Got slooted on by a girl I thought was a keeper this weekend (srs) (pictures}

[joykilla]

Sorry if this is long ( I provided cliffs and I am getting it off my chest)

Never thought I would be the one to make one of these threads, you see it all the time on the misc but until you are that dude you don’t know how it feels….. here we go, A couple weeks ago I met a girl at work training and we started hitting it off, first time we actually hang out I end up getting her to blow me in the back of my car (red flag? But she was so adminate on being a good girl and we hit it off so well). A hang out or two turns into daily txting and we are really into each other. Clicking on all levels and I thought she was GF material…I live out of town (this would have been potential long distance or great **** buddy situation) so I decided to use my hotel points (I travel so I get a ton) to stay for the weekend and she is super excited to stay with me (she is super into me)

Everything goes great first night, hanging out with my boys, saw a comedy show, went out, literally perfect. Sex was unbelievable, and I could not be more happy. Had I found a keeper? Next day everything is all smooth until we go all of a sudden she runs into two dudes she knows, she literally from that point acts like I don’t exist and for the next two hours goes in and out hanging out with her “hs friends” and not even looking at me, around 40 min later I see her in the corner with a dude who she claims is her best friends ex bf (who cheated on her best friend) and how she was trying to make him jealous. He was all over her, they looked like a couple while I am standing their (across the bar 6’2 master race I can see) like an idiot, I come into town to see her and she does this, one thing to say hey but this looked like I was dropped like a sack of potatoes… I saw him try to go in for a kiss or something and it looked like they did for a second but I was far away and she claims he was just talking close(lulz).

Now at this point I am a floored, time literally stops and I have to be calm with my emotions…. I am not a FA, and do quite well with the ladies, not desperate at all. I know what attraction is and we have been hitting it off and I know she is into me….. Around 15 min later she comes back and I just look at her with disgust (she is either an idiot or just didn’t give a **** what it looked like) I hold in everything until we get to the hotel but I can tell she is acting weird making excuses, putting the blame on me…..I get her to pay for the cab get into the hotel room and tell her to pack up her **** (its 4 am) and go home (she lives 40 min away from dt) she starts balling and freaking out making up this crap about the ex bf who is known for trying to make moves on all the girls and he is a close talker. How if I called him and asked he would back up the story. How I am being crazy, how she wants to date me, crying saying why am I doing this…..


I literally laugh it off, as I have seen what females are capable of doing and tell her to pack the f up and security comes at 4:30 telling us to calm down as pilots on the floor are complaining. I ended up not kicking her out because I didn’t want her to drive home drunk but I took an hour power nap and left at 7 am the next morning while she was beginning me to stay.. Her last words to me were “think of the big picture”… I laughed, thought about how any man can trust some ho like that and walked off… Ended up with 15 callls from her and her crying, twenty five txts…..You know the drill, deleted txt, number , I don’t have time for games like this, total red flag attention whore who thought I could be used as an emotional tampon.

Pics of girl for your time:







Tldr
-meet a girl at working training hit it off really well
-txting every day eventually stop by her hometown to stay all weekend. First day is amazing
-2nd day she becomes a huge attention whore and flirts with a dude (claims is best friends ex bf) in front of me and ignores me for 2 hours. Mad embarrassed by friends. Possible that he kissed her w.e
-Leave hotel with her crying and phone blowing up.
-Disregard female, acquire currency and aesthetics

[Apocc]

Read it all. You should've either tried to join in on the conversation when she was chatting up with the other dude or left right there and then. Some chicks are fickle and two-faced as fuk tho and you shouldn't put up with it even one bit.

Still tho, you kicked that bish to the curb in the end so GJDM, repped.

[Snipes91]

Should have either asserted yourself or left (or gone to flirt with other bishes) sooner, it was the 15 min wait that phucked with you and brought on all the negative feels.

