So when I say never I mean in the first year she may have made a move but we have been together for four years and I can safely say she has not done anything in those three years. And when Iam lucky enough to get it I have to give her a full body massage, eat her pussy until she is done then I get the scraps of what is left
She is quite happy to never have sex again and when I ask her about it she blames it on me for not starting it.
Anyone else suffering from this because it really makes me resent her and I want to end a four year relationship so I can have no strings attached sex with other girls.
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06-05-2013, 06:08 AM #1Pick up, put down, repeat
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Girlfriend never i initiates sex, halp
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06-05-2013, 06:09 AM #2
just find other bishes on the side to smash. profit?
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06-05-2013, 06:10 AM #3Registered User
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That sounds like it actually Fukcing sucks.
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06-05-2013, 06:11 AM #4Doesn't even Lift
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If you have an honest talk with her, nothing changes, and you're still unhappy. Find someone else that is more compatible. (easier said than done) We're all gonna make it brah
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06-05-2013, 06:11 AM #5McClutchin
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Dude gtfo of that relationship, definitely shouldnt be like that. Idk if my relationship is normal, but my and my gf will be driving home from the movies and chit and she'll just start giving me a hj/bj as im driving. We'll be home and she'll just get on top of me. Etc.
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06-05-2013, 06:12 AM #6
Don't know dem feels, wife grabs my penor all the time to signal it's on
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06-05-2013, 06:12 AM #7Will dance for mass
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I know that feel OP..
It would be nice just every now and then for her to randomly jump on top of me, get my dick out and start sucking on it. But noooo...
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06-05-2013, 06:12 AM #8Registered User
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typical. Sounds like she is blaming you for not being attracted to her enough.
You have two options.
1. sit her ass down and tell her exactly whats up and that she isnt thrilling you anymore. or 2.(what I would do) when you want it, just take it. Throw her down, rip her cloths off and just take her. I have a feeling she will love that more then anything.
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06-05-2013, 06:13 AM #9
Talk to her about it. My gf used to be the same way talked about it and she changed her ways.
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06-05-2013, 06:14 AM #10Squirrel Brah
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start fapping like mad and never initiating it until she comes to you.
thats honestly what I did with my GF, now she always initiates it.My loony bun is fine
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06-05-2013, 06:14 AM #11McClutchin
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like everyone else said, talk to her. if she really likes you she will change, girl logic will make her scared that youll cheat on her if she doesnt step her game up.
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06-05-2013, 06:14 AM #12I yam what I yam
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This is not normal. Talk to her, and if nothing changes then it's time to call it quits.
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06-05-2013, 06:14 AM #13Registered User
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sounds very ****ty.
Only real option is to have a srs talk. Say its making you resent her (but be tactful obviously).
If it doesnt change then yeah you might gotta break it off
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06-05-2013, 06:16 AM #14Registered User
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Find another girl OP
You gotta learn to go through girls like potato chips OP, then you'll be alpha, and after all your experience with women you'll never have problems getting laid.
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06-05-2013, 06:16 AM #15Squirrel Brah
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not all girls are that horny breh. you're on one end of the spectrum, OP is on the other.Originally Posted by aStRoRdInArY
just really depends if its worth it to OP
there is definitely something wrong with OPIEs girl though.
OPIE does your girlfriend have orgasms?My loony bun is fine
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06-05-2013, 06:16 AM #16Registered User
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I would take this advice brah.Originally Posted by GreekyBeth
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06-05-2013, 06:16 AM #17Registered User
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she might be getting it on the side
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06-05-2013, 06:17 AM #18Registered User
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maybe shes unhappy? Not with you but depressed in general.
****ty life = low sex drive?
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06-05-2013, 06:18 AM #19Pick up, put down, repeat
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Its the worst feeling we probably aren't going to make it brah.Originally Posted by Woody72
What makes it worse is my ex would swallow kum for fun we didn't even need to be having sex we could be watching tv and a commercial would come on and she would just start sucking because she enjoyed it.
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06-05-2013, 06:19 AM #20Throbbing Member
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i can confirm, his gf does this with me tooOriginally Posted by aStRoRdInArY
hi.
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06-05-2013, 06:20 AM #21Registered User
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You must have slipped into beta behaviors somewhere down the line and she is now (very) bored with you. Either dump her or instill major dread into her mind (a threat that the relationship is ending) and she will get juicy again.Originally Posted by Menark
I'd just say dump her though.
EDIT: DON'T have a conversation with her. She will try to turn it around with her girl logic mental gymnastics and either try to tell you it's your fault, or she will change the subject and create a 2 hour circular argument.
DEMONSTRATE your intentions, don't explain them. She will only understand by reading your behavior you WILL NOT WIN by having a conversation.
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06-05-2013, 06:20 AM #22hhhehehe
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Originally Posted by Menark
Why is she your ex? Sounds like wife material.++ Positive Crew ++
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06-05-2013, 06:20 AM #23McClutchin
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strong location to post content ratio....oh lawdOriginally Posted by stevedarsh
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06-05-2013, 06:21 AM #24Avi's ridin dirty
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how does it feel dating an ice queen?
some womens just dont even sexual drive
sorry for your loss bro, i hope there are other problems that make breaking up easier..I was doing some bench and beside me was man 1 doing bench too. Out of nowhere comes man 2, and this word for word what they said to each other. With no expression or emotion in their voice
man 2: you gettin dat muney *****?
man 1: you know I'm getting dat muney *****
man 2: aight keep gettin dat muney *****
man 1: you know I keep gettin dat muney *****
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06-05-2013, 06:22 AM #25Leangains Brah'
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Some woman just aren't starters man... I wouldn't sweat it.
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06-05-2013, 06:22 AM #26Registered User
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four years OP? i get it that some girls aren't as horny as others but i couldn't put up with that.
You need to have a serious talk with her. You aren't even married and its already bad and it will only get worse. If you two have completely different libidos then you just may not be compatible.
Sorry i don't know those feels
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06-05-2013, 06:22 AM #27
lol , this is completely normal op.
I compensate by fapping furiously to anime tranny porn to placate my own insecurities and the fact that I'd rather sleep with men.Last edited by mr4wdTRD; 06-05-2013 at 07:55 AM.
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06-05-2013, 06:22 AM #28Hairiest Miscer
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Scraps after full body massage and eating her pussy? Sounds like the best time to **** her.
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06-05-2013, 06:22 AM #29always hungry
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I wouldn't even have the talk unless she's perfect in every other aspect of the relationship. Sex is a big deal. It will never get better because it's just not her thing. You'll get sick of her.Originally Posted by GreekyBeth
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06-05-2013, 06:23 AM #30[300 Spartan Crew]
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No insult OPie but is she on the fat side? Sometimes these bishes with body image issue have problems initiating because they feel uncomfortable being fat.
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