Women like LOSERS lately, not successful guys!

[ashley2212]

Girls like bad boys, women like classy men. That's all there is to it.

agreed

[Handsome Maxout]

hell yeah... MA represent.

no hijack

[ashley2212]

hell yeah... MA represent.

no hijack

LOL hi

[MonarchX]

Yeees?

If those are the attributes one needs to get chicks then this PUAs and success are just fairy tales!

[tmac4real]

This is why I say that the "money" thing is overrated. Their attracted to confidence more than money, hence even the "losers" with confidence trump the successful guys.

[amberlynn72]

But doesn't the question then become: if a loser has an incredibly hot girlfriend, is he still a loser?

hmmm?? good question?? i would say he is a very lucky man ..haha

[amberlynn72]

Very True. I know this multimillionaire (dads friend) who actually prefers women who are fat and hardly talk. He could pick from the hot blonde types, but he rather declines because he knows they're only "using" him for his money. His out of shape girlfriend he's seeing now is like 5'2" 175lbs. The funny thing is Tom is about 6'2" 190lbs and ripped. He has a swimmers physique and runs everyday during lunch.

He's also NOT the type of guy who prefers to sleep around with women. He's a down to earth guy who grew up in South Carolina and one of the nicest guys I know. He's very humble and drives a beat up honda civic, yet his house in Bergen County NJ has to be pushing 8+million.

Looks, have nothing to do with it. Goes for guys and girls. All the reasons are in the individual themselves, and nobody should tell them differently.

Ok so he denies himself what he really wants because he is afraid of a "gold digger" ??? who says fat chicks arent after money too.. thats dumb...sounds like he is in denial of his own happiness.

[amberlynn72]

Que? I said that women like men. They don't neccessarliy like LOSERS lately, nor alpha males. They like men who are attractive. Attractive men are fun to talk to, and they are popular among everyone, not only females. Losers? Haha. Come on, man.

Attractive men are fun to talk to ?? thats a new one on me.. most are the equivalent of a bubble gum blonde bimbo in my book..LOL

[user23960508710783]

These are also the men who end up making McDonald's their career and once they're out of their 20s, they can't get laid to save their lives so they spend all their money on strip clubs and hookers only to die fat and lonely in their parents' basements.

Stay in school.

And then there are those who stay in school but nevertheless find themselves within the doomsday scenario you depict.

[Jaw-Knee]

Lately I noticed that to a woman, a successful man means a man with plenty of friends, SOCIAL value, and etc. It has nothing to do with his real success. In my university the biggest losers who fail out are the ones who get laid with hottest girls. Success in school or how much $ you make means almost nothing.

And I think there is a fine line between loving yourself and picking up girls.


How do you explain tons of men who are good looking, successful career and education-wise, high self esteemed and YET they get no vagina at all.

On the other hand you have tons of men who are almost bums spending nights in bars and they pick up successful and rich women.

No, women marry successful guys so that they can take control of their assets. Then they cheat on them with the bums.

[amberlynn72]

No, women marry losers so that they can take over their lives and their assets. Then they cheat on them with the successful guys.

hahah you never cease to amaze me..LOL...so whatcha doin on a saturday nite?

[UsernameTaken]

No, women marry losers so that they can take over their lives and their assets. Then they cheat on them with the successful guys.

Hey, if you ever write a book about these things, I'll be the first to buy and the first in line to get it autographed.

Cool?

[Jaw-Knee]

Hey, if you ever write a book about these things, I'll be the first to buy and the first in line to get it autographed.

Cool?

Haha, look for it at your nearest Borders or Barnes & Noble in a couple years. It'll be entitled O'RLY?

[Seraphil]

doesnt matter if those successfull guys get pussy in hs or college... 10 years from now everyday they wake up to 50 grand in their bank account and driving around in a lamborghini... by then they will have had more sex with the hottest bitches than a pornstar would

if you're driving a lambo you prob have more than 50k in a bank account

[MonarchX]

Attractive men are fun to talk to ?? thats a new one on me.. most are the equivalent of a bubble gum blonde bimbo in my book..LOL

Thats such stereotyping... its the other way around in the real world.

People think that geeky nerdy skinny guys are the smart successful ones, but in my high school and college the most beautiful people tend to be the most intelligence and physically fit.

Its the POP culture and the fluff talk that makes people seem dumb... For whatever reason blondes score higher on SATs that brunettes...and have better grades.

[amberlynn72]

Thats such stereotyping... its the other way around in the real world.

People think that geeky nerdy skinny guys are the smart successful ones, but in my high school and college the most beautiful people tend to be the most intelligence and physically fit.

Its the POP culture and the fluff talk that makes people seem dumb... For whatever reason blondes score higher on SATs that brunettes...and have better grades.

Hmmm where do you live ..i am coming over...and when you get all old like me ..you tend to stereotype cuz you experience more..of course how old are you?? I dunno?

