you guys are fuggin right. alright im dumping her. what should i say? or how should i do it?
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12-24-2011, 08:37 PM #181
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12-24-2011, 08:38 PM #182
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12-24-2011, 08:38 PM #183
i generally give benefit of the doubt to these type of threads..... but OP, this **** sounds sketchy.
- her still going after uninviting you
- her getting too drunk- if she was truly feeling bad she wouldnt b drinking so much.
-her staying the night at ex-bf's who tried to win her back, if she respected you she wouldnt have drank to that point, or sleep in enemy territory
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12-24-2011, 08:39 PM #184
i see, strange
girls generally dont cheat unless they have a reason and ideal opportunity
i dunno, no drama/arguments prior to you finding out? i wouldnt cuff a 5/10 eitherway
did she have prior relations to the guy in the pic?
no joke, your situation is like an enigma brah
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12-24-2011, 08:40 PM #185
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12-24-2011, 08:43 PM #186
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Call her right now and tell her to come over and it's an emergency.
When she arrives at your house, Convince her to "get something out of the kitchen for you" while you go into your bathroom and get the baseball bat carved out of ice that you have made earlier today.
Quietly sneak out into the kitchen (If your sneak level is high enough) and give her a swift hit to the back of the head.
She should be knocked out cold for at least 23 minutes OP (judging by your strength), This should give you time to wrap her body in a trash bag and proceed to bring her out to the van that i have left you behind your home.
Take her to "The park" and bury her fatass.
Yeah that should work.Don't be so quick to throw away your life. No matter how disgraceful or embarrassing it may be, you need to keep struggling to find your way out until the very end.
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12-24-2011, 08:44 PM #187
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OP I really hope that after 180 responses you can see what you need to do with this girl. Unfortunately it seems you are in that infatuation phase where you can pretty much justify any of her actions to rational thought and play the what if/maybe thought process. Don't make excuses for her. As other miscers have said, how would she be if it was YOU who slept at your ex girl's, drunk.
We've all been there bro, 'she would never do that' right? Wrong. By justifying her irrational actions you will only end up more hurt in the long run when she does it on a much larger scale and sh!t hits the fan.
Read over your post and think of the situation in third person for what it really is. What advice would you give yourself in that situation?
Also, pls respond.
We need updates!
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12-24-2011, 08:45 PM #188
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12-24-2011, 08:46 PM #189
bro, im drunk right now, but seriously my advice would be, disregard and not even contact her again, like ever. aside from the fact that its a fukking given that her ex's penis waS nut-deep nside her vagina last night and this morning, SHE"S BEEN TEXTING HIM ALL LAST NIGHT AND TODAY AND PROBABLY FOR AWHILE NOW TOO. you don't owe her SHYT. forget about her, you don't even owe her a proper breakup. just ignore her 100% from this moment on and enjoy your chrstimas or whatever the hell it is you celebrate. im on my 7th vodka screwdriver of the night and im watching bad santa, its halarious. its on tv i suggest you put it on and do the same.
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12-24-2011, 08:47 PM #190
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12-24-2011, 08:47 PM #191
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12-24-2011, 08:47 PM #192
I haven't read the thread OP, but the misc is a bunch of forever alone *******s who think all women are whores etc and are a bunch of insecure losers. She got too drunk and stayed at his place whatever if she is worth it she won't cheat. That being said, and not going off the crazy misc logic that all women are whores (even if some are), I'll be completely rational with you and show you why, IMO, I wouldn't want to stay with her.
First, she invited you to a party and THEN when you were uninvited, decided to STILL go.
Second, she got wasted at the party, rather than wanting to rush back to you, her BF.
Third, she STAYED at an ex-bfs place rather than get a ride home, call u for a ride, get a taxi, ANYTHING.
