***NO FAP thread to end ALL No Fap threads V5 (Now with FAQ’s and more!!)***

[myrongainsz]

alright so I've come to realize nf does work..one thing i notice when im usually 5-6 days in is I get more assertive and more easily speak my mind rather than think so much about what Im going to say. Im more quicker with my responses and Ive also noticed I have a more confident body language rather than being fidgety...anybody else notice things similar?

same here, i have so much energy now sometimes i cant stop talking. i started noticing these things 2 days ago, im on day 8 today.

no fap clearly has its benefits, i cant wait to till i hit the 30 day mark

[HockeyLifter]

Hnnnng threads I think are fine just as long as you don't spend hours scouring the misc for those kind of threads. Completely denying yourself the female body is just plain sadistic imo.

You gotta be careful saying things like that. The only reason why I ever got to 97 days is because I did cut out all stimuli. the secret to success in this is finding out your triggers and getting rid of them. I made it 83 days before I stumbled across nudes online... had it been earlier in my streak I would have failed but now I'm seeing progress and they didn't make me flinch. Hnng threads always used to lead to porn for me

On one of my streaks last year , 25 days I think, I avoided artificial female stimuli in all forms.No nothing. It's was near impossible ...but I do remember feeling unreal ! It is what it is. Hang threads are fine, yes, only after you aint addicted no more though. Those who are on 150 -200+ days may be able to get away with looking at hang threads for "curiosity" purposes but for us who are struggling to get ourselves free its a big no no !

My advice to anybody who hasn't got to 30 days is to cut out all ways of looking at sexy chicks until they are not addicted anymore. Full stop/period.
Get out of the house and go look at the real thing! Even better say hello !

Quoted for awesomeness... this is exactly what needs to be done. And saying hello is so much better than looking at pictures!

[kyza123]

Sup brahs,

Been lurking this thread for a while now and reading a lot about this whole no-fap craze so I decided to give it a shot.
I'm a pretty objective guy so i hope to look at this not really expecting anything and just kinda see where it goes, testing my limits and hopefully learning a bit about myself.

So a little back story:
Used to fap maybe 1-2 a day
about a month ago broke up with a girl I'd been with for a year, and have had no sex since then (which holy **** do you begin to miss)
Currently in uni and VERY busy with assignments and tests, so it can be quite stressful at times
Generally pretty out going, I like to think I'm a social kind of guy
Have a lot of interviews coming up for possible work so there will be nerves

Previously went to day 7 was horny as all ****, had a chick flake on me so I resorted to a tug, Felt absolutely **** though about it afterwards realizing I'd lost that self control.

I reset and told myself I'm going to do this and am currently on day 8.

Things I've noticed so far:
Not as horny as I was last round, but I think this is mainly due to keeping myself busy but we'll see.
I've also noticed a bit less anxiety and stress about my workload so far, but its far to early to tell.

Will keep ya updated

[TehAustrianOak]

Failed an exam, lost my best friend (the oneitis) and apparently some *******s in my class had went to the principal and told him I smelled like marijuana and that I was high so he kinda interrogated me

What a lovely day so far

[Ruperghost]

Depressed as fuark atm. My oneitis decided to get back with her ex and I now realize I never meant to her even a 1/10 of what I thought. All these feels brahs... I've been listening to emo music for the last half an hour beating myself up for getting so hung up on her.

But... I've never felt this kind of pain, it's intense, it's bittersweet, it's the kind of pain that reminds you that you are ALIVE. I have no regrets at all about what I did, and I know I would never have done it without no fap. I tried my best. It turned out wrong. At least I think I learned something from this experience.

I'll try to canalize all this anger. I have a test coming up on Friday, but after that I'm gonna go out and I swear I'm going to **** everything on sight

[quelopario]

murdered the gym bruhs, MURDERED

cutting and getting stronger, who's with me? nofapsuperpowers

[KyBrah32]

Depressed as fuark atm. My oneitis decided to get back with her ex and I now realize I never meant to her even a 1/10 of what I thought. All these feels brahs... I've been listening to emo music for the last half an hour beating myself up for getting so hung up on her.

But... I've never felt this kind of pain, it's intense, it's bittersweet, it's the kind of pain that reminds you that you are ALIVE. I have no regrets at all about what I did, and I know I would never have done it without no fap. I tried my best. It turned out wrong. At least I think I learned something from this experience.

I'll try to canalize all this anger. I have a test coming up on Friday, but after that I'm gonna go out and I swear I'm going to **** everything on sight

blast some metal and hit the gym

[GraphPaperBrah]

Day 1 bros. Disappointed in self.

