Women who get divorced after their father dropped 30-40k on their wedding.....

[Pats2022SBwin]

Do they feel any guilt at all when this happens? Especially if the divorce is their fault for cheating and destroying their marriage? This happens all the time and it doesn't seem to bother them at all. I remember not passing calculus 2 my final semester in college, and my dad ended up paying for an additional half semester, and I never heard the end of it and was riddled with guilt for years. For most women though, draining their fathers bank account doesn't seem to faze them at all.

[gmenfan40]

Fathers are usually way harder on their sons than their daughters. Most fathers allow their daughters to cuck them in any angle they can, it's the modern way. That's why Islam is superior where women stay at home and only cook and clean. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

[Shortfuze]

Father daughter relationships are different; fathers are expected to take care of their daughters for life, make any sacrifice for their well being, and protect their daughters till the death. Father son relationships are more grounded on making the son independent, self reliant, able to meet his goals through their own hard work and effort etc.

[tripod29]

They feel nothing and expect 50k dropped on he 2nd round. Imagine having a daughter.



Srs, vry srs.

[Ironmanlet]

Just lol at doing that for your daughter, or your wife.

If that is a requirement from any woman I was involved with I would gladly acknowledge the significant diffidence in personal values and exit the relationship without hesitation. Regardless of how emotionally invested I am or how tight that chit is.

[propreffered7]

dam* i didn't even think of that tbh

i wonder what the avg. wedding cost is

my guess is it's not that high

obviously your big scale one with events and photographers and chit is gonna be pretty big. but i wonder how many do it small

[freeburn]

Lmaooooo my sister did this

Had a beautiful destination wedding on the beach, a ton of family came, pops Def shelled out Hella money making it happen.

She gets divorced a couple years later lmao

She gets married again a few years after that.... The wedding was so small I didn't even attend nor did really anyone that wasn't already living close by lmaooooo

[WoofieNugget]

Just lol at doing that for your daughter, or your wife.

If that is a requirement from any woman I was involved with I would gladly acknowledge the significant diffidence in personal values and exit the relationship without hesitation. Regardless of how emotionally invested I am or how tight that chit is.

This. My wedding cost about 3 grand including a meal for thirty people and was absolutely fine considering what it is, which is essentially two people making vows and signing business documents. The idea of a massive party is something that was sold to the masses, just like diamond rings being necessary.

The wedding industry is up there with real estate agents making commission instead of hourly as one of the biggest scams in history.

[freeburn]

This. My wedding cost about 3 grand including a meal for thirty people and was absolutely fine considering what it is, which is essentially two people making vows and signing business documents. The idea of a massive party is something that was sold to the masses, just like diamond rings being necessary.

The wedding industry is up there with real estate agents making commission instead of hourly as one of the biggest scams in history.

It's Def true

But a good wedding party imo is one of the most fun events a human can attend

Free food
Open bar
Putting on a nice suit lookin good
Hot sloots all dolled up in dresses
All the sloots dripping wet from lovey dovey wedding vibes
Dancing
Fun

Idk Iman I ****ing looooooooooove weddings I try to get myself invited to any wedding I can.

Yeah the ceremony sucks but if the reception is good.... Hnnnnnnnngh



It's just always best when it's someone else's wedding and someone else's dime hehehe

[gmenfan40]

Just lol at doing that for your daughter, or your wife.

If that is a requirement from any woman I was involved with I would gladly acknowledge the significant diffidence in personal values and exit the relationship without hesitation. Regardless of how emotionally invested I am or how tight that chit is.

I already stopped talking to a few woman simply because I told them I would never get married through the state, just the church because the state gives them the leverage in the relationship. Telling most woman that only God needs to be in the relationship, not the government is a complete turn off, which is sick and hilarious to see their faces. Most seem to be influenced by having the potential power in the relationship when it comes to monetary reasons. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

[tripod29]

I already stopped talking to a few woman simply because I told them I would never get married through the state, just the church because the state gives them the leverage in the relationship. Telling most woman that only God needs to be in the relationship, not the government is a complete turn off, which is sick and hilarious to see their faces. Most seem to be influenced by having the potential power in the relationship when it comes to monetary reasons. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

Based. So different last names though?

[guest89]

I don't think they care at all.


Men and women alike will get in front of all of their friends and family and vow to love/be with their spouse forever. Then they just bail. Lmao.


I personally believe no-one should get married twice. I'd most certainly never attend someone's second wedding. So basically you got up there once and said a bunch of vows you didn't mean. Then what, you're going to say the same vows again? lmao.

[guest89]

Based. So different last names though?

They can still change their last name and wear a ring.

[WoofieNugget]

It's Def true

But a good wedding party imo is one of the most fun events a human can attend

Free food
Open bar
Putting on a nice suit lookin good
Hot sloots all dolled up in dresses
All the sloots dripping wet from lovey dovey wedding vibes
Dancing
Fun

Idk Iman I ****ing looooooooooove weddings I try to get myself invited to any wedding I can.

Yeah the ceremony sucks but if the reception is good.... Hnnnnnnnngh



It's just always best when it's someone else's wedding and someone else's dime hehehe

Absolutely. One of the easiest places to hook up in human history.

[Omnivium]

Men and women alike will get in front of all of their friends and family and vow to love/be with their spouse forever. Then they just bail. Lmao.

