Did I Screw Up My Relationship?

[BulletDodged]

Around 8 months ago, I told my ex to leave my house at 5am in the morning, after we had a argument.

We never spoke to eachother again.

The reason why I took this drastic action was because, she was a aggressive person sometimes. Combative.. Challenging my leadership.

On a few occasions she did things that was quite disrespectful.

One time we had a disagreement & she got angry and told me to Shut The **** Up.

She didn't apologise, she didn't care that she verbally abused me.

I walked away from her.. And because I walked away, she sent me a text message and ENDED the relationship.

Only two days later she began pleading for me to take her back.. I decided to give her another chance.

However.. after a couple of weeks of being nice to me, she once again began being combative and argumentive over little things. Her tone again was disrespectful.

So I told her to leave my damn house.

I am age 45.. and she was age 25.. young very attractive and great sex.

I really don't think at my age, I can pull a young hot 20's girl again.

Did I fuk up by getting rid of a young attractive girl?

Is It ever worth keeping a hot chick around, when she brings too much drama and arguments and chit tests and disrespect.

Also a bunch of red flags.

[InPhase]

Not this again. Do you really want a physco ruining your life with her bull****? It's not a hard question to answer.

[skinnyfat88]

This is your own personal pros vs cons list of if the drama was worth it.

I'd say no, it's not.

I prefer relationships that recharge my energy, not suck it all up.

[sf813]

That's recipe for disaster over the long-term and I would walk away too

Find another girl who is respectful, not combative, and not argumentative. There are many out there.

[akmerle]

The same bullchit you were dealing with last summer? You really 45? MOVE THE PHUK ON.

[BulletDodged]

That's recipe for disaster over the long-term and I would walk away too

Find another girl who is respectful, not combative, and not argumentative. There are many out there.

The battle is on many fronts.

First she is quite masculine and combative in her personality. I mean on the 3rd date we had, she told me that she "has no filter and says whatever she wants of anyone annoys her"

Obviously this is a red flag.

Other problems to deal with, if I was to be in a relationship with her.

She prefers to have male friends, she is too comfortable being friendly with dudes. This is something that concerns me.

She is also addicted to social media, again this concerns me.

She drinks alcohol and has shown signs of being irresponsible with alcohol. Getting drink etc and lying to me about getting drunk.

She has female friends who are low quality girls. One is apparently a straight up hoe, and my ex told me that she was a hoe, yet she still associates with her, and hangs out with her.

She is also used to go to bars and clubs, and my concern is, she might revert back to the party life again.

Then her attitude is a problem and combativeness.

Seems like this relationship would always be a uphill struggle and she is likely to cheat too.

Something long term seems impossible with her.

[1320it]

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[BulletDodged]

Don't know why I am struggling to get over her.

But you guys are right.. I don't need a agressive Woman in my life as things will always be toxic.

I need to get my Shyte together and move on.

[patrenna]

This is your own personal pros vs cons list of if the drama was worth it.

I'd say no, it's not.

I prefer relationships that recharge my energy, not suck it all up.

This is the way. I mean if you're looking for a good time, sure. That said, you're not going to have much in common with someone 20 years younger than you. What do you expect?

[jerrymorelos]

She is not the only girl in the world.