Whats preventing you from approaching girls/getting laid?

[ali2coolwitu]

The fact that the new twilight movie came out and I dont look anything like taylor lautner

[Cocoa_Tea]

^^^ I've seen far better examples.
Whenever i am feeling ugly or just down about myself
I remember how these ugly ass people are macking more bitches than i am
and I feel better


like there is still hope.

[Bollock-chops]

Just too lazy lol. I expect them to come to me.....they never do

[Liff_Wates]

miscbrahs of this thread.

does this not make you rage?

strong sister

[RaginAzN]

strong sister

haha I would rep you but out of it for now haha...

[chasinSKURT]

This is the most beta thread I've ever seen in my life.

What's wrong with you pussys? You're all nuts.

Most people in this thread are in good if not great shape, that alone puts you ahead of 99% of other guys. Add to that the fact that since you troll the misc, so you likely have a strong sense of humor, and your good to go.

Seriously, your all being vaginas. Man the fck up and talk to a girl.

[kyleTX]

go out in public intoxicated, you will definitely approach women


































or get arrested...

[Shangius]

strong sister

[Liff_Wates]

yuck!

[kyleTX]

he's gonna inherit millions of dollars?

she's a mail order bride?


I is confused

[mizzOe]

My speech impediment (stuttering).

Can barely get the first few words out of my mouth, let alone work my way to getting laid.

Whore-houses ftw.......

[Shangius]

he's gonna inherit millions of dollars?

she's a mail order bride?


I is confused

its gotta be a twilight zone episode or something. wtf @ his hair.

[Dipset007]

fck biches get money

[Liff_Wates]

My speech impediment (stuttering).

Can barely get the first few words out of my mouth, let alone work my way to getting laid.

Whore-houses ftw.......

sorry to hear that dude. I know a guy, he's jacked and he would be good looking but he has a lazy eye. it creeps girls out bad cuz you can't tell where he's looking and it's definitely a major game killer

[robogain]

its kinda weird... i use to have like 0 confidence .. then i went about improving the things that i wanted to improve on my face and did it... but now that i am more confident in my looks .. i am still a huge pussy ... ****ing ****.. i really need to improve on not being a pussy. i never approach random girls .. also factor in a big huge lazyness part

[Dipset007]

i think another thing that fcked me over is the whole "nice guy sensitive" that had been brainwashed into me since i was little

and i dont think looks really do matter. the reason ugly guys are able to pull pu$$y is mainly because of their confidence or they make a girl feel certain way

[MrPayday]

i think another thing that fcked me over is the whole "nice guy sensitive" that had been brainwashed into me since i was little

Stating the obvious but you have to cut that out. Keep it deep down, never lose your sensitivity, but you have to know when to show it, and when to be a man and act like it. Girl having problems that aren't worth crying about? Tough sh*t, tell her "boo hoo." If a girl is a being a baby, call it out, don't give into it, that's what her girl friends are for. You're their to be her man, not another vagina to cry to and complain to. Women can talk to me about serious things, but if they're going to tell me about something ridiculous that shouldn't be cried over, I'll tell them straight up I just don't care and they need to get over it and grow up. And yes, I'm always thanks for saying this, because usually they say it puts things into perspective. Women love to be called out, even if they don't show it. Just make sure you have the right attitude for it, or it could come off weird. They love to be put in their place; makes them feel like you're strong and they're weak.

Just want to clarify that I'm not saying to drop the sensitive thing, if that's who you are, develop it and keep it, but it doesn't have to bring you down at all. Everything can be turned into a positive thing as far as talking to women is concerned, especially sensitivity. The problem is sensitivity usually turns into a guy being a little b!tch telling the girl what she wants to hear. STOP TELLING GIRLS WHAT YOU THINK THEY WANT TO HEAR

[da_underdawg]

Me:

im overweight, have moobs and self concious about my body, dont feel like i can get laid until i get in the perfect shape i want to. dont feel comfortable inside myself

lost 10 lbs in 1 month. another 20-30 lbs to go until i feel comfy and start chasing bishes

what about you brahs?

asian sized c*ck

[Mr.PissShivers]

Probably the acne on my back.

[jcl556]

Women are just people, I don't see the problem or what's so scary about talking to them/approaching them. The only thing keeping any of you from approaching a girl is your own insecurity and paranoia.

1) Women generally are very easy to figure out and manipulate. The only reason anybody has problems understanding women is because the way their mind works is extremely different from a mans, so a lot of men have a hard time grasping this. Women's minds are emotionally driven, therefore if you stimulate their emotions while talking to them it puts them into a state of "emotional high," this is what makes you stand out. Most guys don't realize this and just talk to a girl or say really stupid things. If you can be confident, sarcastic, and just very straight with a girl like you're the god and she's a mortal, everything will fall in line. Don't be afraid to be straight forward/blunt/honest in a sarcastic way. If you hear her laugh and call you an @sshole, you're in. Women are very simple, generally they're given too much credit.

