Is it possible to be content alone and incel?

[Rebel012]

No I didnt. She was not throwing herself at me for sex. She did not at all indicate she was willing to fuk whatsoever.

The vast majority of the time, and for the majority of men, women don't just come up and grab your dick. Jesus. She showed interest, and then it's your job to pursue, and then sex could happen.

If a guy like you is waiting for overt and very forward sexual signals from a woman (the type that "Chad" receives) then yeah, you're going to be alone.

[Muzzgtpress]

The vast majority of the time, and for the majority of men, women don't just come up and grab your dick. Jesus. She showed interest, and then it's your job to pursue, and then sex could happen.

If a guy like you is waiting for overt and very forward sexual signals from a woman (the type that "Chad" receives) then yeah, you're going to be alone.

The problem is if your a sub-5 and you pursue you're likely to get labeled a "creep"

[BigBallsMcgee]

The vast majority of the time, and for the majority of men, women don't just come up and grab your dick. Jesus. She showed interest, and then it's your job to pursue, and then sex could happen.

If a guy like you is waiting for overt and very forward sexual signals from a woman (the type that "Chad" receives) then yeah, you're going to be alone.

I never said otherwise with the first part. That guy was acting as if thats what this woman was doing and im making it clear thats not the case. Who knows if anything would/could have happened, but it was not some slam dunk puzzy that I turned down like he was suggesting. not even remotely close.


The second part, of course a man like me shouldnt wait for some very forward sexual chit. Will literally never happen. I never ever said otherwise. but that doesnt mean any little thing a woman does is worth pursuing either or will necessarily lead anywhere. Most of the time it wont lead to a damn thing regardless of what you do.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Do you know the actual definition of an incel? It's that you can't get any women, it's not "can get non-fat women who are interested, but who I don't like."

Thats happened ONE TIME IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. I'm 32 years old.

Incel is not all or nothing. When I'm 65 and havent gotten laid for 40 years, does it not count because 30 years ago one woman MIGHT have gone on one date with me and I didnt want to?

Holy chit. one women giving me the slightest bit of attention negates a decade plus of inceldom to you? you're not a serious person with this chit.

[LargePeter]

So if a 60 year old man fuked 1 woman when he was 18 and never again, because did that one time he's not an incel?

Incel != virgin. I'm not a virgin.

But I'm undesirable enough to qualify as an incel because I get zero or next to zero interest and cant get laid to save my life. Thats an incel.

Even the girl you're talking about was not begging for my dcick. Absolutely bullchit strawman to act like she was.

Just find a hooker, bang her a few times, befriend her and try to get it for free

You won't, but you'll be putting in effort and you might learn a little of what it's like to talk to sloots

[BigBallsMcgee]

Just find a hooker, bang her a few times, befriend her and try to get it for free

You won't, but you'll be putting in effort and you might learn a little of what it's like to talk to sloots

very reasonable and sensible suggestion. Not crazy at all

[uneducated]

So you're just gonna ignore what I told you and keep being a selfish ph4g0t?

[Rebel012]

Just find a hooker, bang her a few times, befriend her and try to get it for free

You won't, but you'll be putting in effort and you might learn a little of what it's like to talk to sloots

That's actually a reasonable suggestion for someone who isn't deep into the blackpill pit. Won't work for BBMG.

[Muzzgtpress]

That's actually a reasonable suggestion for someone who isn't deep into the blackpill pit. Won't work for BBMG.

I'm deep into the blackpill and I've tried this...

[LargePeter]

very reasonable and sensible suggestion. Not crazy at all

How the fuk would you know? lmao

You're getting advice from people who get poosy and you keep whining about how nothing works without trying it

[BigBallsMcgee]

How the fuk would you know?

how could you ever know trying to seriously date a prostitute isnt a great idea!!!

[BigBallsMcgee]

That's actually a reasonable suggestion for someone who isn't deep into the blackpill pit. Won't work for BBMG.

The fact that I dont know if you're trolling not is a problem.

[Muzzgtpress]

how could you ever know trying to seriously date a prostitute isnt a great idea!!!

I wouldnt seriously date her or put a ring on it or anything, but casually date her? yeah. great short term sex

[LargePeter]

how could you ever know trying to seriously date a prostitute isnt a great idea!!!

Read what I said again retard

You won't succeed but it's a woman who will actually talk to you because of prior interactions

[WhirlwindTobias]

How can I talk to a mod?

Their usernames are in green at the bottom of the Misc main page. Pick one and send them a PM.