[angelfire2005]

any girl who is stupid enough to not see the value in a man who puts time into bettering himself, whether it be by working out, going to college, etc etc, isn't someone i want to be with anyways. they can go hang out with the loser guys for all i care, makes it easier to see who the real classy women are

[sting10]

Thanks for pointing out how much greedier men are than women..LOL..but yet women get called gold diggers hmmm

Well it's pretty much a known fact men are far greedier..take for instance are global warming issue? I think if there were more women to do something about this it would have been done..to many greedy men. If that's all you want .. seriously if i saw yo a## in a lambo ..and 50 grand in the bank..which is really not that much..i would just roll my eyes ...thats how i roll baby.

lets say multiple bank accounts

then you can roll your eyes cuz you'll never get it

[sting10]

hmmm?? good question?? i would say he is a very lucky man ..haha

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MONEY>............................................ ......................GIRLS

most hot girls are broke as a joke anyways, they look for thier dad's for money

[amberlynn72]

lets say multiple bank accounts

then you can roll your eyes cuz you'll never get it

Oh sorry i dont need it...

[xagdxvips]

Ok so he denies himself what he really wants because he is afraid of a "gold digger" ??? who says fat chicks arent after money too.. thats dumb...sounds like he is in denial of his own happiness.

LOL. Megan's Daddy is the Vice President in sales for Verizon Wireless and he works in Manhattan NY. In other words, shes loaded and her daddy just purchased her a brand new white SL55 AMG Convert. Plus, they both come from money. So, in reference to your statement I don't think she's a gold digger. HAHA.

[dixon]

Lately I noticed that to a woman, a successful man means a man with plenty of friends, SOCIAL value, and etc. It has nothing to do with his real success. In my university the biggest losers who fail out are the ones who get laid with hottest girls. Success in school or how much $ you make means almost nothing.

And I think there is a fine line between loving yourself and picking up girls.


How do you explain tons of men who are good looking, successful career and education-wise, high self esteemed and YET they get no vagina at all.

On the other hand you have tons of men who are almost bums spending nights in bars and they pick up successful and rich women.

How do we explain the nerds in high school with straight A's in calculus and are part-time programmers/website designers not getting women? Because they don't have adequate social skills.

The guys dropping out of college are probably partying so much that they fail their classes.

[HSP10]

More than likely you are referring to sluts and gold-diggers, or in other words girls who use guys for something else. Or, you say you're in college....***"MOST"*** (Note the emphasis on MOST) girls might not be looking for long term commitments, they just want to go out and meet people blah blah blah...and in that case social status is pretty important.

It's better than H.S., around here most of these girls like 150 lb. wannabe wigger, ugly looking little ****ers. I haven't figured just exactly why yet, but when I do, I will be sure to tell all and then I'll be ready to receive my Nobel Prize.

Definitely the best post in this thread.

[tranceaddict]

why do people here place a big emphasis on relationships?

[dixon]

why do people here place a big emphasis on relationships?

You mean people here in the relationship help section?

Probably because a relationship can be the most fulfilling experience possible with another human being.

[sting10]

Oh sorry i dont need it...

has it ever occured to you that. no education = no money


and no money = you cant even take a ****

i think you might need money, and the more the better

[Big Hype]

What you consider a "loser", women consider an exciting man.

See, your idea of a successful guy is just an average Joe Schmo who goes to college, has an office job, wears a tie and suit, and lives in the suburbs. Yeah, real badass right there. LOL

The truth is, alot of guys who are considered losers do pretty well with women, especially when the guys calling them losers equate success to how close your life is to that of Edward Norton in Fight Club. Women don't like that ****, it's just a cookie cutter type of guy who does nothing and doesn't live life (by their standards).

What you define successful, many women define as dull.

[UsernameTaken]

Haha, look for it at your nearest Borders or Barnes & Noble in a couple years. It'll be entitled O'RLY?

haha,, and this will be the cover:

[luckylynch]

Lately I noticed that to a woman, a successful man means a man with plenty of friends, SOCIAL value, and etc. It has nothing to do with his real success. In my university the biggest losers who fail out are the ones who get laid with hottest girls. Success in school or how much $ you make means almost nothing.

And I think there is a fine line between loving yourself and picking up girls.


How do you explain tons of men who are good looking, successful career and education-wise, high self esteemed and YET they get no vagina at all.

On the other hand you have tons of men who are almost bums spending nights in bars and they pick up successful and rich women.

makes zero diff...

I have no success at all....i make so little money its not funny

Yet, i have hundreds of friends...I know everyone in my gym and alot from around town....older, younger, men, women, teens etc...

only thing i have is more time to get around and socialize ....thus i have more opps to meet people rather than spend all my time at work--

but i think the key is too live life the way you want too...by your own standards....then you will be happier....and give love to receive it...

[DanJunior]

Lately I noticed that to a woman, a successful man means a man with plenty of friends, SOCIAL value, and etc. It has nothing to do with his real success. In my university the biggest losers who fail out are the ones who get laid with hottest girls. Success in school or how much $ you make means almost nothing.

And I think there is a fine line between loving yourself and picking up girls.


How do you explain tons of men who are good looking, successful career and education-wise, high self esteemed and YET they get no vagina at all.

On the other hand you have tons of men who are almost bums spending nights in bars and they pick up successful and rich women.

I kinda agree. I know several guys who have a high income, studied a lot and are border-line geniuses, but they don't attract girls that much. Just having money doesn't guarantee girls, and it's possible to get girls without having money too.