Do unsolicited BJs from girlfriends not exist?

[xeron]

is this not a concept? I'm trying an experiment where I don't make the first move with my live in girlfriend and as a result we havent fcked in 5 weeks

[Anachron]

If your experience is that they don't exist - I got bad news son.

[azzspankr]

Too bad for you

[SmithMachineGuy]

is this not a concept? I'm trying an experiment where I don't make the first move with my live in girlfriend and as a result we havent fcked in 5 weeks

No...YOU haven't fcked in 5 weeks.
She's been fckin.

[DrugsToGetBig]

5 weeks...that aint your gf son LOL

[lightsarefallin]

It definitely exists and it should take place. 5 weeks? Help my FUK. We're on day 4 here due to sickness and that's an anomaly. I'm about to cottamn lose my mind. Our agreement is 72 hours. If it's been 3 days and life has made it so that we weren't able to logistically fit it in, we do it anyways, no matter how crappy it is. Terrible for your mental health to live with a partner and not smash regularly.

[AWillis]

crazy

i had 1 exgf wake me up with a bj every day for 4 years. srs

and randomly just do them whilst watching a movie or driving on the highway

and of course other girls, just randomly give them throughout the day

never had to ask for a bj ever, and never gone without one for more than a couple of days

[proudmanlet]

they exist in my world

[CuttyUnderleaf]

Maybe mention to her that you'd like her to make the first move. You never know with some chicks she may be thinking you don't find her attractive anymore or something.

Some chicks have a major block when it comes to initiating sex.

[Muzzlrpress]

You got a dud. Trade yours in for a new one.

[ChangGang]

You're her second choice, OP. She's not sexually attracted to you. She most likely chose you as the safe beta provider.

Not talking chit. In this day and age of the internet, more men will wake up to this sad and depressing reality about the women they've chosen to be their gf/wife.

Best case scenario is that she's one of those rare females with dangerously low level of sex drive.

If that's not the case, leave her. I'm serious. Sexless, passionless relationships are a dead end. You only live once. Marry/choose a woman who is actually attracted to you and makes you feel desired. Don't go through life never knowing the feeling of spontaneous sex/bj initiated by the woman.

[Holyfenix]

That aint normal if your girl is down for you.

[xeron]

You're her second choice, OP. She's not sexually attracted to you. She most likely chose you as the safe beta provider.

Not talking chit. In this day and age of the internet, more men will wake up to this sad and depressing reality about the women they've chosen to be their gf/wife.

Best case scenario is that she's one of those rare females with dangerously low level of sex drive.

If that's not the case, leave her. I'm serious. Sexless, passionless relationships are a dead end. You only live once. Marry/choose a woman who is actually attracted to you and makes you feel desired. Don't go through life never knowing the feeling of spontaneous sex/bj initiated by the woman.

She tries to initiate sex "kind of" sometimes maybe once a week during this experiment

Lil butt wiggles during a movie, or during dancing or comments, I haven't taken any of them cuz no spontaneous BJ

[tripod29]

You haven't phuked in 5 weeks

I doubt your "gf" has went more than 24 hours. Srs, vry srs

[DolphinPilot]

that's real concerning op. I seem to recall you or someone with a similar avatar made a thread a couple days ago about how his girlfriend is forcing him to work fewer hours and make less money to spend more time with her, then you post this. I'm real concerned about this setup.

[xeron]

You haven't phuked in 5 weeks

I doubt your "gf" has went more than 24 hours. Srs, vry srs

We live together, she works from home, the only time she could cheat on the side is when she asks me to go out for an hour for her weekly facetime with a friend or when she hangs out with her best girlfriend and smokes weed prob once every week and a half. While I don't put cheating past her, I don't think she has recently just by logistics alone

[BalognaNbeans]

5 weeks...that aint your gf son LOL

Brootal

[ralphlaurenbrah]

Some girls hate giving head, some LOVE it. My last girl literally loved sucking dick more than anything in the world and then would swallow all my cum it was hot as ****. You need a girl like that with a high sex drive!!!!!