[alltrapbrah]

So you're just gonna ignore what I told you and keep being a selfish ph4g0t?

You must be completely unfamiliar with BBMG? His psychological faculties are entirely defensively mobilised.

If you pay close attention you can clearly see in every one his replies that he never makes any real effort to understand the person he is responding to. His immediate reaction is to “defend”, thus he goes about scanning your post for anything he can twist and distort in order to erect a defence. He then goes about attacking that distortion. He never possesses any real understanding of the actual concept, point or argument you try to put forward, because fundamentally he is not wanting to be open or understanding in any discussion.

I actually find it fascinating to watch it play out, but what I’ve described is why it’s quite moronic that we all try to advise him or discuss things with him.

Voidgaze is the only miscer ITT with any sense when he came out and stated that BBMGs attempts at discussion are always in bad faith.

[mryamamoto]

You must be completely unfamiliar with BBMG? His psychological faculties are entirely defensively mobilised.

If you pay close attention you can clearly see in every one his replies that he never makes any real effort to understand the person he is responding to. His immediate reaction is to “defend”, thus he goes about scanning your post for anything he can twist and distort in order to erect a defence. He then goes about attacking that distortion. He never possesses any real understanding of the actual concept, point or argument you try to put forward, because fundamentally he is not wanting to be open or understanding in any discussion.

I actually find it fascinating to watch it play out, but what I’ve described is why it’s quite moronic that we all try to advise him or discuss things with him.

Voidgaze is the only miscer ITT with any sense when he came out and stated that BBMGs attempts at discussion are always in bad faith.

great post. srs.

[miscbro333]

You must be completely unfamiliar with BBMG? His psychological faculties are entirely defensively mobilised.

If you pay close attention you can clearly see in every one his replies that he never makes any real effort to understand the person he is responding to. His immediate reaction is to “defend”, thus he goes about scanning your post for anything he can twist and distort in order to erect a defence. He then goes about attacking that distortion. He never possesses any real understanding of the actual concept, point or argument you try to put forward, because fundamentally he is not wanting to be open or understanding in any discussion.

I actually find it fascinating to watch it play out, but what I’ve described is why it’s quite moronic that we all try to advise him or discuss things with him.

Voidgaze is the only miscer ITT with any sense when he came out and stated that BBMGs attempts at discussion are always in bad faith.

This guy gets it. A good example is BBMG not wanting to date to the bull**** story it’s now become.

[Omnivium]

Why do you guys even waste your time giving him advice? He doesn't want advice, he wants to bitch and moan and wallow in self pity. He's a lost cause

[Visel]

People care about what their friends, family, and in some cases, strangers, think about them. Too often these cares overshadow your own true inner opinion, and can even lead said opinion to sway. Your interpretation of being an acceptable participant in society, or what you fabricate that society views as acceptable, plays a significant role in this. And as such, it is not uncommon to feel like a "have not" or even an "outcast" if you're without any action for long time periods.

You can live the remainder of your life surrounded by judgmental family pitying you, married friends trying to hook you up with someone every other year and otherwise excluding you from invitations to trips that other couples in the circle are attending. Or you could live the remainder of your life surrounded by friends/family who treat you and include you like a human, don't shame you or make you feel lesser, and maybe also are happily single themselves indulging in their hobbies and careers. Third option is you get your socialization solely from the internet and what's required when you actually go outside, and live like a friendless/familyless monk/hermit. The third option is an easier and self-centered lifestyle, but it can be a bitter pill to swallow if you fail to find meaning beyond "sex/kids/wife/girlfriend."

Many men, including great men, died virgins. Same is true for women believe it or not.

I'll end with this. I believe this to be true for average happiness levels in life: Attractive Women > Average Women > Attractive Men > Average Men > Ugly Men > Ugly Women. It could always be worse OP.

[alltrapbrah]

Why do you guys even waste your time giving him advice? He doesn't want advice, he wants to bitch and moan and wallow in self pity. He's a lost cause

I actually think that what he wants, more than anything, is to always be “right”.

It’s a quality that goes hand-in-hand with his extreme defensiveness. The two traits serve one another.

Think about it. He can’t allow himself to be open because it means he would run the risk of being wrong about this, that or the other, and I honestly believe his mind just won’t let him go there. He perceives it as a fate worse than death, consciously or unconsciously.

His egotism drives and compounds his problems.

Incels are an interesting breed in that although they are loser types who fail with women and often life in general, they frequently have massive egos, centred around how smart and clever they are. This is where a lot of the “normie” hate comes from, because in some twisted way they see themselves as above normal folk.