Lmao. They say 70% of divorces are initiated by women. They are adult children who don't even understand the concept of vows. They just mindlessly recite the words because they want to have a wedding

[crupiea]

If the father is dropping that kind of money on a wedding, he clearly never told his daughter no when she was growing up. Makes sense it would not turn out well.

If you have a daughter you have to be straight up with her and explain how the world is and how men think. She should learn from your example acceptable behavior as well.

[wtfLandlord]

Putting on a nice suit lookin good
Hot sloots all dolled up in dresses
Dancing
Fun

u can do that at bars/clubs every weekend

[freeburn]

u can do that at bars/clubs every weekend

Not the same tho

Girls attitudes and guards are way lower at a wedding. It's assumed people attending are family or friends of the family so they don't have that same defensive mental posture like they would at a club, fighting off random drunk dudes all night.

The vibes brah, they are just so different than any other party scenario

[Ironmanlet]

Some legit responses Monicas. As the leader of the family institution, it is important to establish appropriate expectations concerning consumerism and behaving rationally instead of emotionally. It is important for them to understand if they are willing to allow you to lead them as their husband, sometimes they may be told no, as we have to tell ourselves no on a daily basis. Fathers don’t teach their daughters this, so husbands have to pick it up. The terms and conditions don’t have to be accepted. But express them clearly to be fair for her. Say that **** out loud. Literally sit her down and have the conversation. Don’t just assume the authority. Let her give it to you willingly and explicitly. And in the same way I would bounce if a woman demands a ridiculous ring or wedding from me, when you say that clearly, allow them the opportunity to decline the terms and conditions, the relationship that never started is simply over. A little bit of insanity was saved.

[theraskal]

have never understood why wageSLAVE status peasants are spending so much on Weddings/Funerals

[theory816]

Depends. Some dudes are just losers who needs to be divorced.

[Zelensky]

Natural enemies:

Lion and Hyena
Cobra and Mongoose
Women and Accountability

[Ironmanlet]

If the father is dropping that kind of money on a wedding, he clearly never told his daughter no when she was growing up. Makes sense it would not turn out well.

If you have a daughter you have to be straight up with her and explain how the world is and how men think. She should learn from your example acceptable behavior as well.

The thing is man, the way the world is supports their insanity.

Man’s incessant search for vagina is our insanity. Men put themselves in these situations.

People just need to communicate with each other and state their intentions clearly. As long as all members of the relationship are informed and consent to the terms and conditions, do whatever you want.


But the thing is, we (men and women) are exploiting each others emotions for selfish personal gain. As humans, we all have strong feelings for self promotion and ambition linked to survival instincts such as reproducing. It is engrained in our DNA.

I simply advocate regularly reviewing our own behavior and intentions. Remember the golden rule, and never exploit another human for personal gain.

I also advocate establishing healthy boundaries and clearly communicating them early and often. Ask her for hers as well. And honor them.

[CodyZellery]

Son or abortion crew

[Luc1fer]

No - women do not think like men. Why do you think women will happily let you keep paying for dates, happily live in a home you paid for, happily let you be the provider?

It's innate and natural for women to accept resources. They don't feel the guilt that men would, they don't feel the desire to pay back or reciprocate.

You could argue it's the flip for men, who naturally want to be the breadwinner and provide for their family.

[TheParish]

A woman will leave her husband, children, and completely wreck their lives just to ride Chad's cawk ONCE.

Of course they don't care about their dad's wasting money

[OliverHeldens]

This. My wedding cost about 3 grand including a meal for thirty people and was absolutely fine considering what it is, which is essentially two people making vows and signing business documents. The idea of a massive party is something that was sold to the masses, just like diamond rings being necessary.

The wedding industry is up there with real estate agents making commission instead of hourly as one of the biggest scams in history.

I used to think this this way, but now that I'm a bit older I'm beginning to understand big weddings a bit more. My family is spread out all over the US, so weddings are basically the only time I see these people. And it's a pre-planned event where basically all you have to do is show up. And it's almost always a good time.

When I was in my late 20s and early 30s and being invited to like 6 weddings per Summer, eventually you just get burned out on weddings. But now it's like 2 per year, and mostly family, so it's kind of a little unexpected fun short vacation.

[Apex13]

Lol my sister did that LOLOLKL , BUT ALSO FUK BC SHE TOOK SOME OF MY FUTURE INHERITANCE. BROTHERS SHOULD STEP UP AND NOT LET THIS HAPPEN!!!

[Apex13]

A woman will leave her husband, children, and completely wreck their lives just to ride Chad's cawk ONCE.

Of course they don't care about their dad's wasting money

baseddddddddddD

[Ironmanlet]

I used to think this this way, but now that I'm a bit older I'm beginning to understand big weddings a bit more. My family is spread out all over the US, so weddings are basically the only time I see these people. And it's a pre-planned event where basically all you have to do is show up. And it's almost always a good time.

When I was in my late 20s and early 30s and being invited to like 6 weddings per Summer, eventually you just get burned out on weddings. But now it's like 2 per year, and mostly family, so it's kind of a little unexpected fun short vacation.

The wedding is serving so much more than satisfying unnecessary (I would suggest intentionally brainwashed) emotional impulse of narcissists.

Anyone can do whatever they want for whatever reason they want, I just advocate a deliberate reasonable approach.