Not much you could have done after that though oh well

[infinityplus1]

Are those pics of the chick or just "pics for our time"

[GiveMeTheD]

Would not girfriend someone who sucked my cawk on first date, coupled with how she treated you as dispensable, no thanks jeff

[infinityplus1]

Also u probably did the right thing OP, especially if it was going to be a long distance relationship

Would have been way too many trust issues

[JusF13]

So who took the face down, azz up pic?
If it wasn't you then das it mane. It's done

[Dhboy]

gjdm

[lupus002]

So she sucks your cock in the back of your car the first time you guys hangout and you expect her not to be a sloot? topkek brah.

Sounds like you handled it well though im mirin

[AestheticNoz]

The blowjob in the back of your car on your first meet gives you an indication of what kind of girl she was. Never buy into that good girl persona. I have heard stories about girls who I thought were wholesome that will make your toes curl. Now after the BJ you may have been all like 'My game is tight, tight as fark is my game' but her blowing you so early on and being so eager to be slammed into the headboard demonstrated that she was pretty much only good for a FWB/Casual relationship situation.

She went full potato when she ditched you and started being all lovey dovey with that other *******. I think you actually handled it well, really well. So many miscers would have made a thread asking 'what do' or 'how do I proceed,' but you just told her to fark off. Very nice... Repped!

... On R/C

[v2sanchez]

Gjdm sloots gon Sloot

[eight-pack]

do you happen to be from Monterey or Salinas bc I have an ex with the exact same thing on the exact same spot as her butt.

[Yero91]

Sucked your cawk the first time you guys hung out...." Is this a red flag?"

Hindsight is 20/20.

At least you ended things correctly.

[Sakeoe]

Proud of u OP.

You did the right thing.

[ComandanteX]

He's a close talker... Lulz

Good job on kicking the bish to the curb.

[_Ishy]

Shoulda prowled the bar for sloots whilst she was whoring herself out there.

[KyleThom]

Grats to OP for doing the right thing..

[joykilla]

Are those pics of the chick or just "pics for our time"

That is a picture of the girl. She just had that bruise on her ass, I don't think it was from smashing because we were calling each other every night but you never know

do you happen to be from Monterey or Salinas bc I have an ex with the exact same thing on the exact same spot as her butt.

No this happened in Tampa, Florida.

[Glutamine1]

lmao @ black zulu dildo

[pWally]

GJDM

Mirin your actions

[SuperTennents]

you thought she was a keeper after she sucked you off, in a car, the first time you hung out with her?

interesting

[jaime5jj]

Good choices were made, that car scene should have been the point of realization. Ending was alpha as phuck

[Girthanthaclops]

lmao @ black zulu dildo

I lol'd. Didn't even notice it first time through.

[BR00LSTORYCO]

stopped at car bj



and you thought she was a good girl??OKAY....

[devlin122000]

If your girl has selfie ass pics. Chances are she IS NOT a keeper

[joykilla]

I try not to judge females for what they do in the heat of the moment because I seem to have a nack for convincing them to do crazy ****. It was more of a one thing led to another and she ended up blowing me but you are right that is pretty much a red flag.

[Levronewannabe]

You and most of the misc are very jaded and insecure (not a personal attack, just fact.)

Because of this you over reacted to essentially nothing. She hadn't seen him in a long time and despite what he did she respects him for some reason. Nothing happened but it made you so angry that you blew up the situation into something much more than what it was. You should have joined the conversation as it initialized and established yourself as the alpha male, but you were too weak to do this.

You got butthurt and had nothing to do but think and over think for 2 hours and dramatized big time, bro. Quit being so negative and you'll find a girl.

EDIT: i know a dude exactly like you who had close to the exact experience you described and after i told him these things, he agreed and realized this is what he's done his whole life and was probably why he hasn't found a decent girl.

[Num3n]

boss. gjdm

[itsggmg]

She came with you, and ditched you. Good job on kicking her to the curb

[ViNDC]

Did the right thing OP. If you get that much drama on the first night out, Fuk that chit