[bfdehewdbyywhn]

Why do you guys even waste your time giving him advice? He doesn't want advice, he wants to bitch and moan and wallow in self pity. He's a lost cause

youre retarded if you think advice will help a 5'3 black guy get a gf lmaoo

[BigBallsMcgee]

Read what I said again retard

You won't succeed but it's a woman who will actually talk to you because of prior interactions

psycho. blocked

[BigBallsMcgee]

This guy gets it. A good example is BBMG not wanting to date to the bull**** story it’s now become.

I want to date, I just didnt like that one girl.

This happens all the time, but because its me you idiot miscers act like its some big complicated story.

[BigBallsMcgee]

youre retarded if you think advice will help a 5'3 black guy get a gf lmaoo

These people are dumbazzes who cant relate to my experience whatsoever or even comprehend it.

1 week in my shoes and half these dudes would rope themselves.

[BigBallsMcgee]

People care about what their friends, family, and in some cases, strangers, think about them. Too often these cares overshadow your own true inner opinion, and can even lead said opinion to sway. Your interpretation of being an acceptable participant in society, or what you fabricate that society views as acceptable, plays a significant role in this. And as such, it is not uncommon to feel like a "have not" or even an "outcast" if you're without any action for long time periods.

You can live the remainder of your life surrounded by judgmental family pitying you, married friends trying to hook you up with someone every other year and otherwise excluding you from invitations to trips that other couples in the circle are attending. Or you could live the remainder of your life surrounded by friends/family who treat you and include you like a human, don't shame you or make you feel lesser, and maybe also are happily single themselves indulging in their hobbies and careers. Third option is you get your socialization solely from the internet and what's required when you actually go outside, and live like a friendless/familyless monk/hermit. The third option is an easier and self-centered lifestyle, but it can be a bitter pill to swallow if you fail to find meaning beyond "sex/kids/wife/girlfriend."

Many men, including great men, died virgins. Same is true for women believe it or not.

I'll end with this. I believe this to be true for average happiness levels in life: Attractive Women > Average Women > Attractive Men > Average Men > Ugly Men > Ugly Women. It could always be worse OP.

I get what you're saying but most of this isnt really my problem. I dont think anyone cares that I'm an incel, I dont feel pressure or shame or anything. It just really really sucks and inceldom is a pretty unfulfilling and unmotivating existence. One of the reasons I decided to go NEET is that without the prospects of dating or a family I dont even need that much money. Why work.

I strongly disagree that ugly men are better than ugly women. Ugly women have just as many options as good looking women if they simply have realistic standards. Being lonely and sexless is a mens issue.

[LargePeter]

All you gotta do is find one average sloot with a few friends including some glamours, and lay serious pipe. Smash her to the point she's having orgasms - plural - all over your dink, and she will melt. She'll tell some friends. They'll become intrigued Bendigo you know how to bang. They'll start showing interest in you.

Don't use a fuking condom though, anyone can bang long with a rubber.

[HTDG]

The reason for this is simple - most people have mental health issues and insecurities which they don't know they have or how to deal with them, so they take it out on each other and can't help it.

You just described yourself and OP at the same time lol.

OP: maybe stop being a pussy and life will improve. Fukkin ridiculous how soft you all are these days.

[jmal2000]

Read my paper on life:
https://www.reddit.com/r/SchoolOfSha...on_theory_v15/

I think you will put life in perspective better for you. Just add good things to your life OP. Life is Addition.

[HTDG]

I get what you're saying but most of this isnt really my problem. I dont think anyone cares that I'm an incel, I dont feel pressure or shame or anything. It just really really sucks and inceldom is a pretty unfulfilling and unmotivating existence. One of the reasons I decided to go NEET is that without the prospects of dating or a family I dont even need that much money. Why work.

I strongly disagree that ugly men are better than ugly women. Ugly women have just as many options as good looking women if they simply have realistic standards. Being lonely and sexless is a mens issue.

Bro legit all of your problems are made up by you. And if you had realistic standards you would have many options.


You sound like the delusional women you hate lol. You aren’t “neetmaxing” you’re lazy lol. You’re a lazy piece of shyt with no motivation to live the proper life and you’d rather rot than solve your own problems.


“Boohoo it’s too much work” ok if you’re too lazy to get laid then shut the fuk up and take your place as the lowest common denominator of society but don’t blame anyone but yourself cause I can tell ya, everyone else doesn’t have this problem but you. Short people fat people brown people - they’re all out there getting laid while you cry into a computer screen about how it’s everyone’s fault but yours.