Spend your 20's as far away from relationships as possible.
From 21-30 I went from gf to gf to gf to gf. 4 year to 3 year to 2 year to 1 year, to now single again. I maybe had 2-3 months of actually being single between each one.
While I learned a lot in what I wanted with a future gf, the time, energy, money, and sacrifices I spent investing myself into people to just be let down - it wasn't worth it.
Treat relationships as depreciating investments, no different than a car.
It doesn't matter how hot that HBB 9.8/10 girl is, or how well you two click and have such great chemistry.
There will always come a point where she won't look as good as she did, the spark in the relationship will fade and you will be trying 10 fold to keep it lit, or inevitably you two will just get to comfortable with each other's company and then slowly develop a "grass-is-greener" mentality before one of you starts monkey-branching.
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07-13-2022, 07:49 AM #2While I learned a lot in what I wanted with a future gf, the time, energy, money, and sacrifices I spent investing myself into people to just be let down - it wasn't worth it.
inevitably you two will just get to comfortable with each other's company and then slowly develop a "grass-is-greener" mentality before one of you starts monkey-branching.
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So go through your twenties with a pessimistic attitude towards relationships that prevents you experiencing true love and companionship.
Then when you get older try to find someone but the only women left are washed up sloots, single mums or younger dumb sloots that you have nothing in common with.
Such great life advice you miserable ph@ggot. But you're shredded right? So we should all aspire to be like you.
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Okay okay I know what you mean and some of that makes sense which I will agree with HOWEVER and this is HUGE:
You want to have experience with females at an early age in life and LOTS....it not only gets some of it out of your system.... BUT you'll LEARN how to handle them so they stay loyal and learn (exact words you used, YOU LEARNED) how they truly are because we've all been fed lies by society
IMAGINE not getting girls then being a 40 year old simp virgin who settles for some worthless hag that has you WHIPPED beyond belief.
All of you inexperienced miscers need to GTFO the net and go slay some pussay so you don't end up like a pathetic Jeff Bezos (doesn't matter how much money he has, WOMEN will NEVER respect him because he has no experience on how to act around them)
Obviously don't spend 100% of your time on girls, HUGE MISTAKE...BALANCE WORK, gym, hobbies, family, friend's etc. But absolutely NEVER don't keep a woman around sometimes or else you lose mojo, experience and they won't respect youJournal: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=139898123&page=240
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OP i hope you have reflected on yourself on where you went wrong in these "relationships. so you are a better version of yourself moving forward. lots of people never learn, and take baggage into their next relationship. so it is doomed to fail.
relationships generally are a waste of time early in life unless she is super amazing - then it is worth considering, but it is rare. banging random women young can help you get it out of the system too. because later in life it is a waste of time and money, and sets you up for a life of degeneracy. look at the miscer that pays for ass and lives at home with his parents
work on yourself, start a career/business - find a mentor. early onSubjecting yourself to self imposed discipline is the surest way to increase the quality of your existence
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07-13-2022, 09:00 AM #14
1. Decide if you want a relationship or not
2. Date better people
3. Accept that people might change
4. Try not to sound like an incel PUA, people are people, relationships are not 'assets' or 'investments'
It kinda sounds like you had retarded relationships that left you bitter.Permanent reminder that MBisonSon is a fgt => https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=181456073
Permanent reminder of his cowardly and embarrassing response => https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=181466023 (if this link is dead, the cuckening is complete)
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im 30+ shredded and find this advice pretty cringe tbh. seems like a good way to end up single in your 30s which aint it mane
was married at 27 to my wife who was 22. i spent my 20s with the boys for the most part. dated but never put a label on anything until i really felt like a woman was wife material. really, you just need to be a good judge of character. in my opinion in your early 20s you should work on finding a good job w/ healthy habits and having a good sense of humor. thatll automatically get girls interested in you. being attractive and **** helps you pull girls but if you want a good wife you shouldn't be out banging hoes left n right cause you get a rep for it real quick.
you can find an 8-9.5/10 with a similar lifestyle and morals as you if you dont waste your time chasing after hoes. avoid dating girls that do not fit the bill. the time you spend doing that you might miss something better.
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My advice to op is to spend his 30s far away from giving life advice as possible.
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lol terrible advice. mine would be the opposite...Marry a young wife in your prime and build a relationship. who gives a FUK if you're shredded when youre 30. Bedding tinderellas gets super lame after you do it for years. I wish i would have had kids in my 20's instead of whoring around. Kids are so much more fun and rewarding than spending all of your time focusing on yourself.
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07-13-2022, 10:34 AM #28
Bad advice, sounds bitter.
The older you are, the harder it is to find a young girl that isnt with you simply cuz of the material wealth you have created (you being a provider cuck)
Its also harder to DEAL with younger girls in a serious relationship, priorities & culture wise.
Sure, its easier to slay if youve taken care of yourself & built wealth and a lifestyle, but IMO focusing on other important things is easier (building a career/business etc) when you have a good girl at home.
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07-13-2022, 11:59 AM #29
It's all about balance and learning from your mistakes and growing accordingly.
If you make mistakes investing in relationships you shouldn't, learn from it and don't repeat the same patterns.
You're likely going to learn a lot more life and relationship skills if you're willing to spend some time dating/in relationships than if you are only having hookups or are an incel.
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07-13-2022, 02:27 PM #30
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