Anthony21's Non-Stop Endeavor for Strength

[Jasonk282]

Sorry to hear about that brada. Like others have said, don;t be negative about her Mom in front of her. It's just not good. My mom was like that with our dad, just makes you look petty. No matter what you'll always be her dad and she'll always be your girl...nothing will ever change that.

The good thing now is that you can make everything about your daughter. No mater what happens with the both of you, never put the kid in the middle of it.

Just my .02 brada.

[Anthony21]

I appreciate the words J

Right now I'm living out my truck. I got kicked out last night. I have no idea what I'm going to do or where I'm going to go. I crashed on an old friends couch for the night and have $100 to last me for a week.

I'm sorry but it looks like I'm out of the gym which is pissing me off. That was the only outlet I had, now it's gone.

[Jasonk282]

I appreciate the words J

Right now I'm living out my truck. I got kicked out last night. I have no idea what I'm going to do or where I'm going to go. I crashed on an old friends couch for the night and have $100 to last me for a week.

I'm sorry but it looks like I'm out of the gym which is pissing me off. That was the only outlet I had, now it's gone.

DO you have family close by?

[Juicemw]

Sorry to hear about that brada. Like others have said, don;t be negative about her Mom in front of her. It's just not good. My mom was like that with our dad, just makes you look petty. No matter what you'll always be her dad and she'll always be your girl...nothing will ever change that.

The good thing now is that you can make everything about your daughter. No mater what happens with the both of you, never put the kid in the middle of it.

Just my .02 brada.

Definitely true, basically what I said just prior to you posting too. Take it from someone who WAS put in the middle of it. -_-

[Anthony21]

DO you have family close by?

No they're all in Cali n I'm in Oregon

[mmorton]

I wouldn't just up and leave if it were me. Especially when you have no where to go. My wife and I took turns at the house until we could make arrangements. It's your house too dude. Surely there's another bedroom you can stay in until you figure it out. That's bs

[sloop]

I appreciate the words J

Right now I'm living out my truck. I got kicked out last night. I have no idea what I'm going to do or where I'm going to go. I crashed on an old friends couch for the night and have $100 to last me for a week.

I'm sorry but it looks like I'm out of the gym which is pissing me off. That was the only outlet I had, now it's gone.

Hang in there, buddy. I know times are tough, but you can make it through this. Best of luck my friend.

[Stncldsnake]

So sorry to hear about the divorce bro, been there and I know it doesn't feel good, If I can help in anyway give me shout bro!!

[ktj4l]

I wouldn't just up and leave if it were me. Especially when you have no where to go. My wife and I took turns at the house until we could make arrangements. It's your house too dude. Surely there's another bedroom you can stay in until you figure it out. That's bs

This/10

Stay strong.

[Anthony21]

She said she doesn't want me under the same house. I didn't want to continue arguing in front of our daughter so I just agreed.

[Jasonk282]

No they're all in Cali n I'm in Oregon

Awe bro, sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. we got no family down here either.

She said she doesn't want me under the same house. I didn't want to continue arguing in front of our daughter so I just agreed.

Honestly...that was a good move not to argue in front of her.

[mmorton]

Well you don't have to argue in front of her and not have to sleep in your truck. I'd just be careful so they can't say you up and abandoned your family. Take care of yourself brotha. We are here for you

[Anthony21]

I'm not abandoning anything but what can I do? I mean my priority is my daughter and if I would have stayed it would of hot ugly and I'm not trying to put my daughter in that position.

I'm being eaten alive from the inside with all this emotion and my only outlet being the gym is stripped from me.

[ktj4l]

I'm not abandoning anything but what can I do? I mean my priority is my daughter and if I would have stayed it would of hot ugly and I'm not trying to put my daughter in that position.

Agreed, but your wife can't throw you out of the house without a valid reason. So unless you cheated or hit her, you have as much right to be there as she does.

I'm being eaten alive from the inside with all this emotion and my only outlet being the gym is stripped from me.

How is she keeping you from going to the gym?

[KenshinH]

Agreed, but your wife can't throw you out of the house without a valid reason. So unless you cheated or hit her, you have as much right to be there as she does.

How is she keeping you from going to the gym?

This.