[alexanderberg]

No fap feels V1

[wolfram22]

never posted ITT but here we go:

~day 60 of no fap/pron (not really sure its been at least 2 months though)

positives:

1) increased confidence
2) when I go out at parties I always feel more energetic with all the girls around me as potential hookups
3) no feeling depressed after whacking it to pr0n in a dark room

only negative:

I wouldn't say standards have lowered as I've gone after some hotter girls post no fap. But, my problem is that some nights I will refuse to go home w/o hooking up with a girl or bringing one home... has lead to me making a few hookups that I regret. Have also hit on a few girls from class while out and if it was unsuccessful it makes that next class a little awkward lol but thats life I guess...


overall - strongly suggest it to anyone who wants increased energy, confidence, and self-control!

[Timvv]

Checking in for april, day 122 I believe.

Might have some time on Wednesday morning to read/post. But feel free to pm me if there's questions :P

[WhirlwindTobias]

never posted ITT but here we go:

Actually you have:

havent watched pr0n in a few months now and no urge to watch it really

i do fap occasionally when the urge is there

since quitting tho ive become a horny bastard srs. last friday ended up hooking up with 3 girls at 3 different bars then taking one home. no e-brag but my drunk auto-pilot is now always on find chick mode

[AxelSteel]

Haven't posted for a while ITT, but I'm still in it. Don't you count me out Tobias.
Day 51.
Exams are closing in and a lot of presentations are due, stay good brahs.

[Dank16]

Depressed as fuark atm. My oneitis decided to get back with her ex and I now realize I never meant to her even a 1/10 of what I thought. All these feels brahs... I've been listening to emo music for the last half an hour beating myself up for getting so hung up on her.

But... I've never felt this kind of pain, it's intense, it's bittersweet, it's the kind of pain that reminds you that you are ALIVE. I have no regrets at all about what I did, and I know I would never have done it without no fap. I tried my best. It turned out wrong. At least I think I learned something from this experience.

I'll try to canalize all this anger. I have a test coming up on Friday, but after that I'm gonna go out and I swear I'm going to **** everything on sight

**** dude ive been there before

[Zorikito]

Yesterday was day 11 for me. I've noticed less awkwardness around women and also a decrease in weird thoughts.

[wolfram22]

Actually you have:

i forgot about making that post srs

guess thats why im red now

yolo (:

[Blue_Eyes84]

Today is day 45 for me also, brah.

I'll chime in a little bit..

I've had sex 6 or 7 times since I started, so my "urges" haven't been that bad really, and therefore my experiences may differ from yours.

When you say pre-cum, are you doing it random times without sexual arousal? (Ie without a girl)

I pre cum when I'm with women. But only like if we're kissing/grinding, grabbing, oral etc etc.. I don't wake with morning wood and pre cum just from random boners tho.

But since starting no fap, I haven't experienced any more or less pre cum, so idk..

Also, this is why I've never had "blue balls." If I get teased or mess around without having an orgasm, I'm good cause the pre cum is sort of a release in itself..

Are you having sex at all on no fap?

No sex at all ATM.That's whats making it so difficult.

I'll wake up in the morning.Go to the bathroom,afterwards I feel a release.

Same thing happens after the gym and in the shower.

[CraigC1982]

Some advice needed no fap brahs.

Does anyone else get intense pain after a couple of days? It's like all the tubes are completely swollen and it literally aches constantly. Tried ignoring it but it stays like that until fapping. Seems ok if there's absolutely no stimulation at all, but come on, you're always texting someone or flirting or something.... Feels seriously bad.

[duglosh]

Today is day 28 brahs. I've been horny as **** recently but I can control myself. The first 2.5 weeks were all about breaking the habit rather than overcoming urges. Since then I have def experienced a test boost as I am very horny, more aggressive in the gym and less self concious. I am guaranteed sex this wkend with a HBB so really looking forward to busting a nut. I made it beyond 90 days before (94/5 i think) but I dont think I had truely 'reset' as such. This time I will not be fapping again. Will update again at another milestone (50days). Wish me luck brahs. Keep up the good work!

[pauly215]

I think 3 months have passed since I started no fap/ porn. It does work brahs we are going to make it.

[DanielC1]

In, On day 8 or 9 or 10 honestly can't remember and i think it's for the better still waiting on that two or so week feel everyone is describing honestly as mentioned above so far it has been about fighting the habbit and breaking it than beating an urge as of yet. Will keep you updated.

[ChillBot]

2 days away from breaking my record...feelgoodman

[SuccessfulBrah]

Day 1 is today.

Too many problems to mention from fapping. Will report my progress.

[WhirlwindTobias]

Some advice needed no fap brahs.

Does anyone else get intense pain after a couple of days? It's like all the tubes are completely swollen and it literally aches constantly. Tried ignoring it but it stays like that until fapping. Seems ok if there's absolutely no stimulation at all, but come on, you're always texting someone or flirting or something.... Feels seriously bad.

