How do you guys deal with this?? I've met him and I don't see him as a threat because he is definitely not as good looking as me but it's just weird because they hang out alone together, watch movies together, go to parties, etc. I just find it weird.. I haven't brought it up yet and I haven't shown any signs of jealousy, but it's kinda pissing me off a little bit lol. This is a very new girlfriend (been official for 2 weeks), so there's hardly any feelings involved, but I just don't want this to be a problem in the future (get cheated on or whatever).
Anybody else been in this type of situation?
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More info:
-they used to date years ago (broke up, got back together, broke up, got back together, etc.)
-he bought her a car (lol)
-my girlfriend invites him over to watch movies at her house
-they hang out 1 on 1 a lot..
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11-22-2011, 11:23 AM #1
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Girlfriend has a best 'guy' friend..
Last edited by nickh04; 11-23-2011 at 08:22 AM.
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #13
he better be gayer than richard simmon's underpants or prepare thy angus. No straight dude hangs with a chick he aint trying to bone when he could be chillin with his boyz
"There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances." Leon
*Knights Templar Crew*
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #14
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11-22-2011, 11:30 AM #16
So?
My Best friend is a beautiful woman with a BF. I know him he knows me, and well if anything was going to happen it would have happened within the past 6-7 years of our friendship. My ex also had a "BFF" man friend who she used to love and even got a tatoo on her in resemblance of their friendship. And they never ****ed. Its not really a big deal broski.
Moral of the story is, dont be a pussy beta ******* and understand your significant other may have other friends and outlets in life. Deal with it.*DISCLAIMER: Killdowzer is not responsible for advice he gives or the posts he posts.
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11-22-2011, 11:32 AM #21
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this happened to me, telling her i didnt like it worked out in fights. i just said "ok thats fine but dont be mad when i hang out with other girls" and eventually once it made her uncomfortable and she started a fight about it i just said this guy is tearing us apart, its him or me. choose now
she chose me ofc, girls always choose dick, you just just have to manipulate them a bit. give it a try OP
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11-22-2011, 11:32 AM #22
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11-22-2011, 11:33 AM #23
prankdial.com...... use evil operator between their 2 phone numbers, and you can listen in on a phone call between them (a fairly long one if you are willing to spend a dollar or two)
also, it's not traceable back to you, if you ever have suspicions with your girl and a dude, this is a good way of finding out how they talk to each other when you aren't around
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11-22-2011, 11:33 AM #24
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11-22-2011, 11:34 AM #26
I'm friends with a married woman. I've known her since we were 8. Never treated her like a woman though. I think of her and her husband as men in a gay marriage and I am ok with their lifestyle. It doesn't affect me. It's the 2010s and as long as they don't do stuff in front of me I don't see anything wrong with it.
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