What are your biggest problems in life right now? Srs

[Jacwald]

I'm unemployed ( school schedule makes it difficult to get a job at least that's my rationalization)
I'm still at home with my parents, and it's cawkblocking and also my family members always try to bring me down.
I don't have a car
I lost a lot"friends" and I'm having hard time making some new one .
Anxiety of getting the girl pregnant kills my errections
Living in a lonely suburbs with no life around me.

Cliffs
I'm broke
My game needs work ( I can't rely on looks and humor forever)
I'm living with downers, and I can't move out

Seriously money will fix a lot of my problems

[ineed$]

Whether it's physical, financial, relationship, emotional problems etc

I'll start:

No gf or girls in my life
Low libido
Knees hurt
Poor


What about you?

LOL that is it? I had to talk to my best friend from HS after he got released from prison and this is his situation that I can think of:

-No ID/papers gone/missing
-Living with his mom at 29 on house arrest
- old ass clothes,
-His GF cheated on him the entire time he was locked up
-ex-gfs got married or gone
-No job, PO on his ass
-Has no way to meet other girls, no sex in years.
-face scares from prison
-body malnourished from lack of food and sitting in a small cell.


there is more but I cant remember. U still think u got it bad? Don't know what to tell him, trying to get him a job and chit but idk. What u guys would do?

[Jacwald]

I'm stuck in a place that I hate can't wait to gtfo

I feel you bro

[untranslatedZA]

Living in South Africa .. so I win by default unless there is a cancer victim.

Hairline starting to creep back too

[ineed$]

F

Check PM brah

[MadNinjaSkills]

My sister has stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. She was doing so well for the last year and a half and they just found it in the bones around her hip. She just had a few rounds of radiation there last week to combat it. She's always on my mind and I guess I can say saddens me to almost a depression. But I try to stay positive and hide how I feel because I don't want her to be sad I'm sad. Yeh know? I just try to see the light at the end of the tunnel. She may not live as long as she should, but we are all doing what we can to make sure she lives a happy life to the end. I hope someday I can afford to stay home for a bit if need be so I can take care of her when it's towards the end of her time.

[iloveus]

Feeling pulled between wanted to still be an early 20s something and just go out and live life and trying to cement myself into adulthood.

Which is why in this generation the 20's are called emerging adulthood and our generation are called kidults.

[onaed]

Huge "re-org" at work. For those not in the 9-5 yet, that's the bullchit way of saying a new middle manager came in and had to make themselves look good by restructuring (and cutting) tons of people. I'm all for efficiency but their changes have made things *less* effective for the remaining folks. It's actually increased workload by making things less efficient, now and in the long term. They cut some vital teams and pushed back the work on to everyone else. Teams who had specialized folks to do those tasks, the rest of us will never be able to do that work well (we're not specialized in it).

It's caused me a lot of stress. They cut around 150 people right before Christmas. I can survive just fine on savings if I was cut. Been actively looking & applying to other jobs; don't want to take a pay cut if I jump ship.

I just hate the feeling of walking into work everyday and something "new" is "announced". It's been going on 60 days. Sleeps been in the gutter and I'm exhausted from the increased work. Just doing some research on adaptogens and stress relief -- been trying to go stim free, but feel like I'm walking dead without Monster, caffeine.

Suggestions, boyos?

Hang in there

[iloveus]

the bad:
28 with degree but no career and unemployed
Feel really far behind compared to my peers
broke
chronic pain the past 4 years, spent all of my savings trying to correct it with doctors, chiropractors, physical therapy, etc.


On the bright side:
Taught myself how to code and had one job offer, but holding out for a better opportunity
love the city I live in
good looking / girls are easy for me
anxiety isn't nearly as bad as it used to be

Dude you way unemployed but holding out on a job offer. I'd take that opportunity. Later you can do something else.

[DomainMaster]

My sister has stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. She was doing so well for the last year and a half and they just found it in the bones around her hip. She just had a few rounds of radiation there last week to combat it. She's always on my mind and I guess I can say saddens me to almost a depression. But I try to stay positive and hide how I feel because I don't want her to be sad I'm sad. Yeh know? I just try to see the light at the end of the tunnel. She may not live as long as she should, but we are all doing what we can to make sure she lives a happy life to the end. I hope someday I can afford to stay home for a bit if need be so I can take care of her when it's towards the end of her time.

My mom had breast cancer and she found another lump in the opposite breast last week, so that has been on my mind as well. I hope your sister does well. Best wishes to your family I understand what you are going through.

