Girlfriend + bodybuilding

**warbird00** · 10-03-2007, 04:40 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

Hi everyone,

I'm thinking about breaking off with my gf even tho I love her, becuz i feel i was better at bodybuilding without her. It's already hard to eat 8 times a day, and to be motivated, now I worry about her, i feel im losing focused.

What should I do?

your eat 8 times a day, thats the problem, lol

**Big_fuzzy** · 10-03-2007, 04:43 PM

No, on te contray our focus increass because your not constanly thinkig about training and diet and ret, but about her and enjoying being with her.

I wouldent give up my little Italian for anything. If Im pissed off after I miss a lift one uick phone call and Im feeling pretty good again.

Focus isnt constantly thinking about bodyulding, but having everything in place through good organisation so that for the few hours a day you eally need to focus, you can give it all, thats real focus.

I was talking to an ex bulgarin lifter the other day, these guys spend up to 6 hours a day in the gym training with 90% of their 1rm and up.

He said his girlfriend and friends on the weekend were whatkept him sane

**Dummkopf** · 10-03-2007, 04:44 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

1.5 month, it's very serious, she says i'm the man of her life.

Rofl

Dump her. You don't want someone like that

**warbird00** · 10-03-2007, 04:53 PM

Ill ask again, why the **** are you eating 8 tiems a day?

**DraXxus** · 10-03-2007, 04:59 PM

je crois pas que tu devrais la laisser juste pour ?a, ajuste ton horaire en fonction et si tu l'aime sa devrais pas avoir ? changer juste a cause que tu te train

Sorry guys i wrote it in french i didnt realised

I didnt had the time last night to translate it so heres come the message in english :

I said i think you shouldnt leave just for that, adjust your time in consequences and if u really love her it shouldnt be any different only because u are training

**tatortotajigalo** · 10-03-2007, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by DraXxus

je crois pas que tu devrais la laisser juste pour ?a, ajuste ton horaire en fonction et si tu l'aime sa devrais pas avoir ? changer juste a cause que tu te train

Sorry guys i wrote it in french i didnt realised

canadian keyboards aint got a backspace button, eh?

you didnt even edit your post which means you did it on purpose.

**10TonBrick** · 10-03-2007, 05:04 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

1.5 month, it's very serious, she says i'm the man of her life.

lmao...of course, they always say that..and its not serious after 1.5 months, your still in the puppy love phase...

try 2 years...then **** get annoying

edit- if your truly do "love" her, then this shouldnt be an issue, you will learn to work around it, i did and have for 2 years and coutning

**Sickofsmallarms** · 10-03-2007, 05:04 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

Well its my first girlfriend, actually i think bodybuilding is my life since i don't go to school, i work twice a week and i have a sponsor.

Well since you don't go to school, you should have time to talk to her about it and see if you all can work it out. But if BB is you life and you all can not compromise, than you need to break it up.

**10TonBrick** · 10-03-2007, 05:05 PM

Originally Posted by warbird00

Ill ask again, why the **** are you eating 8 tiems a day?

even i eat only 7 lol

**TJ_Strong** · 10-03-2007, 05:06 PM

Lol at this thread.

**SmashItUp** · 10-03-2007, 05:07 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

Hi everyone,

I'm thinking about breaking off with my gf even tho I love her, becuz i feel i was better at bodybuilding without her. It's already hard to eat 8 times a day, and to be motivated, now I worry about her, i feel im losing focused.

What should I do?

Been there too where she's on your mind and you just don't have the motivation you just gotta sort **** out man or get break it off aye.

**W.I.N.** · 10-03-2007, 05:10 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

she doesnt understand, she doesnt want me to take proteins, she doesnt like the way i eat. She says I have no life.

Tell her to stop complaining, that's the way you wanna live, if she doesn't like it then ask her to go away, try to sound serious about it. If she does go, then problem solved, you wanted to end up things anyway, and she didn't like you that much, if she doesn't go, then she'll stop complaining and it's gonna be great. She already told you, you're the man of her life, if she ain't lying, then you're the big prize, not her. Act accordingly.

To the guys talking about this guy's 8 meals a day, I eat 9 meals a day, it's just easier for me, if I eat every 3 hours I'd end up having to eat in an inadequate time, like in the middle of my English course(first language's Portuguese), or my piano classes, so I just eat every 2 hours then the time fits just fine. Idk if that's the OP case but I don't think so, as he said he works 2 times a week and does nothing else lol. That's probably just the way he likes it, a matter of preference.