2) Confidence is everything; LEGIT confidence. As soon as you can be legit confident without it obviously being fake (obviously over doing it/trying too hard/etc), the women will notice. It irradiates from you like some kind of aura, they can smell it on you like a cologne. This isn't done by lifting weights or any type of external activity (although it can really help), it's all mental, every single bit of it. You have to get over any insecurity you have, and you have to stop caring what anybody thinks. You're the king of your life, act like it. All these kids walking around with their insecurities on their back holding them down, causing them to look to the ground and be awkward, it's kids like that that make it more satisfying when you reach the state of confidence.

3) When talking to a woman, keep eye contact. If you're not confident, this could come off as creepy, but most things do when you're trying to be confident when you're really not. Also, keep your hands out of your pockets, and don't be afraid to make some kind of bodily contact. Naturally, if a girl says something stupid or something that makes me laugh, I give her a little slap with the back of my hand on her arm or something, and I notice every single time I do this to a girl, they start to touch me in return every chance they get. There's just a lot of small things you can do like that that build attraction.

4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT: Most people when they think of confidence, they picture someone else, and want to become that, and as a result, try to become something they're not when they're trying to be confident. This is the worst thing you can do, because confidence arises with finally reaching complete comfort in who you are and developing your positive traits and being most positive in yourself. If you try to become someone else, people can sense that, and it's a huge turn off. Be who you are, and f*ck anyone that can't handle that.

Anyway, I could write an entire book on this, if anyone has questions on how they can improve approaching women or how they can work on their own confidence, let me know.

Age: 19

Son I am impressed.

[Liff_Wates]

girls are intimidated by me because i am unbelievably handsome. they start shaking and can't string 2 words together

my penis is MASSIVE which makes it difficult to penetrate, even with lube and yoga. it's like trying to pick a lock with a sledgehammer

i am ridiculously rich so i am overly cautious of golddiggers

[zabardast]

-Broke

And I think that's it really. It's not even a good excuse, broke guys are ****ing all the time.

[Finski]

Had confidence issues when I was younger, girls would approach me, but i'd turn them down, grew up a bit, now nothings stopping me, bit I dont go out of my way to pick up, they usually come to me, just get some confidence and go for it, if you get rejected dont take it to heart and keep trying brah

[sword_]

Having approach anxiety is natural when talking to women. Fear of the unknown but too much can be unhealthy.

Since I moved down here I haven't pulled much. Part of my time has been unemployed and basically extremely stressed out. Now that I'm working I've been trying to be more social again.

If I go out to bars I do good but don't really find too many girls I'm interested in besides looks. I'd rather meet a girl in the day.

My day game is getting better but I can't always hook. I sometimes can't create fluid conversion and I know these girls will give me a shot and a few have said I'm
ballsy. Some chicks I might intimidate too. I'll figure it out though.

[Fielder]

Nothing, I always get what i want? Being 5'6 does not hold me back, Not being a douche is a major advantage.

[stephano5]

Stating the obvious but you have to cut that out. Keep it deep down, never lose your sensitivity, but you have to know when to show it, and when to be a man and act like it. Girl having problems that aren't worth crying about? Tough sh*t, tell her "boo hoo." If a girl is a being a baby, call it out, don't give into it, that's what her girl friends are for. You're their to be her man, not another vagina to cry to and complain to. Women can talk to me about serious things, but if they're going to tell me about something ridiculous that shouldn't be cried over, I'll tell them straight up I just don't care and they need to get over it and grow up. And yes, I'm always thanks for saying this, because usually they say it puts things into perspective. Women love to be called out, even if they don't show it. Just make sure you have the right attitude for it, or it could come off weird. They love to be put in their place; makes them feel like you're strong and they're weak.

Just want to clarify that I'm not saying to drop the sensitive thing, if that's who you are, develop it and keep it, but it doesn't have to bring you down at all. Everything can be turned into a positive thing as far as talking to women is concerned, especially sensitivity. The problem is sensitivity usually turns into a guy being a little b!tch telling the girl what she wants to hear. STOP TELLING GIRLS WHAT YOU THINK THEY WANT TO HEAR

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[SpikedDiesel]

I'm a selfish dick.

[Lotto20]

I could never understand why ppl can't just go up to girls and talk they are just people. And them trying to pick them up the worst they could do is tell u to **** off. I've never been scared to talk to girls maybe because I don't care if I'm rejected. Only time I have been is if the girls bf is right there lol. I honestly talk to about 4-5 bitches at a time without either of them knowing it...its like a game , single = win

[jonnyl69]

In for 6ft'1 curse, support group..

No confidence.. Feels bad mann.

[Oroborus]

I do approach girls regularly.

Get laid? No