How do you cope with your gf or wife not being a virgin?

[WiseOldApe]

The fact that she took some other man's jizz and probably swallowed it - probably 15-20 different men before you.

She probably gave it up to an alpha in a much shorter period of time than she did for you - she let him breed her all night long, whilst she made you wait three months, because you're the cute 'boyfriend type'.

Whilst she would have ignored you on tinder before she decided to settle down, she swiped right for the chad that's banged 100+ hotties.

How do you cope? Do you just avoid thinking about it?

[FelixTheCat1919]

lmao and you claim you aren't sheltered, act like you grew up in and live in some rough ghetto hood

[WiseOldApe]

lmao and you claim you aren't sheltered, act like you grew up in and live in some rough ghetto hood

I'm not sheltered, at the same time I avoid sloots who have HPV.

[John L]

That's life, son. She knows I have had relationships before her and had my dink in other women too. Those other women who had my dink now have boyfriends/husbands, and her exe's now have their dinks in their girlfriends/wives. Circle of life.

Giving this so much thought probably means you're an incel or a cuck. Maybe both.

[FelixTheCat1919]

I'm not sheltered, at the same time I avoid sloots who have HPV.

If you've banged more than say 3 women at college aged or over, there's like a 90% chance you've banged one with HPV. Not to downplay HPV, but it's insanely common. Like I said, you are extremely sheltered in life to not know these things as a 35+ year old man.

[WiseOldApe]

That's life, son. She knows I have had relationships before her and had my dink in other women too.

Yeah but can you love her the same way you could love a girl who had never submitted to another man apart from you?

[WiseOldApe]

If you've banged more than say 3 women at college aged or over, there's like a 90% chance you've banged one with HPV. Not to downplay HPV, but it's insanely common. Like I said, you are extremely sheltered in life to not know these things as a 35+ year old man.

You didn't understand my question in the OP - I am asking how you cope knowing that your wife has taken a bunch of cawk before you? Nothing about being sheltered.

Like for example you're aa timmy who waited 3 months and gets sex once a week - how do you cope knowing she's likely sucked aguy off she met in one night just because he was an alpha?

[stevebec]

This incel cope thread again?

That said, my wife was a virgin, so can't help out with the original question.

[EarlA]

Why would I care? I didn’t even know her.

[WiseOldApe]

Why would I care? I didn’t even know her.

How would you feel about seeing a video of it happening before you knew her? Now how would you feel watching a video of her naked, before you knew her. Compare and contrast the two.

[John L]

How would you feel about seeing a video of it happening before you knew her? Now how would you feel watching a video of her naked, before you knew her. Compare and contrast the two.

This guy is a huge cuck

[WiseOldApe]

This guy is a huge cuck

No honest question, how would you feel seeing the women you love in an act of submission to another man, one who might be more masculine than you. Most even normal guys lose their sh*t if their gf flirts with another man in front of them, so I'm curious to see how the logic works.

[FelixTheCat1919]

This guy is a huge cuck

Reddit cuck fantasies

[John L]

No honest question, how would you feel seeing the women you love in an act of submission to another man, one who might be more masculine than you.

Cuck-a-doodle-doo, lmao

[EarlA]

How would you feel about seeing a video of it happening before you knew her? Now how would you feel watching a video of her naked, before you knew her. Compare and contrast the two.

I’m not a cuck so I don’t entertain these thoughts.

[WiseOldApe]

I’m not a cuck so I don’t entertain these thoughts.

So because you haven't seen it, it didn't happen? Sounds like denial to me.

Cuck-a-doodle-doo, lmao

keep sippin that denialade.

[Cleveland33]

I don't have to cope cause it doesn't bother me.

[EarlA]

So because you haven't seen it, it didn't happen? Sounds like denial to me.

What denial? I just don’t waste time thinking about things that don’t matter. Are you saying your mindset of harping on the past is better my mindset of living in the present?

[WiseOldApe]

What denial? I just don’t waste time thinking about things that don’t matter. Are you saying your mindset of harping on the past is better my mindset of living in the present?

No I'm just curious if you'd be fine seeing your wife getting f*cked by another alpha, before you two met - if it doesn't bother you, you'd think it's OK to watch it? Like watching her bake a cake.

The thing is most men would be traumatised from that and would rather not be faced with the reality of the situation.

What I am trying to prove is that sex is an act of submission, and pretty much no man who is in his right mind would be able to watch the women he loves getting dominated by another man - yet if you say anything against the current dating culture you're an incel or women hater.

[Cleveland33]

No I'm just curious if you'd be fine seeing your wife getting f*cked by another alpha, before you two met - if it doesn't bother you, you'd think it's OK to watch it? Like watching her bake a cake.

The thing is most men would be traumatised from that and would rather not be faced with the reality of the situation.

most people would be traumatized watching their parents get it on but we're all glad our parents did.

[ElonFan96]

Any more than 5 partners is a no

And if she’s had misclenneous diks she’s a write off.

If she’s have 5 long term boyfriends and we all waited the same amount of time that is fine

[WiseOldApe]

most people would be traumatized watching their parents get it on but we're all glad our parents did.

Most people would be traumatized seeing their parents naked - even though it's 'just skin'.

[Cleveland33]

Most people would be traumatized seeing their parents naked - even though it's 'just skin'.

exactly. So just cause I don't need to watch the act doesn't mean it bothers me.

It's like the old slaughterhouse argument vegans use, saying you wouldn't eat meat if you saw what happens in a slaughterhouse. And a lot of people would be traumatized by a slaughterhouse.

[swordplay76]

idk bro

[azzspankr]

So, you're a virgin who can't get laid.

[proudmanlet]

not worried, i always make her feel like a virgin anyhow

[Cleveland33]

not worried, i always make her feel like a virgin anyhow

do they all struggle a bit to take it?

[WiseOldApe]

So, you're a virgin who can't get laid.

No I'm just curious as to how most men would feel about seeing a women they're in love with getting f*cked by another man if it's "in the past' and 'just sex'.

It should be like watching her bake a cake.

[Cleveland33]

No I'm just curious as to how most men would feel about seeing a women they're in love with getting f*cked by another man if it's "in the past' and 'just sex'.

It should be like watching her bake a cake.

again, it's not

[WiseOldApe]

again, it's not

Hence the thread title