**allenkster** · 10-03-2007, 05:18 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

she doesnt understand, she doesnt want me to take proteins, she doesnt like the way i eat. She says I have no life.

I usually don't post here.. but man.. if she can't accept you the way you are, and respect your goals and what your trying to do with yourself.. she aint worth it man.. trust me on that one.. I wasted 5 years with one (my own dumbass fault)
a month and a half is a drop in the bucket.... and in the big picutre.. that is not serious...

**xckjb88** · 10-03-2007, 05:21 PM

girls are just the icing on the cake so keep doin ur thing and take her along for the ride

**yancoolman83** · 10-03-2007, 05:28 PM

your lucky to have a sponsort bro .

**ThatGymDude** · 10-03-2007, 05:34 PM

Who's your sponsor ? and where are you from in quebec ?

**LIl_ronnie** · 10-03-2007, 05:35 PM

Unless you can manage your time in order to lift properly and have a girlfriend stay with her if you guys are happy and what not. However, if you can't manage your time between lifting and her attention needs, I say forget her and lift. The girls will come around when you look like Arnold.

I dumped 2 girls for lifting.

**FBDEDICATED83_gone** · 10-03-2007, 05:46 PM

gf+bb+18=wtf are you doing with a gf at this age man. especially with bb, its hard bro.

**Deiboe** · 10-03-2007, 05:58 PM

Personally I wouldn't take any female advice from people that sit around on their computer all day and surf the web..

Btw, enjoy your GF while she's around. Mine is in basic training right now in the military.

**JoKing** · 10-03-2007, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by DraXxus

je crois pas que tu devrais la laisser juste pour ?a, ajuste ton horaire en fonction et si tu l'aime sa devrais pas avoir ? changer juste a cause que tu te train

Sorry guys i wrote it in french i didnt realised

He said something along the lines of:

I do not believe that you should just leaveher for it. Adjust your schedule and functions if you like her. You should not to change just because you train,

**H2whoa** · 10-03-2007, 06:05 PM

what you should be doing is when your in the gym your only focus is on the weights. nothing else. but when you leave the gym so should you also leave all the weight training stuff with it. once outside focus on other stuff, your girlfriend, work and so on. its easy to manage meals and missing a meal or 2 won't kill you.

**Bravodor** · 10-03-2007, 06:06 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

Hi everyone,

I'm thinking about breaking off with my gf even tho I love her, becuz i feel i was better at bodybuilding without her. It's already hard to eat 8 times a day, and to be motivated, now I worry about her, i feel im losing focused.

What should I do?

If you have no girl then some of the magic in lifitng is gone.

Whats the use of being great if you have no one to share it with ?

Dont be a fool. Get your priorities in check.

**RedHerring** · 10-03-2007, 06:09 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

1.5 month, it's very serious, she says i'm the man of her life.

No.

Just no. It is not serious at all.

**Ascendancy** · 10-03-2007, 06:12 PM

Bitches ain't **** but hoes and tricks
Lick on these nuts and suck the dick
Lets get the **** out after you're done
And I hops in my ride to make a quick run...

i couldn't resist :P

**lukeridnour08** · 10-03-2007, 06:14 PM

Originally Posted by Zyzz

Any girl that likes me thinks im a gym junkie and tells me to stop going because my muscles are 'bulgy and disgusting'. I take it as a compliment.

Oh and **** the bitch then dump her.

has this happened to you? i would ****ing kill the b*tch if she said that to me

**uberrabbitguy** · 10-03-2007, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by Alexandre76

1.5 month, it's very serious, she says i'm the man of her life.

is this thread serious? theirs no way.

i dated a girl for 2 years and broke up with her.
their is no way in hell you can know if someone is the right person for you in 1 1/2 months. You cant call a 1 1/2 month relationship serious.

**mattyoc3** · 10-03-2007, 06:36 PM

a whole 1.5 months.

**Alexandre76** · 10-03-2007, 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by ThatGymDude

Who's your sponsor ? and where are you from in quebec ?

i live in quebec city, up twon.

**Alexandre76** · 10-03-2007, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by warbird00

Ill ask again, why the **** are you eating 8 tiems a day?

becuz i ****in want to get big and i ****in love eating

**Alexandre76** · 10-03-2007, 06:40 PM

Originally Posted by Sma****Up

Been there too where she's on your mind and you just don't have the motivation you just gotta sort **** out man or get break it off aye.

thats it, i only see her 3 times a week but shes in my mind, dont no what to do.

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