[ChangGang]

She tries to initiate sex "kind of" sometimes maybe once a week during this experiment

Lil butt wiggles during a movie, or during dancing or comments, I haven't taken any of them cuz no spontaneous BJ

You and I both know this is cope. Be honest with yourself. Are you attractive? Has she ever taken the initiative with sex? Was she the one to show interest in you first during the courting process? Or was that you?

Has it always been you that made this relationship work to where it is today?

[atgbrahsrs]

If your experience is that they don't exist - I got bad news son.

This is the bad news^

The other bad news is that top tier men almost never have this issue.


The good news is that a lot of men are in the same boat.

[frankdtank20]

Dose of reality: even if she's a freak it depends on how long you've been together. The woman who blows you while you're driving, pulls you aside in a park so you can fuk her leaning up against a tree or soccer goalpost the first 6 months of honeymoon period is unlikely to be doing that with frequency at 6 years.

Also especially after awhile most women get lazy and don't make what we'd consider true effort to initiate, expecting the man to do so. After awhile a woman's version of initiating is like a woman who wants a guy to approach her in a bar by looking over at him hoping to make eye contact a few times instead of approaching him herself. Her version of initiating sex becomes wearing something sexier than usual, sitting right next to you on the couch, scratching your chest while laying in bed. The first year she wasn't subtle like that, she'd just drop your drawers and punch your ticket to BJ town. Chances are after awhile her initiating is subtle enough you may not even be aware of it.

[Friendster]

Dose of reality:
Also especially after awhile most women get lazy and don't initiate, expecting the man to do so. After awhile a woman's version of initiating is like a woman who wants a guy to approach her in a bar by looking over at him hoping to make eye contact a few times instead of approaching him herself.

literally that. if youre a good looking dude, you will notice that this is how 99% of women approach and its pretty annoying because it can be pretty ambiguous and they can reject you just as easily pretending they werent staring at all

[suave2000]

Last GF would give me a bj before breakfast and after dinner every single day, we would also shower together frequently and she would give me a bj shower every time. Too bad I couldnt stand her mere presence lmao, nothing bad about her she wasnt a sloot or a crazy just that our personalities didnt fit, or at least that's how i felt. I stretched that relationship for months overdue just beacause of the bjs and sex. No regrets on ending that since every time i text her she comes back to fuk and that's almost two years after the breakup. Still can't stop feeling guilty every time I call her for quick sex since she always tries to reconnect and what not and I always shut her down after cuming.

[newbuck]

I’d say it’s pretty rare. Usually when they are horny the ones I had would just start touching themselves with me, grab my dick or put my hand on their body. Some would just come sit on my lap or say phuck me and look at me.
Plenty of indicators they want to get phucked but no random blowjobs.

[8pieces]

lmao at a gf not willingly give you sex without asking in 5 weeks. you better dump her

[John L]

Aren't you the boyo who's in a relationship that's destined to be doomed? Some chit like she wants to get married and have kids and you're just stalling as much as you can, and she also had a slooty past or something?

[xeron]

Aren't you the boyo who's in a relationship that's destined to be doomed? Some chit like she wants to get married and have kids and you're just stalling as much as you can, and she also had a slooty past or something?

yep

[John L]

yep

So wtf are you even doing? Are you just going to rot until she undoubtedly leaves you?

[xeron]

So wtf are you even doing? Are you just going to rot until she undoubtedly leaves you?

This is probably a yes too, I'm waiting for the perfect opportunity to escape

edit: she wants a baby but that is my absolute worst fear, fck I cant imagine being her beta cuck slave for 18 years. she was 4 days late for her last period and i almost had 10 heart attacks

[Retoaded]

if she is trying to husband you up and going 5 weeks with no BJs or sex dasnotitmayne. That means by 5 years into your marriage at most she is just going to quit having sex with you altogether.