** Sooo, my GF of 9 years cheated on me for 6 months-SRS-(need some brahtherly love)

[Faboo]

I just got back home from confronting her, feels life endingly bad man.jpg

written in cliff format

I get a random phone number from a chick who just starts out, "im sorry to have to say this, do you think we should meet or is over the phone ok?"
I was thinking she had been in some kind of accident or something, my heart was beating so hard i actually didnt know what she was saying exactly
Then she says "its concerning your girlfriend and my boyfriend" and then my heart sank, im not quick to anger so i waited for the full story.

While hearing the chicks side of what she knows, my GF calls me 3 times in a row, (not like her).... and as soon as i hang up with that chick...ding dong, my GF is at my front door. We drive to a park and chillin, i havent said anything to her....and then i say..."so did a female talk to you at work yesterday" (the chick told me she confronted my GF the day before).
I have my head near her lap just looking up and at that second her heart erupts into beating hard as hell

At first she is like," i accidently sent him a pic meaning to give it to you, its a misunderstanding" ..i can tell she was lying, but the other chick never actually knew anything past a few pics on his phone, i could tell by her words that she was lying, but i actually didnt know anything for sure...

long story short she admits to talking to him for 6 months...and having sex for the last 3 months with him...

I get the other dudes phone number and call him on her phone, and ask the all important question, did he know we were together....he said she told him we werent together at the time..and i believe him...so i told him i wasnt mad at him, he gamed her up and smashed...i cant hate on that (low key she gave me his addy and what car he drives, if i ever need to really get at him)

After hearing everything i was just like "bye"


i really felt like

now im in my room and me and the other chick are texting, might meet up.....stillfeelsbad

PS...we were "looking at rings" when this was going on...


###small update post 140*********

[brozus]

so what's the chick look like that called you?

[TheJoshuaa]

I'm sorry bro, no one deserves that. I guess you can kind of see this as a blessing of sorts though, at least you found out now instead of in a year.

[ohsnapzach]

op do the following


cry
fap while crying
text other girl
bang her
cry
misc
start over *see pic*

[nick1990]

so what's the chick look like that called you?

this
srs

[Pastier911]

damn brah 9 years, couldn't picture that happening..stay safe (srs)

[scarboro]

Need srs tag plz or response might not be srs

[Faboo]

so what's the chick look like that called you?

in relationship for 9years = game at all time low..plus im not even really trying to be like that. just chit chatting

[tortlawbrah]

God that must feel terrible OP. Atleast you are better off than 90% of the misc which is forever alone virgins, never forget that.

[AlleyBoy]

Gf thread with no pics?

[esTHetiks]

Let's go to the bpm 24hr fitness to blow off steam <3

[pikappdrift]

smash this new chick. srs.

[Gemeaux]

I just got back home from confronting her, feels life endingly bad man.jpg

written in cliff format

I get a random phone number from a chick who just starts out, "im sorry to have to say this, do you think we should meet or is over the phone ok?"
I was thinking she had been in some kind of accident or something, my heart was beating so hard i actually didnt know what she was saying exactly
Then she says "its concerning your girlfriend and my boyfriend" and then my heart sank, im not quick to anger so i waited for the full story.

While hearing the chicks side of what she knows, my GF calls me 3 times in a row, (not like her).... and as soon as i hang up with that chick...ding dong, my GF is at my front door. We drive to a park and chillin, i havent said anything to her....and then i say..."so did a female talk to you at work yesterday" (the chick told me she confronted my GF the day before).
I have my head near her lap just looking up and at that second her heart erupts into beating hard as hell

At first she is like," i accidently sent him a pic meaning to give it to you, its a misunderstanding" ..i can tell she was lying, but the other chick never actually knew anything past a few pics on his phone, i could tell by her words that she was lying, but i actually didnt know anything for sure...

long story short she admits to talking to him for 6 months...and having sex for the last 3 months with him...

I get the other dudes phone number and call him on her phone, and ask the all important question, did he know we were together....he said she told him we werent together at the time..and i believe him...so i told him i wasnt mad at him, he gamed her up and smashed...i cant hate on that (low key she gave me his addy and what car he drives, if i ever need to really get at him)

After hearing everything i was just like "bye"


i really felt like

now im in my room and me and the other chick are texting, might meet up.....stillfeelsbad

PS...we were "looking at rings" when this was going on...

better her do this now then when yall got married . then she keeps your **** and a ****storm would occur. be grateful what happened. not your not stuck with a w*hore bag.sloots gone sloot brother.

[StrongScience62]

damn op thats terrible. 9 years flushed on some fling. I don't get it.

[SOUPtheEXTREME]

****in skanks

[BlackHeart.au]

1. no pics?
2. Stats: 5'5", 133 lbs

hahahahha

FKn lol'd

Lucky OP... Glad you found out b4 you bought that ring, Whores gonna whore.

Pics please, so we can squirt on our monitors.

[yelojackt]

damn, sorry brah, i feel for you (srs)


but you dun goofed at a 9 year relationship.. your only 26?

damn bro, i dont know a single couple that has been together for 2+ years starting as a teenager that hasnt had some sketchy shiit going on.

[animalbrah]

not a single pic was
posted that day

[brozus]

everything happens for a reason brah, now you have a guard that's going to protect you until you really find a girl you can trust

[DLove86]

No worries brah! Was engaged 7 months ago- ex literally told me I love you so much one day then 2 days later broke up with me through a text message (haven't seen her since she told me she last loved me-srs). This was right after I moved to a new city and state. And a week after my car and all belongings were stolen.

Allowed myself to be depressed for a bit. Then said fk this, lost 80 more pounds, began long journey towards aesthetics and have made significant career strides.

Be sad but use it as motivational fuel until you can fuel yourself!

[Frumpy]

I'm sorry OP.... I truly am. If my girl of a year cheated on me I'd feel like sh*t, so a girl of nine years must be really hard.

Best of luck sir.

[JellySausage]

Probably the best thing for you in the long run man. You're going to look back and thank the lawd this happened before you got married.

9 years together, so you were 17 when you got together. You haven't even lived, you're going to have the time of your life now.

Also, props on how you handled it. That's how men do it.

[CaptainCanadian]

what a sloot, forget her OP

[nick1990]

in relationship for 9years = game at all time low..plus im not even really trying to be like that. just chit chatting

id go with it dude
i mean, fukin A this is a golden opportunity to begin the slow road of getting over your ex
it is practically gift wrapped for you
just do it

[Holoco]

pics of gf and other chick?

[BetaKnight]

sorry to hear that but no one should go through that so just disregard that your ex gf from now on if she ever wanted to make it up(unless you get to smash her friends )srs

edit:^^expose your ex gf on misc! (srs)


YES SRS!

[kkevinn6]

no pics. ban this op

[BlackHeart.au]

I don't have this problem when smashing guys angus (no homo)

[KruseMissile]

****in skanks

follow that guy's advice. Get a new haircut and ask that chick if she wants to get pizza and fuk

[Datsyukdeke]

Fukkkk brah. Sorry to hear that man, stay strong n I hope all is well. 9 ****ing years, can't believe she tossed that away.