Fourth, she made a huge deal about it. Now at this point, I'll get a little misc *******ry on you and say ya, this is my red flag where I'm worried now about what happened. She is spam texting you saying she feels bad. About what? Leaving you to go to the party? If she felt bad about that, she would have been telling you that all day before she went and would have told you she wanted to come back to you as soon as possible.
IMO, the situation showed you that there are other priorities bigger than you. She'll toss you to the side for what she thinks will be a better time at any time possible. The girl I'm just PHUCKING, no dates, no labels nothing, would toss aside a party in an instant to hang out with me. Hell, she wouldn't even wanna go. If I text her at 2 AM, and she's out and I tell her I'm coming over, she leaves and comes home. She doesn't sleep anywhere and rarely gets wasted (well until recently due to some personal issues). I still dont' consider that girl to be GF material. You can do better OP. It's time us as men stop settling and be ok with leaving a girl.
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12-24-2011, 08:48 PM #193
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12-24-2011, 08:52 PM #199
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12-24-2011, 08:54 PM #200
This. I've been in the same position. Stupid sloot decided to hit on and make out with guys in different rooms at a party she took me to. Wasn't a gf, but she made it clear she was into me and was taking me out. This was years ago. I know much better now. Sloots will be sloots. There is no "maybe she didn't do 'this' or 'that' '' The fact that she was drinking with her ex is enough to break it off. She knew you wouldn't tell her to not go. She has been taking advantage of you this whole time, for whatever reason. And she only feels "guilty" because she feels that you know what she did. If you had no idea, that sloot wouldn't even give it a thought. For goodness sake, some guy bought her a car. It's America. Men and women are equal, and buy their own things. She used him, and is using you. She is using you both. And i wouldn't be surprised if she is using other guys too.
I agree with the fact that she does not deserve a proper breakup. Just delete her out of your life.squeeze your glutes and press
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12-24-2011, 08:54 PM #201
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I've read zero posts in this thread. Didn't even read the cliffs in the OP.
Only clicked on the picture of the gf. Thought I'd comment to let you know that chick is hideous. She looks exactly like Tristan Trouble with his hair dyed blonde.
Not wearing a blonde wig either. Just blonde hair.
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12-24-2011, 08:55 PM #202
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12-24-2011, 09:01 PM #204
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12-24-2011, 09:02 PM #205
OP you have a bunch of red flags.
1. uninvited to party
2. she still goes
3. stays there
4. says she feels bad
5. has been texting him for the past few days.
thats to many to be a coincidence
confront her asking if she cheated. clearly he was more important than you that night.
then let her explain her story. come to misc with her story. we'll decide.
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12-24-2011, 09:05 PM #207
OP: "It's over. I cant believe you would do something like that."
Sloot: "do what?"
OP: "did you think I wouldn't find out?"
Sloot: "about what?"
OP: "About the night at your ex's place. Did you think I wouldn't find out?"
Sloot: "nothing happened"
OP: "Its over. I won't take this sh*t from anyone. Don't call or text me anymore!"
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12-24-2011, 09:07 PM #208
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12-24-2011, 09:13 PM #209
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12-24-2011, 09:13 PM #210
Dude, I wouldn't bother trying to find out if she banged him last night. Breaking up with her is not about that and it will likely eat you up to know. Breaking up with her is about respect. Leave it at that. Don't make it a long drawn out process. Keep it short, sweet and to the point. The longer you spend explaining or comforting her the longer she has to break down your defenses and convince you that she is worth it and you shouldn't break up. She'll cry, she'll rage, she'll pull out all the stops to manipulate you into staying with her. Maintain your stance and end it. Don't give into her. You're the man and you've made a decision. Stick to your decision, and don't back down. You'll thank yourself later to remaining true to yourself, your morals, and your pride.
Don't worry about if she cheated or not. If she didn't and you believe her then you'll back track and question your decision. You'll be right back in this position in 6 months if you stay with her. She doesn't respect you or what you think or what you want. Get out of this chicks life and get her out of yours. There are much cooler chicks out there.***ShowerBEER Crew***
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