** Sooo, my GF of 9 years cheated on me for 6 months-SRS-(need some brahtherly love)

[rotatoo]

isnt is sociopathic to do that to someone you have a substantial emotional bond with? Chicks never fail to amaze me when it comes to nonchalant slootin, which I've seen with my own eyes time and time again. Guys at least have some guilt

[PolishPhenom]

Who wants to make a wager that this OP goes back to his cheating Gf and rings her up?

[InfinityThor]

Who wants to make a wager that this OP goes back to his cheating Gf and rings her up?

First LTR breakup = guaranteed backslide.

It's a rite of passage, the OP doesn't fully understand the situation yet.

[Buckwildish]

OP I feel so bad for you. Would srsly give a brohug irl.

Did she say why she cheated? Not that it matters but, I can't get my head around it, 2 ****ing years, what kind of human being does that.

I hope you recover soon, although it will sting for a while.

My advice for you is to take your time, a few days or even a week or two to mourn this relationship, after 9 years you will need this.
Don't be ashamed of it, be honest to yourself, and reflect upon it.

Cut all contact with her and move on with your life. No FB, new phone number, no email... if she shows up at your door, stay strong and kindly request her to move. Be that ****in' sickkunt that she will regret cheating on for the rest of her life.
Get huge, find a hotter chick, find a nice job, study, travel, learn new languages, form awesome friendships.



Most important thing to remember, don't forget that there are still good women out there.

Skip to part VIII: Mourning, read it, there's some good stuff in it
http://therawness.com/reader-letters-1-part-5/

[Faboo]

So dump her,

What's the problem here OP..

She cheated on you, You stayed loyal, Remember what a bish she was and Move on.


Get back all your belongings, Money, important stuffs etcs, Never talk to her again, Move on.

1 year or 10 years or 30 years, **** happens, you get over it and move on, You stick to it and you get stuck for life, hurting yourself even more.

giant difference between 1 year and 10 years....not asking if i should stay..just need dem words of encouragement, if you arent heavily vested into ur partner after 9 years, something would be wrong with that ya know. it takes time...and a few key words to remember could be the difference between depression...bumming for a month or so..or saying i still want to be with her

dudes are always afraid to ask for support...im not

[Spartacurse]

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sorry to hear that brah, but better know now than never. Look on the bright side and march on, plenty of fishes in the sea.

[MrFrumble]

isnt is sociopathic to do that to someone you have a substantial emotional bond with? Chicks never fail to amaze me when it comes to nonchalant slootin, which I've seen with my own eyes time and time again. Guys at least have some guilt

Yep, it's called it the Lizard-Brain, bro.

Females are completely & utterly cold blooded when it comes to shtt like this, like Reptiles.

I love posts and incidents like this now though, I love reptile watching.
Some people like Bird Watching, I like Lizard Watching. It's a fascinating hobby. They feel a tingle in their vagina, and they follow it. They are only one step above venus fly traps. Srs.

[DavyCrockett]

Damn brah the worst part about the whole thing is you trusted her enough to be doing what she normally does. Always seems like when you can trust they cheat but when you think they are cheating they aren't.

Also after 9 years were you not living together?

[mmaoz]

that chick is disgusting. what a piece of ****. i know you did spend a long time with her i'm glad you found this out before you invested even more time into her in ****ing marriage

[CoolDehLa]

soooo, its been 2 years they were seeing each other...2 out of 9 years she has been with another dude

she's gave him naked pics 4 months after meeting him and banging since who knows when


FML



brahs im not seeing a way out of this

It's time to end anything, forget about her

[SyKoFaT]

Age:23

Perfect gif.
I JUsT turned 23 yesterday at that..
Also have a 3.5 year old with the said sloot.

[Faboo]

Acid to her face, and cut off his penor & balls and put them through a blender on high for 5 minutes.

They can still function as parents to the child, but will live with your vengeance everyday for the rest of their lives.
Might want to flee to Mexico afterward though.

No lie, my family has a history of standing up for themselves and each other to the point they have to change states and last names....serious..twice since slavery ended my forefathers fought for their land against people trying to bully them off their land....the details have been lost with time, but twice they ended up moving a bit further west with a new name lol.....

not gonna front, my biceps started hopping around with all the adrenaline in my system when she told me. Family and trust is everything to me..and she killed both with her actions...

[MasterCobra]

i feel so bad for my american brahs... i really do...
gotta live with the worst scum of female society... american women are such whores i understand why you guys are such mysoginists who hate women and think all women are whores.

bro, if you ever want to come to brazil and game up a wife material hot chick around here i'll help you out. 9 years man, that fuking sucks.

and bro, you CAN hate on the guy.
2 years. he knew you were with her and still he was fuking her... he should be smashed the fuk up.

[SyKoFaT]

So when was she sneaking off? Didnt you notice anything up with her phone etc? You must have been pretty out of touch with each other if this was going on for 2 years and you didn't notice.

You reall underestimate a females ability to hide **** and sneak around.. Wait till you get a guy/girl and keep em for a year... You will understand brah.


Op it's only gunna get harder from here for a few weeks.. Everything will remind you of her.. Sorry but it's truez stay string brah.. She will try to come back to you.. I promise!! Don't just take her back the first time.. Make her work for it.. It will be hard but that's the facts homeboy

[Buckwildish]

i feel so bad for my american brahs... i really do...
gotta live with the worst scum of female society... american women are such whores i understand why you guys are such mysoginists who hate women and think all women are whores.

bro, if you ever want to come to brazil and game up a wife material hot chick around here i'll help you out. 9 years man, that fuking sucks.

