can an average guy be successful on a dating app

[MiscMathematician]

i think misc ingrained in me that only 9+/10 chads can get matches

[abdominal69]

it's incel bs
take zero internet advice on dating apps, and just make a good profile and it works sometimes

[Anachron]

Yes.

But you need to have a good profile.

[johnvee73]

Had zero success with dating apps, literally same girls I would message on them wouldn't reply back, then I meet the same ones through friends and family and BOOM, they're all over me, I think dating apps are a seperate game brah, don't take it hard if they don't work for you.

[AlexxVann]

Set up a good instagram page and just pull sloots off that it's like shooting fish in a barrel.

[GaryRidgway]

I can get some matched but they're usually not very good. It always seemed like after a week or so it would stop working cause I don't sign up for the paid version. I've since given up on them permanently.

[LuigiMiami631]

Go to some rap concerts, pose with the hottest rappers of our time. Post on tinder, bumble, hinge, etc.


Watch the likes grow, bishes will be slobbering on your knob before bob finishes his corn cob.

[dopamine72]

- Make a good profile and have interesting/variety of pics (and by good that can mean really simple/short, overdoing things and saying allot is a mistake)
- Then you need to be a good talker/texter to show them you can hold a convo and let things flow organically but don't be fake be yourself (this part some will fail)
- Then you simply need to know how to "close" and that's based allot on the above and timing

Its a whole entirely different game dating online, knowing how to play the game better helps ALLOT

Hinge is probably the best thing out right now (free) I got matches right off the bat, met up with a few etc

Then I decided to see what would happen if I paid for a months premium and it was too much couldn't keep up.. Strait up role reversal..Whoever made the algorithm on this app is a genius

[imbored21]

been on them for years with 0 gfs. Maybe get 1-3 dates per year. With girls in the 5-7 range.

I'm average looking with basement selfies.

If I blind swipe I'll get a lot of matches but I'm
only interested in cute asian girls. I orobably match with my type once a month or so.

[AlfBundy]

Nope. But an average guy can have success on Doublelist.com. Srs

[LuigiMiami631]

been on them for years with 0 gfs. Maybe get 1-3 dates per year. With girls in the 5-7 range.

I'm average looking with basement selfies.

If I blind swipe I'll get a lot of matches but I'm
only interested in cute asian girls. I orobably match with my type once a month or so.

Bro you are not even average looking. Your just looking and that is putting it to you gently.

You are like Chris Chringle minus the everything.

Not even Nicki Minaj would spit on you before when she was a cracked out D bag.

[jesb7826]

What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.

[LuigiMiami631]

What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.

According to google, this is average:



According to AI, this is an average guy from Pennsylvania:

[MiscMathematician]

What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.

medium look, medium success in life

enthusiastic and great libido

late 30s and has nothing else to do but than pouring it all into a potentail family

[friesbruh]

not anymore. maybe in 2014 yea.

[Paul Kreul]

Post your pic & profile.

Let’s cool it with the hate, & give OP legit advice.

[MiscMathematician]

Post your pic & profile.

Let’s cool it with the hate, & give OP legit advice.

dont even know how to make one srs

[Onlinedatingcel]

Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

[coast2coastam]

medium look, medium success in life

enthusiastic and great libido

late 30s and has nothing else to do but than pouring it all into a potentail family

Aren't you a math professor at a university? How is that medium success? Strong standards.

[MiscMathematician]

Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

his level of awareness on his appearance, his scientific approach, as well has his courage is astounding. i was just all about love and appreciation, wanting a fairy tale type thing

[MiscMathematician]

Aren't you a math professor at a university? How is that medium success? Strong standards.

i love what I do. I guess I have low self esteem

[bigbtree]

Yeah just dont get your expectations up. Especially if u are just using the free version. I get a lot of matches from women im not very attracted to I need to stop doing that lol, and sometimes I will be into a woman and she doesnt reciprocate the same interest so it makes me wonder if they just mass swipe too, or maybe she is attracted to me but just has the personality of a toad. Just dont let it get in your head, know your worth.. as much as misc praises aesthetics life isnt all about that.. actually the bible shows God despises peoples obsession with vanity.. so if that woman is judging you based off surface level stuff maybe she doesnt deserve your time anyway.

[LuigiMiami631]

Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

This dude is white. He will do well in South Korea or anywhere else for that matter.

[WishIWasJawBrah]

Found OPs profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/co...ying/#lightbox

[imbored21]

Found OPs profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/co...ying/#lightbox

he definitely does not have a six pack

[MiscerLonely3]

No, if the average guy was even moderately successful on dating apps then there wouldn’t be all these threads all over the internet asking these questions or asking “where/how to meet girls to date”.

You’re a smart guy, you know the answer. If average guys were successful with online dating more guys here wouldn’t have thousands of posts and on here so much as they’d have a real life/family.

[monster0ultra]

I can get some matched but they're usually not very good. It always seemed like after a week or so it would stop working cause I don't sign up for the paid version. I've since given up on them permanently.

If even gigachad LARPing as a loser garold ridge way doesn't get good matches, it's not looking good for me.

[MiscMathematician]

i guess i will try men, then

[MiscerLonely3]

If even gigachad LARPing as a loser garold ridge way doesn't get good matches, it's not looking good for me.

Crazy cause Mr. Ridgway is one of the only confirmed actual misc Chads. He is/was an actual top tier guy in terms of looks (no homo Mr. Ridgway) and yet he is single, lack of matches, no dates, no relationship. I respect him because unlike other users he doesn’t fake or fraud threads.

[DeputyDong5]

the experience for the average guy on the apps, who likely already struggles with confidence, is going to be 100% detrimental.

I am not even sure what measures "success" nowadays. I just moved to a new major t5 metro last year. Had hundreds of matches on Hinge in the first few months. Sounds great, right? Half never messaged... another half of those that did eventually fizzled out, half of those remaining, I got a number, and half of that, I actually ended up meeting up with. That's a 6.25% of MATCHES I went on a date with. Just rough estimates if I had to guess. I would say I'm well above average. The time for average guys to capitalize on the apps was when they first came out. The golden age of Tinder was amazing. The turbosloots really did not know what to do.

Your best bet as an average dude is to get in the best shape you can, get some interesting hobbies, talk to girls in person.