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Thread: Matches have pretty much died ³
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04-30-2024, 06:58 PM #6931
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04-30-2024, 08:18 PM #6932
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05-02-2024, 01:21 AM #6933
I guess she made you into her therapist by the sounds of it. But at least she was straight forward, kind (like you said) and respected you enough to give you closure/a reason instead of just ghosting.
It’ll work out in the end, rejection is a way of filtration on both ends. And hmmm, a relationship is like a machine that takes two parts to work: yourself AND your partner. If one just one part is broken (you or her), doesn’t fit, or both are broken… the machine can’t work. The machine only works if both parts work.
So it could be a mismatch of parts not fitting…. Or dysfunctional parts on their end. Or if can be yourself too—which is a hard way look at it. It never hurts to check in with yourself in some self reflection too to see if you’re seeking connection in a healthy way. Dating is just hard, brings out the worst in people, and can also bring out the shadows in yourself tooGo Jets Go
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05-02-2024, 06:32 PM #6934
Yea, a bit of a mismatch. She was just stressed leaving her job. She didn’t have the best attitude tbh during the date but I understand. I think the attraction lured me to asking her out again but I had second thoughts before. Not sweating that one. I couldn’t picture us together long term, not a lot in common either. But I wish her well.
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05-04-2024, 05:09 PM #6935
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05-06-2024, 09:04 AM #6936
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05-09-2024, 12:28 AM #6937
What are your parameters or things you’re looking for in a 1) partner, and 2) relationship 3) a person?
Actually I haven’t been on a dating app since for like 9 months and switched gears to focusing on myself. Chasing love out of need leads you to making bad choices.
But actually, I’ve had a few offers just from in person interactions. I’m going on a first date with a guy my friend was trying to set me up with—she invited me to a gathering and he asked for my number and he told her I was cute apparently
Then there’s another girl I watched a boxing match with… her friend is also asking about me and he told a few people he thought I was cute, but I haven’t pursued it. I don’t know him or his personality because we didn’t talk together a lot. I figure if we see each other and we get to talking, if I like his personality and he asks for my number at that time then I’d be open to giving it. But I’m not really gun ho at the idea of just handing my number out if we haven’t talked face to face sufficiently.
Then there’s also my cousins friends who asked her, and some random guys at the gym too.
My point being… maybe try taking a step away from the Apps and see if there’s any in person opportunities available to you instead?Go Jets Go
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05-11-2024, 05:43 PM #6938
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05-12-2024, 09:26 AM #6939
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05-12-2024, 09:33 AM #6940
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05-12-2024, 09:40 AM #6941
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05-12-2024, 09:41 AM #6942
yea.. really makes me hate texting. don't like validating them, while getting nothing in return. or getting ghosted.
empathy really runs low in females.. they can lead you on and disregard you like nothing. no sense of remorse, never seen it.
and when the "other option" disappears they try to jump back into your life like nothing happened. really hard to take them seriously. that's why i don't.Defeat the defeatist.
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05-12-2024, 09:57 AM #6943
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05-12-2024, 10:42 AM #6944
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05-12-2024, 09:16 PM #6945
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05-15-2024, 09:34 AM #6946
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05-15-2024, 07:33 PM #6947
Yup and very few young chics are actually into older dudes that they are only going to be dating. They see older dudes as being the same age as their actual dads. And some of you really old cats, grand dad. LOL. **** even me being in my 40's is old enough to be a 18 to 22 year olds dad. And I don't even look 40's, still look like I'm in my 30's, babyface. So most see older dudes as icky, even at my age because they're like eww you're old enough to be my dad. I don't consider myself old but some of these young honeys consider us ancient. So the incentive for a younger honey to **** with us older dudes is the cash help arrangement. But when the site is no longer set up to be for sugaring and only regular dating. Welp there go your younger babies, not being interested anymore, bye bye!
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05-15-2024, 09:57 PM #6948
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05-15-2024, 10:10 PM #6949
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05-21-2024, 07:52 PM #6950
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05-21-2024, 07:54 PM #6951
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05-21-2024, 10:42 PM #6952
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05-21-2024, 11:01 PM #6953
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05-22-2024, 06:36 AM #6954
I'm not attracted to fobs as I posted above. They're free points but sooo boring to interact with. Would never date one. I only like vapid LA asian girls. THe kind that most guys on here would call sloots and "for the streets." :/. I also don't care about stuff like body counts and relaitonships with her dad. That's some Lucifer sh!t. I literally just want a girl I'm attracted to and can enjoy interacting with. That's literally it. I've asked out sex workers and still get rejected if they're decently pretty and have rizz :/
Every man on the misc and in youtube comments chastizes my type of girl yet it still seems like they have tons of options in the real world. Sometimes I think miscers are living in a fantasy land.
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05-22-2024, 08:29 AM #6955
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05-22-2024, 08:56 PM #6956
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05-22-2024, 08:57 PM #6957
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05-24-2024, 12:49 AM #6958
Oh okay. We are definitely after different things. I'm tired of the young crazy sloots with daddy issues. It never ends well. Who gives a **** about sex or whatever.. I'm looking for wife material at this point. I do care about bodycount, but if it's a reasonable number it's okay.
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05-24-2024, 07:13 AM #6959
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05-24-2024, 01:21 PM #6960
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