[NeednOut]

i cannot find a job in the USA .... i have been trying to emmigrate to the States for about a year now with no luck.

[iloveus]

Probably:

-Getting a good GPA for law school.
-The uncertainty of getting an internship over the summer.
-Quickly decreasing money, since the primary breadwinner in the family is out of a job because of the recession.








-No gf/FA status.

There's a recession? Wasn't that in 2008?

[JuicyJeff]

anxiety issues that im talking to a doctor about Wednesday
a family issue I can't post about because I'm friends with some miscers IRL and don't want them knowing just yet until I process the news
haven't hit the gym in 2 months feels bad man
worrying about school and work

[Leon09]

- FWB of almost a year ended things with me last week. Didn't really hit me until a couple days ago when I was bored and alone in my apartment.
- not happy with the way my life is turning out
- no motivation or ambition

[LMAOatYou]

No close male friends, just acquaintances since moving.
Not getting out of the house enough on my days off.

otherwise life is pretty good

[MadNinjaSkills]

My mom had breast cancer and she found another lump in the opposite breast last week, so that has been on my mind as well. I hope your sister does well. Best wishes to your family I understand what you are going through.

Thank you. I'll be keeping you and your mother in my thoughts and prayers! We'll be doing the AVON39 again this year in, hopes they find a cure some day, so families and those affected won't know these feels. <3

*will rep once off r/c

[veggie530]

Taking on a new role as supervisor of my department. Not much support from senior leadership -- always understaffed and productivity is terrible.

Hoping to use it to get to the next tier of management, but it's going to be terribly difficult.

[gatovolador]

Dude you way unemployed but holding out on a job offer. I'd take that opportunity. Later you can do something else.

Yeah take that ****. Make some $$$ and get it on your resume.

[edd4nz]

living in a 3rd world country

[Revived]

-Thinning hair
-Injuries that won't go away
-Can't seem to finish school
No gf (not fa)

[Sanguivorant]

There's a recession? Wasn't that in 2008?

I live near the oil Sands. The decrease in oil prices have really phucked up the economy here and worldwide for oil engineers.

[solidus2k3]

we're all gonna make it

[Teux]

I live near the oil Sands. The decrease in oil prices have really phucked up the economy here and worldwide for oil engineers.

You out in Alberta?

Fellow stationary eng. checking in.

[SoutheastBeast1]

-No friends/family close by (recently moved). Have to get on a plane to see any friends/family I have
-Obviously no social life outside of gym
-Unhappy with my career path, granted I make decent money as a silver lining
-I'm not 180 lb 6% at 5'10'' yet.

[Mythenthefang]

BIGGEST PROBLEM
- "Fat brain" from being fat since I was like 12 or 13

"Fat brain" is a term I us to describe the thought patterns and behaviours that are ingrained in someone who has been fat from a young age.

HOW TO FIX IT
- Honestly I have no fuking idea, it makes losing fat much harder than it needs to be

[Realclout]

not where I wanna be with my physique broke asf not successful 10k/day ceo yet even though those probably aren't real problems nothing is truly wrong with my life i'm just striving to do better so I generally feel unhappy since i'm displacement due to wanting to do better everything else is straight though decent family decent area etc just tired of not being ceo 10k/day cause life is boring without money can't buy anything go anywhere basically stuck doing things that are free which is straight but gets boring brb drawing & reading all day can't buy a guitar first world problems I guess

[ironicinori]

I'm fukkin hungry but didn't have time to get groceries yesterday. So it's either flavor blasted goldfish for lunch, or get off the misc and be productive.

[Dbowens]

no gf
no job
low GPA
pre arthritis/bursitis in shoulders
skin conditions eczema back acne etc
little to 0 social life

[Jhalf]

get awared best friends are sports betting with shotty viet bookie that doesnt require money up front
start paying attention to them
really successful since i started paying attention to them
group of 5 won over 43k in one week
decide to join with one of my friends who was winning the biggest
start week before CFB rivalry week
MAC betting kills us
rivalry week kills us, underdogs covered or straight up won in way too many match ups
try to win back losses next week
NBA betting starts with this bookie and friends decide to make money back that way before studying how the season has gone so far
friend texts me the following week after all the paper work is done and awares me that we lost 26k split evenly between us
still owe 9k
cant by girlfriend engagement ring





FUUUUUUUUUUUUU

[LukeTAn]

Possibly not being able to join the AF because of my eyes