STRONG THIS

It's getting bad here in Europe as well... the stories I could tell would leave your brain shattered.
I'm at the point where I would only consider wifing up an Asian / Eastern-European / South-American chick.
In the meantime pump and dump sloots of peace.

[InfinityThor]

and bro, you CAN hate on the guy.
2 years. he knew you were with her and still he was fuking her... he should be smashed the fuk up.

GTFO, that's what insecure beta *******s do... his GF was a giant lying whore.

It's 100% on the GF, 0% on the other guy.

[rotatoo]

so how is she reacting? Does she even give a a shyt?

[RobertPlant]

more chicks cheat then you think yall

your girl just hasnt been caught.

use to be a bartender in my younger days.

[TheCore84]

If I still lived in simi valley brah I'd drive down and take you out for a hot dog at portillos, srs.

[Faboo]

Damn brah the worst part about the whole thing is you trusted her enough to be doing what she normally does. Always seems like when you can trust they cheat but when you think they are cheating they aren't.

Also after 9 years were you not living together?

Naw brah, i did this old school, the way i was raised to do it

met senior year
asked her father if i can go to prom with her, then asked her
only saw her our first year under family supervision, in or around her house
she wasnt allowed to come over my house until year 3 or so
year 4 she started having a bit more freedom, only could stay out past 9pm on special occasions, where her parents knew ahead of time
year 5 to 9 she is pretty free but her family thinks that like not being home = whoring, so we mostly chilled at her house anyways

oh...year 7 to 9....go out with this other dude, while i went through all the years of 19th century courting rules, 4 months in he already was gettin it.

[TheCore84]

GTFO, that's what insecure beta *******s do... his GF was a giant lying whore.

It's 100% on the GF, 0% on the other guy.

This.

[Faboo]

If I still lived in simi valley brah I'd drive down and take you out for a hot dog at portillos, srs.

fuuuu..polish dog with onion rings please

[InfinityThor]

Naw brah, i did this old school, the way i was raised to do it

met senior year
asked her father if i can go to prom with her, then asked her
only saw her our first year under family supervision, in or around her house
she wasnt allowed to come over my house until year 3 or so
year 4 she started having a bit more freedom, only could stay out past 9pm on special occasions, where her parents knew ahead of time
year 5 to 9 she is pretty free but her family thinks that like not being home = whoring, so we mostly chilled at her house anyways

oh...year 7 to 9....go out with this other dude, while i went through all the years of 19th century courting rules, 4 months in he already was gettin it.

Wtf is this chit?

That's not 9 years, big exaggeration OP, that's barely even a GF... the first 5 years are irrelevant and the next 4 are probably just as irrelevant.

Why would you waste 9 years doing all that?

I'm genuinely shaking my head right now at this situation.

[the-craig]

Makes me feel sick reading that. It's terrible knowing she did it OP but on the other hand it's better you find out now than it go on and on. Just ruin her life, tell her family and everyone how much of a whore she is for starters, then see where it takes you.

[TheCore84]

Naw brah, i did this old school, the way i was raised to do it

met senior year
asked her father if i can go to prom with her, then asked her
only saw her our first year under family supervision, in or around her house
she wasnt allowed to come over my house until year 3 or so
year 4 she started having a bit more freedom, only could stay out past 9pm on special occasions, where her parents knew ahead of time
year 5 to 9 she is pretty free but her family thinks that like not being home = whoring, so we mostly chilled at her house anyways

oh...year 7 to 9....go out with this other dude, while i went through all the years of 19th century courting rules, 4 months in he already was gettin it.

Maybe she didn't like the wking. No offense but just saying.

[Vitek92]

Naw brah, i did this old school, the way i was raised to do it

met senior year
asked her father if i can go to prom with her, then asked her
only saw her our first year under family supervision, in or around her house
she wasnt allowed to come over my house until year 3 or so
year 4 she started having a bit more freedom, only could stay out past 9pm on special occasions, where her parents knew ahead of time
year 5 to 9 she is pretty free but her family thinks that like not being home = whoring, so we mostly chilled at her house anyways

oh...year 7 to 9....go out with this other dude, while i went through all the years of 19th century courting rules, 4 months in he already was gettin it.

It's stories like this that just make me take all girls as sluts and expect nothing from them.
It can only get better from that point when some rare example acts differently.


Stay strong, OP.

[TheCore84]

fuuuu..polish dog with onion rings please

Italian beef with sweet peppers ftw!

[MEDITATE]

op do the following


cry
fap while crying
text other girl
bang her
cry
misc
start over *see pic*

lol

[MrFrumble]

GTFO, that's what insecure beta *******s do... his GF was a giant lying whore.

It's 100% on the GF, 0% on the other guy.

NEGGED, you little poofter.
If the male is KNOWINGLY imposing a cuckold scenario on another male for TWO FCUKING YEARS then he would have to be a potato not to expect some form of vengance.

ONLY in emasculated western culture is the male expected to say...

...then trundle off with his tail between his legs so that his ex and her new beau can get down to fcuking daily without the inconvenience of having to work around him.

Some bloke games & fcuks your GF/Fiance/Wife one weekend, sure. How can you blame him. How could he know? He is just being a normal man trying to get some.

But TWO YEARS! Fcuk all that, they both deserve to get cancer of the lower jaw IMHO.

I hope OP is able to gain enough perspective to move on from this piece of **** prostitute cleanly, and that he never lets his guard down again.

[Brahrker]

soooo, its been 2 years they were seeing each other...2 out of 9 years she has been with another dude

she's gave him naked pics 4 months after meeting him and banging since who knows when


FML



brahs im not seeing a way out of this

I really do not think I would have been able to contain myself from laying all my anger into her jaw with my fist if I was in that position, what a scummy kunt.