after that.
Friend's ex wife was 11 when she lost her v-card and is certifiable.
People I know have a little 13 year old who had a 23 year old boyfriend who is in jail now for it. He had 7 other underage victims, two of them 10 years old, one of whom got pregnant. real scumbag. Then her other boyfriend, who she was cheating on with the ped0, died in a car wreck recently, so she is an emotional wreck. Mostly her crazy white trash parents fault, though.
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Yeah true but at least if she has a degree there’s a better than even chance she’s read a book, can think somewhat critically and hold a sensible discussion, probably some kind of work ethic
Like if someone lists “classic Russian literature” as one of their interests you’ll likely have more to talk about with them than say “ my interests are dinner and watching Netflix”
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