Your name is on the title isn't it? It's your house too. If you guys don't want to see or talk to each other, fine, maybe the spare bedroom or even the garage will work as a temporary bedroom. You don't need to eat/cook in the house, but you need a place to shower and a warm bed to sleep in (especially now in the winter).

So sleep in separate beds, don't talk to each other if you don't want to, but get back into the house that you own a part of.

[liftingson]

sorry to hear about this man! stay positive around your little girl...remember shes the most important!

[ulsak]

Dunno what to say but I think the brothers are right, someone should tell your wife to be reasonable..she have to act civil, as a human being and for the sake of your child.
Stay strong, Ant!

[Anthony21]

What's up guys I really appreciate all the support and advice. Last night me and my wife had a long talk and if we're going to try to save this marriage and our family we need to both try 100%.

That means taking up marriage counseling and doing everything we can and in the end it doesn't work at least we tried 100%.

Yesterday I moved all my sh!t back in and was able to hit the gym. It was a sh!tty day in the gym though. Lack of nutrition and sleep was the culprit behind me not hitting my reps in my bench and squat. I didn't have it with me yesterday I hope to gain back the momentum I had going. Here was my workout from last night.


Squat
145x5
180x5
215x5
250x5
290x4 Failed to get 5 reps

Bench
110x5
140x5
165x5
190x5
220x2Failed to get 5 reps

Pendlay Row
100x5
120x5
145x5
170x5
195x5New 5RM PR

Pull ups
5,4,4,43
*These were super setted in between my sets of bench

BB Curls
65x12
65x10
Barx16

[Jasonk282]

This is good news this morning. The wife and I went to 6 months of marriage counseling as well to save our marriage. I think it's awesome that the both of you are wanting to fix what needs fixed rather than throw up your hand s and say "fcuk it." Plus the counselor will get the both of you to open up and really say what's on your minds and give you ways to fix the issues.

[Anthony21]

This is good news this morning. The wife and I went to 6 months of marriage counseling as well to save our marriage. I think it's awesome that the both of you are wanting to fix what needs fixed rather than throw up your hand s and say "fcuk it." Plus the counselor will get the both of you to open up and really say what's on your minds and give you ways to fix the issues.

Yea I mean if in the end it doesn't work out at least we both tried you know? I figure marriage counseling is our last chance to get that spark back.

[thom2355]

No worries about the gym man. It will always be there and better situations will allow for more optimal situations to break PRs. Glad to hear you two are going to try to work things out.

[Juicemw]

Glad to hear you're working on it Ant. Like you said, if it doesn't work out at least you exhausted every option in the process and left no stone un turned.

[KenshinH]

That's awesome bro! I was thinking of your situation last night before bed, and I was hoping to hear that you moved back in to your house. That plus marriage counseling is even better!

I just got up and that news has made my day already! (bro hug)

[ktj4l]

No worries about the gym man. It will always be there and better situations will allow for more optimal situations to break PRs. Glad to hear you two are going to try to work things out.

This/10. Glad to see things are a little better today for you.

[NC_Tarheel]

Happy wife

Happy life



Marinate on that

Good luck to you buddy!!

[ulsak]

Light in the tunnel! Hope this ends well. And that there will be a reasonable solution for all of if you can't avoid a divorce.
Hope for the best but plan for the worst

[gallagnm]

glad to hear the good news man, like everyone said its better to give it all than to give up. At least your squeezed out a god 5RM PR with the lack of nutrition and sleep

[bigwade800]

[QUOTE=Anthony21;1013893483]What's up guys I really appreciate all the support and advice. Last night me and my wife had a long talk and if we're going to try to save this marriage and our family we need to both try 100%.

That means taking up marriage counseling and doing everything we can and in the end it doesn't work at least we tried 100%.

This is really good news.

Give it all you have and understand, it will still be ugly and difficult at times. Take her and you how you are now, don't wait to give 100% unitl it's where it needs to be. It's going to you both 100% to get it there. Stay the course!

I'm really glad to see this happening.

[Anthony21]

I appreciate everything guys it means a lot, it really does. Here's to being Strong(er) to each and everyone of you.


Thank you.

[Juicemw]

I appreciate everything guys it means a lot, it really does. Here's to being Strong(er) to each and everyone of you.


Thank you.

Strong(er) Physically AND mentally.