Based on your last sentence, I presume you're getting aroused from communicating with girls. If that's the case you're simply getting blue balls.

I got blue balls 2-3 times a week when I was in my last relationship, thanks to zero physical moments with her I had no release and I'd often suffer for 2-3 hours at a time. Sometimes I would literally lie in bed just waiting for the pain to go because I struggled to walk never-mind do anything that required concentration. But I dealt with the pain, just like you need to because it always subsides. Every time.

If you can't deal with blue balls, you'll get nowhere. I dealt with mine, now I'm on 280 days. You've just reminded me that I haven't had blue balls since me and her broke up, heh heh.

but come on, you're always texting someone or flirting or something....

...yeah...always texting someone or flirting. We're all in that category... :\

[qurs]

Been watching porn everyday for 17 years. Quitting that **** now. Won't fap for at least a month and then will keep it to a minimum. I'll try to make it.

[EmptyStreets]

Some advice needed no fap brahs.

Does anyone else get intense pain after a couple of days? It's like all the tubes are completely swollen and it literally aches constantly. Tried ignoring it but it stays like that until fapping. Seems ok if there's absolutely no stimulation at all, but come on, you're always texting someone or flirting or something.... Feels seriously bad.

Blue alls of peace. I couldn't walk properly for a day but it went away after the 2nd day.

Also, day 30 checking in.

[CraigC1982]

Based on your last sentence, I presume you're getting aroused from communicating with girls. If that's the case you're simply getting blue balls.

I got blue balls 2-3 times a week when I was in my last relationship, thanks to zero physical moments with her I had no release and I'd often suffer for 2-3 hours at a time. Sometimes I would literally lie in bed just waiting for the pain to go because I struggled to walk never-mind do anything that required concentration. But I dealt with the pain, just like you need to because it always subsides. Every time.

If you can't deal with blue balls, you'll get nowhere. I dealt with mine, now I'm on 280 days. You've just reminded me that I haven't had blue balls since me and her broke up, heh heh.

but come on, you're always texting someone or flirting or something....

...yeah...always texting someone or flirting. We're all in that category... :\

Thanks man, I'll just deal with it.

I've got the mental discipline to not fap no problem, it's the actual physical discomfort that's the killer. It's usually if I know I'm having sex at the weekend and the anticipation that causes it.

[NorseBB]

I need support/advice brahs, badly...

I'm 16, I've done no fap 2xs first time lasting 18days, and the second day 21 days. Right now, I'm fapping once a week and might restart a new cycle come May. At this point, my focus is straight on no porn...and this is why:

There was a point in my life (last year) where I was watching porn and fapping 2-3 times daily, and of course the cycle took it's toll. After a while, the whole "novelty" part of the addiction kicked in, and literally everytime I wanted to fap, I had to look up something different. Now that I look back on it, I think I went through every race, situation, category, fetish, exc... and the very next day, my mindset on it was "wtf, why did you do that". Not only did I end up fapping to weird chit, but I had to scroll through the thing to find the perfect scene.

Anyway, after a while I said phuck this and stopped watching it altogether. I can't remember the last time I watched anything....but I have a problem.

For some reason, a few weeks ago, everything came back to haunt me. Looking back on it makes me feel depressed as hell. 15, everyone was having a good time while I blew a summer doing that. I feel like I have 0 self respect left. All this is killing my motivation.


What do?

[WhirlwindTobias]

I've got the mental discipline to not fap no problem, it's the actual physical discomfort that's the killer. It's usually if I know I'm having sex at the weekend and the anticipation that causes it.

Consider yourself lucky you're getting anything. I never did get physical with that girl, a 2 month relationship of waiting while she schlicked every night and went into elaborate detail of what we would do. ****ing killed me.

Regarding discomfort, there's a few people I work with who know about my NoFap journey because there's been a few occasions where I was walking around like I had a sprained hamstring and they wanted details on why.

What do?

Ah Norse, welcome back! It's good to see you again.

Unfortunately there's nothing you can do, as it's the past. What's done is done. The quicker you accept that, the quicker you can learn from the experience and move on.

[NorseBB]

Consider yourself lucky you're getting anything. I never did get physical with that girl, a 2 month relationship of waiting while she schlicked every night and went into elaborate detail of what we would do. ****ing killed me.

Regarding discomfort, there's a few people I work with who know about my NoFap journey because there's been a few occasions where I was walking around like I had a sprained hamstring and they wanted details on why. Ah Norse, welcome back! It's good to see you again.

Unfortunately there's nothing you can do, as it's the past. What's done is done. The quicker you accept that, the quicker you can learn from the experience and move on.

I guess I'm going to have to. But is what I described common amongst people who were addicted to it?