I think this is silly thinking. My question is, what is partying exactly?
Is it house parties?
Is it going to events? (Raves/concerts/yacht parties/halloween)
Is it going to events overseas?
Is it going to salsa/bachata/tango clubs?
I imagine the house parties are long gone for you 30s. But the later 3 seem very doable in your 30s. There's a miscer I forget his name, he's always going to some sort of event outside of his country and meeting women and he's in his 30s.
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OK, but perhaps take it one step at a time (moving out is a big step). Would you mind assigning a "deadline" for when you move out? Before the summer? May 31? When does not really matter, and if you do not want to write it here write it down somewhere else. The point is to make a tangible goal with a time limit, and to hold yourself accountable.
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Ya I’m deciding between a few options
$1516/ month in a high rise with all amenities in a 4 bed/3 bath with my own room and bathroom
Or $700 plus utilities in a dirty garden unit with my own bedroom and bathroom
I’m wondering if the high rise is worth it to make new friends it got a pool and everything
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Have you actually PROPERLY investigated whether you have any psychological issues though?
A developmental disorder is a good shout. Visit the doctor and tell them you suspect you have something like that and ask to be referred to a specialist. You’ll be assessed and evaluated and the results could be enlightening.
If you genuinely wanna improve your life OP, my honest opinion is that you should start there.
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This, srs.
Bar culture is kinda phuckin dead, at least as a way to meet women or have "cRaZy aDvEnTuReS" or chit. Zoomers don't do that phuckin chit, and a lot of millennials don't either. Every regular I see at a bar around here is pushing 40.
I wasn't there to see it, but I srsly get the feeling that smart phones nuked the whole bar scene. Like the people who were drinking before 2010 still treat bars as this social gathering place, but the people younger than that either treat it like an Olive Garden to meet friends at or they just don't go at all.
For hookups especially... that scene has moved online now. Cheaper and safer on the girls' end.FA Crew
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