So we been dating for 3 years we live together and now I just don’t know what to do. She has told me about her past but last night I found her journal from before we were dating and let me just say she has a lot of baggage. By baggage I mean she was a huge ho. I know for a fact that past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior. I think this is god giving me a sign to let her go but at this point I don’t know what to do. She’s said every man in her past treated her bad but now I’m thinking it’s prolly because she would hook up on the first night and no man will treat a girl seriously if they let him then hit the first night. Wtf do I do?
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09-23-2023, 08:22 AM #1
My girl friend of 3 years has a lot of baggage
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Normal person answer: her past is her past, yes it sucks she probably was a massive hooor sloot and now wants a serious relationship but that’s what it is. You need to decide if she’s worth investing your heart in.
Misc/reddit/incel/online forum answer: she’s a sloot hooor that’s taken massive cocks (alpha) in her past and now is settling with you (beta) for convenience and desperation.
It sucks but 99% of women have baggage and a past. You’re just in a tough spot because you actually know about her past. Most men marry woman that are massive hooors with long past lovers list that they either never find out about or choose to ignore.
I have 0 advice for you other than good luck.
I hope if you break up with her it’s the right choice or if you stick with her that her past actions don’t reflect on future poor choices.
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09-23-2023, 09:19 AM #12
it’s so over brother (ded fkn Srs)
it’s so, so over~focus on what you can control crew~
~flaccid cummer crew~
~you are who you surround yourself with crew~
~mum was an escort crew~
~nothing is permanent so just enjoy the ride crew~
~2.5 inch dink crew~
~Forgive yourself crew~
~Accused of incest by extended family crew~
~It's up to you to fix your life crew~
~deep, sustained sexual eye contact with your own nephew crew~
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09-23-2023, 09:20 AM #13
If you found an old diary from her past where she writes about exes/guys she used to bang that she's been saving for all of these years, then save yourself the trouble and run for the hills now. I promise you that it'll all be nothing but problems for you the more and more serious you get with her. If she can't even be bothered to keep a diary about her old bangs hidden from you properly (the fact that she felt the need to write it in the first place is kind of alarming, but I digress) is a pretty huge red flag.
Just listen to yourself talk in your first, fairly brief post of the thread. You mentioned how she moans about how all the guys of her past (all of whom SHE chose to be with) all treated her badly and what not. When have you ever met a woman who talks like that who turned out to be a legitimately good wife material lady? I mean, come on.
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09-23-2023, 09:22 AM #14
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It either bothers you, or it doesn't
If it bothers you, then it's probably the nail in the coffin and the relationship is on a timer, because it won't one day magically not bother you. Keeping a diary of her conquests is a bit of a red flag tho let's be real, especially still possessing it 3 years deep in a relationship.
sloots gonna sloot
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• all gals are sloots
• all gals have baggage
• all gals think they're victims of past abuse, esp from exes
if she's fun to fuark and not annoying, keep fuarking her
if you're deathly afraid of her slooting, just cheat on her preemptively in order to ft. knox your jimjams
good luck, son
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This exactly. I was once young and naive enough to try and be with a turbo sloot. After like 2 years or so, if I'm honest with myself, it was the reason I broke up with her and it's bothered me since the very beginning. Deep down I just never respected her and I could never see her as a quality woman.
OP should just end it now. If he's doubting it now then it's very unlikely that doubt will ever go away.
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